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Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?

 
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Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
She was always faithful, hard worker, great mother. I don't think I can trust her even though I feel she would never do it again. Nobody else can believe she did it neither. She had her tubes crossed at doctor request, she claims it made her crazy. Sounds lame to me, but I love her, can't stand it with or without her now.
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11/12/2012 03:48 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
what are you a fucking man or a mouse?? you shouldnt even have to ask that question.. cuckold..
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11/12/2012 03:50 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Once they go black, they dont come back.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
I truly love her though. It's not a matter of man or mouse.
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11/12/2012 03:51 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
a typical 40 year old virgin trolling on GLP
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
She was always faithful, hard worker, great mother. I don't think I can trust her even though I feel she would never do it again. Nobody else can believe she did it neither. She had her tubes crossed at doctor request, she claims it made her crazy. Sounds lame to me, but I love her, can't stand it with or without her now.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043


Dude, I feel your pain...sort of. I've walked in a gf cheating on me. And have had a few others cheat on me. I have no bigger fear than finding out my current gf (and the love of my life) cheated on me. TBH I have no idea what I would do in your situation but you probably should divorce.

And I doubt having your tubes tied will make a women crazy. Wouldn't that reduce the hormones in her system?
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Just once?? I think you should be alright jack. Lest you want to spend the rest of your days slobbering on your own dingus. Its a cruel world out there i would recommend working shit out bro. Cool story tho bro. I got cheated on more times than i can count but thats only cuz I havent learned what comes after 8 yet.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
I might add there is still a 9 yr old to raise. Always felt it important to be raised with both the mom and dad in the house. I am sort of old fashioned conservative in that way. Can't see my child ever being raised by someone whom may not share my values.
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11/12/2012 03:55 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
OP if she loves you too and is truly sorry? My wife of 17 years did me wrong like yours to :(. Took awhile but I forgave her. If she is sincere about her mistake give it a chance 23 years is a long time. God bless and be strong my friend. hf
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11/12/2012 03:56 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
She was always faithful, hard worker, great mother. I don't think I can trust her even though I feel she would never do it again. Nobody else can believe she did it neither. She had her tubes crossed at doctor request, she claims it made her crazy. Sounds lame to me, but I love her, can't stand it with or without her now.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043


You love her.

Shit happens.

Grow up.

Get over it.

Move on.

Choose to be happy.

This is wise advice, above. Don't piss on it.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
I might add there is still a 9 yr old to raise. Always felt it important to be raised with both the mom and dad in the house. I am sort of old fashioned conservative in that way. Can't see my child ever being raised by someone whom may not share my values.
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If you do leave her, some other man will raise your child. Hard decision!
If you woke up breathing, you have another chance!
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11/12/2012 03:57 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
How old is she man? I got itchy feet after ten years, late thirties wandered, but with her permission.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
and you came to this lunatic asylum to share this and ask for advice why?
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11/12/2012 03:59 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
ask yourself what's so wrong about cheating? whether she uses a dildo, or some other guys cock, does it really affect you either way?
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Here is the real kicker, always had a past love who is quite successful and worships the ground I walk on. She has more love for me then my wife ever had, and she (wife) loves me dearly also. I am just stunned over the events the last couple months. I don't know to shit or go blind.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
She's 43, I am 46. I got her as a virgin, never dreamed she would cheat, especially this late in the game. I was always faithful, had plenty of opportunity to step out but I never did. Family was always what kept me in line. I would feel a sucker if I let her back in.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
I might add there is still a 9 yr old to raise. Always felt it important to be raised with both the mom and dad in the house. I am sort of old fashioned conservative in that way. Can't see my child ever being raised by someone whom may not share my values.
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If you do leave her, some other man will raise your child. Hard decision!
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Not necessarily.

OP, prove what she did in court and you will raise that child. Don't let her get by with this.

Last Edited by Big Irish Bastard on 11/12/2012 04:06 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
just tell your wife you forgive her and that you don't mind her cheating. because it sure seems that way.
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11/12/2012 04:07 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
With who? Someone you know?
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
She's 43, I am 46. I got her as a virgin, never dreamed she would cheat, especially this late in the game. I was always faithful, had plenty of opportunity to step out but I never did. Family was always what kept me in line. I would feel a sucker if I let her back in.
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At 46 your not going to be a desired food item if you what I mean. If she is sorry OP? Work it out. Don't sex her right away either, give it time and it will be good again.
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11/12/2012 04:08 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Here is the real kicker, always had a past love who is quite successful and worships the ground I walk on. She has more love for me then my wife ever had, and she (wife) loves me dearly also. I am just stunned over the events the last couple months. I don't know to shit or go blind.
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So you've been having an emotional affair your whole marriage.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
OP, everyone cheats in this day and age. it's just us being human beings, you ever get out much?
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11/12/2012 04:10 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
The court of law cares not if a spouse is unfaithful. Decimation is possible in 5 states but all that gets you is money if you can prove the cheating spouse was spending money on the cheater. Like a guy providing some bimbo diamonds or something like that, which doesn't apply in my case anyways.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Here is the real kicker, always had a past love who is quite successful and worships the ground I walk on. She has more love for me then my wife ever had, and she (wife) loves me dearly also. I am just stunned over the events the last couple months. I don't know to shit or go blind.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043




So you've been having an emotional affair your whole marriage.
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No, he stated that the women is still in love with him, not that he is still in love with her.
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11/12/2012 04:13 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Yes you should divorced but in a nice way and try to stay friends.
Never burn your bridges man you will need them later.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Here is the real kicker, always had a past love who is quite successful and worships the ground I walk on. She has more love for me then my wife ever had, and she (wife) loves me dearly also. I am just stunned over the events the last couple months. I don't know to shit or go blind.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043




So you've been having an emotional affair your whole marriage.
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No, he stated that the women is still in love with him, not that he is still in love with her.
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How would he know that unless he kept in very close contact with her? It would have to be pretty intimate if he thinks/knows she loves him more than his wife does.
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11/12/2012 04:14 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
No, everyone doesn't cheat, I never did and I had opportunities. I could be sacked up with a very successful women living the good life. My family meant more but now she has done the unthinkable to me and her own child. It's not all about me. The 9 yr old is my reason for being when it comes down to it.
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11/12/2012 04:15 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
The only reason you should keep a bitch who cheats is if it turns you on lmao
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11/12/2012 04:15 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Now cheat on her, paybacks a bitch
Don't blame the puppet in the white house, blame the system he came up in.

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11/12/2012 04:16 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
I could be sacked up with a very successful women living the good life.
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Look deep inside yourself old skywalker, this is your only hope yoda

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