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Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?

 
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/12/2012 04:59 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Just a side note, but both myself and my wife will not have any problems finding another, even at our age. She is still very good looking and has a lot going for her, good job, etc. Trust is paramount and I always let her do whatever she wanted. She always took care of her family before even herself. She is a good women, but what she done is undefendable in my old fashioned mind.
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11/12/2012 05:00 AM

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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
You call yourself old fashioned, sooo... you said 'for better or worse/til death do you part'.


Didn't you?
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11/12/2012 05:03 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Just a side note, but both myself and my wife will not have any problems finding another, even at our age. She is still very good looking and has a lot going for her, good job, etc. Trust is paramount and I always let her do whatever she wanted. She always took care of her family before even herself. She is a good women, but what she done is undefendable in my old fashioned mind.
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Why is the other woman getting divorced?

Who is going to move for who?
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11/12/2012 05:05 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Like you havent cheated on her.
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11/12/2012 05:06 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
i'd be thinking to myself... dna test for the 9 year old daughter if i were you...
just sayin.
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The 9 yr old is a boy and he looks just like me. No probs there, she has always been faithful but this one time. She did all but throw herself on an old HS friend, and damn is he an ugly sob. That's not anger talking there neither, just the truth which I always speak, even to a fault sometimes. Told you I am old fashioned, just nobodys fool tho.
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Why is the other woman getting divorced?

Who is going to move for who?
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I think he should move into her place.


Just my gut instinct.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/12/2012 05:08 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Like you havent cheated on her.
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As I said, No. Thought I had too much to lose.
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11/12/2012 05:08 AM

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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
The gig's up OP though, at least for me because I just heard your thoughts...


You were thinking this story isn't even one of your best and you were caught off guard at the reaction.
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11/12/2012 05:09 AM
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Yes. Go ahead and slit her throat as well.
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11/12/2012 05:11 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Why is the other woman getting divorced?

Who is going to move for who?
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I think he should move into her place.


Just my gut instinct.
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Don't know if that would make me happy. I prefer to be the bread winner if you can understand that mentality. I started with nothing and now want for for nothing. Not that I am super successful, but we live quite comfortably, better then our parents had it anyways.
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11/12/2012 05:11 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
She was always faithful, hard worker, great mother. I don't think I can trust her even though I feel she would never do it again. Nobody else can believe she did it neither. She had her tubes crossed at doctor request, she claims it made her crazy. Sounds lame to me, but I love her, can't stand it with or without her now.
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No don't divorce her.. 23 years with one person is fucking hard work.. Look you think about other woman all the time and chances are you have flirted with other woman even had a little fling in the journey. Just saying we are all only human afterall..
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11/12/2012 05:15 AM
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The gig's up OP though, at least for me because I just heard your thoughts...


You were thinking this story isn't even one of your best and you were caught off guard at the reaction.
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Did he get us again? verysad
We actually cared bro!
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11/12/2012 05:17 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Why is the other woman getting divorced?

Who is going to move for who?
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I think he should move into her place.


Just my gut instinct.
 Quoting: Mister Obvious


Don't know if that would make me happy. I prefer to be the bread winner if you can understand that mentality. I started with nothing and now want for for nothing. Not that I am super successful, but we live quite comfortably, better then our parents had it anyways.
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So the other woman is going to give up her successful job and move to be with you? What about her kids?
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11/12/2012 05:19 AM

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Did he get us again? verysad
We actually cared bro!
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Yeah, he's a real weirdo.



Interesting one!
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/12/2012 05:21 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
The gig's up OP though, at least for me because I just heard your thoughts...


You were thinking this story isn't even one of your best and you were caught off guard at the reaction.
 Quoting: Mister Obvious


I assure you, all I have said is true. I guess I am looking for the magic answer. I know it's not out there but my heart is true.
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11/12/2012 05:24 AM
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If you can't divorced her then you must kill yourself.
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11/12/2012 05:26 AM

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I assure you, all I have said is true. I guess I am looking for the magic answer. I know it's not out there but my heart is true.
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Well you've been given great advice on this thread.

Especially by me. And a couple of those other people.
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11/12/2012 05:27 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
If you can't divorced her then you must kill yourself.
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The thought crossed my mind, but my son will need me. Never had thoughts like that before neither. Other then deaths in my family, I have never hurt like this before.
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11/12/2012 05:29 AM
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I assure you, all I have said is true. I guess I am looking for the magic answer. I know it's not out there but my heart is true.
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Well you've been given great advice on this thread.

Especially by me. And a couple of those other people.
 Quoting: Mister Obvious


As crazy as it sounds, I will reread these posts and I thank those of you sincere with me. I have few that I can share this with and most all say its time to cut the ties. It's one of the hardest decisions I have ever had.
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11/12/2012 05:30 AM
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You don't talk about your love - only your wife's love for you and the greater love this other woman has for you. Don't you have love for anyone? Honestly, it kind of sounds like you are wondering if this is a good enough reason to kick her out so that you can pursue this other relationship - and that you would do it in a NY minute if it weren't for your child.
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11/12/2012 05:33 AM
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.45 and a shovel. Just make sure the body doesn't turn up anywhere.
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11/12/2012 05:33 AM
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ditch her, because if you dont it will drive you crazy.
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11/12/2012 05:36 AM
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You don't talk about your love - only your wife's love for you and the greater love this other woman has for you. Don't you have love for anyone? Honestly, it kind of sounds like you are wondering if this is a good enough reason to kick her out so that you can pursue this other relationship - and that you would do it in a NY minute if it weren't for your child.
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11/12/2012 05:36 AM

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As crazy as it sounds, I will reread these posts and I thank those of you sincere with me. I have few that I can share this with and most all say its time to cut the ties. It's one of the hardest decisions I have ever had.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043



Some do say that...

However one person's way more truthy and enlightened opinion can trump 10 of those other little nagging suggestions.

You had a couple of those on here man.

Their verdict was basically that you want it to be over and you want to be with the other woman.

1dunno1

Either way do what you want, not like you don't have a legitimate out.
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11/12/2012 05:37 AM
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You don't talk about your love - only your wife's love for you and the greater love this other woman has for you. Don't you have love for anyone? Honestly, it kind of sounds like you are wondering if this is a good enough reason to kick her out so that you can pursue this other relationship - and that you would do it in a NY minute if it weren't for your child.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7570540


Once you love someone, I think you always do to a certain degree. I honestly found out I love my wife even more then I realized. I love them both but have a passion for my wife. I just know I will always be wondering if she would ever do it again and I don't think I can live like that, passion or not.
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11/12/2012 05:41 AM
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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
My wife says I worry too much about what other people think, she may be right. I don't want to look like a fool. We have all seen the guy that has women run all over him and that just isn't me at all.
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11/12/2012 05:43 AM

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Got nothing else for you besides this OP.


[link to www.youtube.com]
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11/12/2012 05:45 AM
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Got nothing else for you besides this OP.


[link to www.youtube.com]

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scratching

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11/12/2012 05:47 AM

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Re: Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
Ah shit hey man... I just thought of something else.


She will probably definitely cheat on you again, especially now.


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Sorry dude.


If you guys are already doing the papers you should just go through with it.


I think you'll find 'passion' elsewhere.
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11/12/2012 05:48 AM
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My internet must be bugging up, can't load your link Mr Obvious. Thanks for the thoughts, wish I could explained my situation better.

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