Why is it rare to see white men and black women together ?

Wanna bet?

Lol why do people think all black women have big butts? I don't ! I have a workout buttl Whatever that is.

You look like a sweet girl. I am a much older man (54) and married.

I grew up rough, and have lived in poor neighborhoods as a child. I grew up around Mexicans, and blacks and was exposed to a lot of things that white people never see.

I want to be honest possibly I can help you.

Most men are driven by sexuality. A man looks at your body first. It's just the way we are wired. Sex and food are VERY important to men.

Then a man notices your personality.

Men can love you, most men don't fall in love, I mean the kind of love that grabs you, and won't let you go, the kind of love that has her always on your mind, you can't live without her...That kind of love is rare, and sometimes unwanted, it can scare some people.

OK so now onto the black issue...

Some white men will not even look at a black girl. Some of it has to do with the racial tension, a lot of people perceive blacks as angry and hateful towards whites and with good reason. I know this may not apply to you, but it is a factor.

Most white men know if they choose you, they are going to get lots of sh-t from other black folks. Unless you live in Europe.

Most men try to avoid hassles and HATE being nagged, and bitched at. White men DO NOT think black women are cute, when they get all loud and demonstrative.

IF you can convince a white man non of this comes with a relationship with YOU then it might work...

Lastly, and I know I've just skimmed the surface...You must look inside and ask why YOU are searching for a white man...

Good luck.

Well....hmmm...post some pics and I'll tell ya!!!!

I'm not searching for a white guy. I find them very attractive. Ever since I was a kid actually lol. I don't know why. Maybe I am weird . Maybe it's the white in my blood. I don't know :/ . And I know a man falling in love must be rare! But not impossible,

Men fall in love just like women do.

Really? I guess I just took his word for it. I stand corrected.

I'm not a man so I don't know. I am sure they do. Maybe they have a hard time showing it? Women are emotional creatures that's why they express themselves better. But I think it's cute if a guy expresses himself. Love itself is cute. I may not ever fall in love , but seeing other people in love brings a smile to my face.

move here )

Some advice...never lose that sweetness...the innocence is key to a terrific woman/wife/partner. Sure some of it will shave off because of pitfalls and bullshit. But jagged women with a rough edge are rarely really loved.

I don't have a green card lol

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Thanks, and I won't. I been through a lot growing up. It made me a better and stronger person. Although I am very sensitive lol. I have never been in a fight! Lol

Only true love will see that happen!

You look great , move here :) im single ;)

if you live in a urban area or close to one they are trying to bang you b/c most of them 30+ think a little money can get some and think this is perfectly normal is the black community.

see USA sexguide for stories of how guys talk to black women hopeing to score or score some cheap booty.

if you live in suburbs or small town w/o lots of blacks then your exotic to the area.

if you live in college town then everyone is just trying to fuck each other doesn't matter you color.

btw, did you vote for obama?

To have a meaningful relationship, one has to be able to adapt and accept the "family" environment so if they become serious then the Mixed family dynamic at holidays, get togethers etc. can many times be too overwhelming for a White dude to want to deal with. It's hard to be truly comfortable at a picnic if you're the only white dude with a bunch of macho getto thugs with a completely different upbringing and outlook on life. I couldn't do it, and it's not because I'm racist, but rather I cannot pretend to be something that I'm not in order to fit in. It's not worth it and I'd never be happy. but that's just me.

can be arranged ;)

lol even on the internet with just a picture and flirty atitude you have dozen's of guys figuring your easy..

i think we all know why you get hit on

I dont care about black or white I dont categorize. All I know OP is such an attention whore and i believe you just need a dick and some loving to get you out of here. Youre just bored out of youre panties and you need a man in youre life.

I'm glad I don't have thugs in my immediate family. I have country folks and regular folks. Now, on the side that is from New Orleans... The females are younger than me and one is my age. They have kids and the one my age has 2! 2 out of 3 girls have kids. Sad :/ I know people make mistakes, but you have to be responsible.

Because black women are fucked up crazed smelly whores that no white man in his right mind would ever touch.

To be completely honest...I just don't find most black women attractive...

...sure there are a few exceptions but my attraction is overwhelming in favour of women of European ancestry.

A couple 100,000 years of chasing blondes brunettes and redheads all over northern Europe is a hard habit to break I guess.

I'm not easy, I have never had sex. I do not want a boyfriend anytime soon. Yes I am bored. And the picture is from vacation. It is not a bra. Also, how a, I easy if I have never dated anyone ? I am FAR from easy. I am VERY picky. And I much rather see other people in a relationship than me.

Also, I don't really get hit on in person. And I am not trying to bring this thread around me. I hate the unnecessary attention. Lol

Yea, and it is natural you know?

I am bored lol

Its true adults have the widest point at the shoulders. That's why the big snakes have a hard time swallowing adult humans. However, a baby's skull is the largest part to exit the womb. And all the bones are soft with lots of cartilage.

As far as Homo is concerned, its all about the give and take of cranial capacity versus the cost of its gain. Nothing comes without sacrifice.

Not sure how to respond to your insults and racial slurs...so I wont.

So how would you guys feel if your White son brought home a Black or Brown girl? Just wondering.

OP,
I've read through this thread and I have to say you are very sweet and very tolerant. Some of the comments have been horrible and rude and I give you alot of credit for putting that question out there knowing how some of the answers could be offensive.

Here in New England there are plenty of white men and black women; mixed couples (of all different races) almost seem the norm.

Well, youre missing out, still a virgin at 21. You need to get laid imo. Go out and date and instead of trolling GLP you can actually have some fun in youre freetime. Just do it safe and atleast put some effort in a man you like to make sure its not a douchebag.

And nobody believes the 'oh its just a photo, from a photoshoot(its obviously self made picture)in youre bikini or 'bra'. Saddest part is the majority here are old and lonely guys youre giving some hope to its sad.