... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1309341
Looking at you, I have the same question. I know a couple of white guys with black wives, and they seem quite happy.
What are the bitterest complaints black women have of black men?
(a)violent, abusive, criminally inclined
(b)can't/won't hold a job
(c)not faithful - players.
Of course men of all races can be guilty of these but, per black women, it's the NORM for black guys. One of my black female friends steadfastly refused to date black guys, ever. She ended up marrying a white guy.
What are the bitterest complaints white men have of white women?
(a) after the first couple years of marriage, basically no more sex.
(b) after the first couple years of marriage, basically no more sex.
(c) after the first couple years of marriage, basically no more sex.
Again, women of any race can be "withholders" but... stereotypically, white chicks are more guilty of it.
So... black woman marries white man....
She is likely to get: nonviolence, financial support, fidelity.
He is likely to get: more and better sex than he ever dreamed.
It would seem to be the ideal combination!
"After the first couple of years of marriage, no more sex."
GLP men...you just don't get it. When women enjoy sex, they do not withhold it from their loved one....ever.
These men who post on GLP about the sodomy and perversions they commit on women gloat about it, brag about it, seem to live for it. You men on GLP who describe these hateful acts on women make me cringe. Then they do not understand why their women don't want to be demeaned, humiliated and abused. My husband has always honored and cherished me and caused me to want his nearness.
Women do not WANT to even be near men who mistreat them. Sodomy is probably the most demeaning thing any individual can do to another. It's something that perverted men do to other men and to slaves and to prostitutes.... not to someone they love. Had my husband ever treated me so brutally, not only would I have withheld sex from him; I would have left immediately. Don't you get it? The stuff you guys describe as sex is punishment. Of course your women will withhold and there will be no more sex--I'm surprised they put up with the abusive perversion for two years! Maybe black men don't sodomize their women ! ?
Or maybe black women, if they get along with white men that white women won't tolerate....maybe they endure this treatment? I don't know the answer to your question, but I do know that when women are sexually brutalized and dishonored, they should "withhold" or say no more sex. Maybe by then, though, they have a child or two and instead of leaving, endure the presence of their abuser or rapist.