The Battle of the Sexes

Here's the main issue driving our generations current "Battle of the sexes":

Women use sex as a weapon.

Men use sex as a means of social validation.

Both sexes use sex for pleasure and procreation.

An example of this, I saw a friend of mines girlfriend post a picture today. It was a picture of her all up on some other guy, and the text read something along the lines of "Ahhh, thank god for this!" It has since been deleted off her Facebook (went back, creeper style, to see what she had said to post in this thread) If she wasn't up to no good, why would she take it down two hours later? Simple...because she was using that picture as a weapon against my friend who is dating her. She's always been a slut, not exactly out of behavior for her. But it still made me shake my head. I remember the three of us hanging out at a tattoo convention, and she kept trying to get close to me. While she was attractive, I would've felt guilty. Fast forward, that kid moves for a year, and shortly before he returns she starts calling me to hang out. I decide, "Why not? She's single now." But she kept asking questions about my friend. So basically, while she was dating this other kid, she was all over me, maybe to piss him off. Then, when he returns, to get closer to him she pretends interest in me to ask about him. I caught on immediately, and called her on her bullshit.

Basically, girls are forced into thinking, "Gee, I'm a slut if I have sex when I'm not dating the person!" So instead of just going out and getting dick, they coax guys into jumping through a series of sh!t-tests in order to get laid. In the long run, these girls don't really WANT a relationship - most of them just want the dick. So the first time she gets drunk and isn't within eye-sight of her boyfriend, she leaps onto the first dick and set of testicles she can find, then tries to cover up her sluttiness by saying "I was drunk! I was taken advantage of!" No, bish, you ARE a slut and forced this poor dude to jump through a bunch of hoops for exclusivity, then this other jackass is in the right place at the right time, says a few bullshit remarks and gets to tap it on the first night.

It's EASIER to bang girls with boyfriends these days, but personally I can't bring myself to fuck other peoples girlfriends (unless I know the boyfriend is a tool that is, like, beating her or something) because I respect people too much. I don't want that karma hanging over my head when I finally find a girl worth dating, and have her cheat on me. The thing is, if these chicitas stayed single and just had fun, it wouldn't slutty at all to have a bunch of awesome sex, IMO. Sex is natural and instinctual. It's the whole, dragging a guy down into a relationship (to avoid being called a slut, ironically) then cheating on him and lying to his face for three months about it afterwards with no feelings of guilt whatsoever, because she thinks being drunk is a logical excuse...its THOSE ACTIONS that make a girl slutty. It's the manipulation, not the act of sex itself.

Guys these days, on the other hand.....we have been beaten over the head since birth that we are all giant pigs, that we're always treating women wrong, to be sweet and nice and romantic. Social conditioning, media brainwashing, all that jive. We're told that we aren't going to get laid unless we get into a relationship. But most of the time, that bullshit doesn't even work. Girls want their hair pulled, to be tossed around like a ragdoll, to have fun and fuck. (I'm shocked at how many bitches love getting choked, and ask me to do it to them.)

But the guys...we've all been conditioned to seek relationships, and to pass shit tests to get pussy, and to act like chumps. Not saying we all DO act this way, but I see a lot who do. Some times, these guys even get cheated on, and it hurts them, a lot, and you can tell they're dying inside, but they just aren't man enough to move on, and actually continue dating these girls. Why not just turn it into a fuck buddy at that point? Drop all emotional attachment to this girl, WHO CHEATED ON YOU, at least any at a romantic level, and just fuck her senseless every other day instead? When they get cheated on from a position of indifference, on the other hand, it's all like "Pfft, whatever bitch, I KNEW that was gonna happen because this relationship is based around the sex you don't want to feel guilty about. Whatever." And that's usually the stance I sadly must take, which isn't as often as I would like. FOREVERALONE.

I'm definitely generalizing here, but 90%, maybe even 95% of people I've met, fall prey to a lot of these 'stereotypes.'

Another example, my friends that are a couple that are married with a child...or better yet, were. Another friend of mine, who is also friends with them, fucked the wife in a moment of drunkenness. The blame is certainly placed on both of them, evenly, because they all know each other. The wife shouldn't have betrayed her babies daddy, and my other friend shouldn't have disrespected their relationship. It literally disgusts me people can treat each other like that. They're no strangers to love, and they both know the rules. A full commitment is what they were thinking of, initially, and it fell through. People just need to learn, that to maintain a healthy relationship, they need to be at a standpoint that they're never gonna give each other up, or let each other down. That they'll never run around, or hurt each other. Instead of making each other cry, saying goodbye, and telling lies, they should be faithful and respectful.