good grief man
who do you love and what makes you happy? If they are both so meaningless to you that you take pros and cons based on the ages of these women, you are sunk. Do you have the same relationship with both women?

you sound like you are shopping for a tv or something and nobody seems to think that is odd or wrong.

I clicked on this thread out of idle curiosity , just waiting for my pasta to cook. I wonder, are you for real?