Im 31, So 22 year old G/F or 38 year old wife??

take a shit and think on it!

The only thing worse then woman your age is woman in the age range of 20-25!! Go for the 38 year old.

that was helpful.....

good point. thanks for the input.

nobody else with any insight?

tough crowd

While you may be sacrificing some looks and more energetic sex you make up for with less drama and stability.

Are you saying you are going to leave your wife for a 22 year old? If so, stay with your wife or you will regret it

another good point, 38 year old wife with 22 year old g/f on the side would be good......but i dont live in utah!!

no i already cut the 1st wife, i am moving "Forward" now

well thanks american friends

looks like 38 year old wife is the direction

Which ever one you prefer to give breast massages.

um.....ok

I DON't discriminate in that department!

Whoa! Be realistic for a moment. She's only gonna get older. Be careful and think about this. Most women don't age well, so it's not just that she's 7 years older than you, she'll look even older in just a few short years.

There's a reason men are attracted to youth. Women dry out after a certain period.

Take that into consideration.

Choose the one that you wouldn't mind getting divorced from and having to give up half your bank account to, because that's how it usually ends up.

It's a valid point, but i am not getting any younger and i don't feel i can "keep up" with the youth anymore. going out everynight and drama is not for me anymore. Older women appeal to me alot. Dinner at 6pm appeals to me, not taco bell at 1am. LOTS of different factors here

1st one got jackshit. prenups!

So it will be wife #2 for you?

Some interesting stats for your reading pleasure:

[link to www.divorcerate.org]

"50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce, according to Jennifer Baker of the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology in Springfield, Missouri."

Fair enough, but remember, in a few years the 22 year old will be slowing down, whereas the 38 year old will be going through menopause and the beginnings of an inevitable decline in health.

that is a harsh reality.

Is it one you're prepared to live with?

good grief man
who do you love and what makes you happy? If they are both so meaningless to you that you take pros and cons based on the ages of these women, you are sunk. Do you have the same relationship with both women?

you sound like you are shopping for a tv or something and nobody seems to think that is odd or wrong.

I clicked on this thread out of idle curiosity , just waiting for my pasta to cook. I wonder, are you for real?

op, 20 something year old women have no clue who they are as women-they think they know but they dont.i once was one of those i should know lol.
If your worried about the 38yos age(if you want babies cohabitation etc) maybe thats not a good choice either, as it takes a couple of years to establish a relationship to the point you really know each other and are ready to settle, shell be 40ish..if you dont want kids or to cohabit, then all thats obselete and the older woman may be a good choice,but maybe neither are for you.

If your asking here, id say neither are right for you,because when it all happens with someone your hearts there 100% and theres no questioning it.

ya sorry, my wording isn't great, kind of just bouncing ideas of strangers, not puting much "grace" into it.

im for real

thats a great sum-up of the whole deal. puts alot into perspective. thanks. I Can't have kids, had a bunch of stomach surgery as a kid and the surgerons disabled me. Took me 10 years to figure that out......cheers for FREE Canadian healthcare!!! NOT

Get 3 or 4 over 60 on the go.

no, really! Who do you love? What makes you happy? no grace needed

oh jeez, it suddenly occurred to me that there is no 22 or 38 year old-nevermind carry on with the nonsense

OP, it sounds like you're trying to choose a dog from the pound.

Are you unable to have an actual adult, loving relationships? Your wife may have been thinking of Ashton Kutcher when she was with you, does that mean she should go look for some one like that? Men are not the only ones who deal with the factors that come with the aging of their partner.

This is one of the (many) reasons our country is such a disappointing mess when it comes to relationships (among other things). "The Entitlement" factor. We want our cake and to eat it to.

It seems the idea of sustaining love is almost impossible in the West. Relationships take a lot of work. Just because your wife wasn't a pouty cheerlearder sex bot does not mean she has nothing to offer. See how your body looks within the next few years.

Sigh. Disgusting. Sad.

Are you kidding? 38 Year Old Wife hands down.