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Key to the house you live in.

 
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/15/2012 10:04 PM
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Her son is ADHD AND ODD. He came to me and told me that he thought his mom told me to leave. I told him to stay out of it. Its 7pm and dark out and I have as much right to be here as She does. Next thing I know he was outside smashing my lights. NO, not drinking, just moderate and sometimes elevated verbal arguing. no domestic violence. I don't roll like that!!! I care for her and her children.
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11/15/2012 10:05 PM
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Annulment, you idiot
WindyMind

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11/15/2012 10:12 PM

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Ok then it's weird. Tell her ( and it's wrong to have to do it) it's your place to and get a key. But it's weird. How can this even happen? Of course you have a key, of course. Something needs to be cleared up. How could you have an issue like this, what's next?
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11/15/2012 10:17 PM
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Ah marriage! Such a magical fairy dust dance of delight and love..

Run far, run fast.
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11/16/2012 01:46 AM
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You've got to be an asshole making her out like this. Is this a riddle? This is a half story and kids don't smash tail lights without reason. What have you done to them? Do you beat her? Why would you bring this onto glp? You are an ass.
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No I explained everything in my post. I don't use drugs, nor am I a violent person. Her child has opposition defiance disorder. He also has no respect for anyone or their belongings, including his mom or her things. This is a case where my wife has her priorities skewed. It's almost as if she is trying to parent me, while she gives into the kid adult freedoms. Ass backward.
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11/16/2012 02:03 AM
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You've got to be an asshole making her out like this. Is this a riddle? This is a half story and kids don't smash tail lights without reason. What have you done to them? Do you beat her? Why would you bring this onto glp? You are an ass.
 Quoting: WindyMind


No I explained everything in my post. I don't use drugs, nor am I a violent person. Her child has opposition defiance disorder. He also has no respect for anyone or their belongings, including his mom or her things. This is a case where my wife has her priorities skewed. It's almost as if she is trying to parent me, while she gives into the kid adult freedoms. Ass backward.
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Sorry OP! You do need to calmly leave as soon as you can. You should have had a key the day you married. In fact you should have never moved into that home you should have rented another one to start your new life in.
scorpio66

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11/16/2012 02:11 AM
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this really seems awfully dramatic to be "just" over a key

there's prob something else she's mad about but you are unaware of. we like to keep you all guessing. i don't know why. i think we think you should just know what it is we're mad about.

but anyway, this is not about a key. if anything, it's bc you took it all sneaky like and made her mad. maybe she found it after she said she didn't know where it was, meant to give it to you, then noticed it was gone and realized what you did? that would make me pissy too if i thought you were being a sneaky weirdo about it.

or you know, maybe she's mad about something totally else. or maybe she has PMS. or maybe she really doesn't want you having a key, but that seems the least likely really as it doesn't make much sense. how long did you say you've been married and dated before that?
Lorax

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11/16/2012 02:14 AM
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Dude Run! that is totally fucked up!!!!! ahhh
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11/16/2012 02:22 AM

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petty.



i am stunned.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/16/2012 02:26 AM
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this really seems awfully dramatic to be "just" over a key

there's prob something else she's mad about but you are unaware of. we like to keep you all guessing. i don't know why. i think we think you should just know what it is we're mad about.

but anyway, this is not about a key. if anything, it's bc you took it all sneaky like and made her mad. maybe she found it after she said she didn't know where it was, meant to give it to you, then noticed it was gone and realized what you did? that would make me pissy too if i thought you were being a sneaky weirdo about it.

or you know, maybe she's mad about something totally else. or maybe she has PMS. or maybe she really doesn't want you having a key, but that seems the least likely really as it doesn't make much sense. how long did you say you've been married and dated before that?
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Dated about 8 years been married since august. Yeah pissed cause she says it's hers..... And wasn't my right to take it. I get that....but also I don't. Thanks for input everyone.
scorpio66

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11/16/2012 02:34 AM
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this really seems awfully dramatic to be "just" over a key

there's prob something else she's mad about but you are unaware of. we like to keep you all guessing. i don't know why. i think we think you should just know what it is we're mad about.

but anyway, this is not about a key. if anything, it's bc you took it all sneaky like and made her mad. maybe she found it after she said she didn't know where it was, meant to give it to you, then noticed it was gone and realized what you did? that would make me pissy too if i thought you were being a sneaky weirdo about it.

or you know, maybe she's mad about something totally else. or maybe she has PMS. or maybe she really doesn't want you having a key, but that seems the least likely really as it doesn't make much sense. how long did you say you've been married and dated before that?
 Quoting: scorpio66


Dated about 8 years been married since august. Yeah pissed cause she says it's hers..... And wasn't my right to take it. I get that....but also I don't. Thanks for input everyone.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27729072


ding ding ding, we have a winner

yeah, it's not about the key itself, it's that you just took "it" which wasn't yours (that key, not the right to have one). could have been about anything, happened to be the key. and it does seem a lil sneaky, what you did, even if that wasn't your intention. but you said you get that.

you all are new to living together it seems, this is prob actually about boundaries and expectations. suck it up and tell her you're sorry and you will tell/ask her next time. it's not worth fighting about to this degree.
girlonfire

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11/16/2012 02:35 AM

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There are 2 sides to every story and maybe you should be calmly discussing things with your wife and kids instead of bringing it here. That right there would piss me off, shows a lack of concern/communication. Just saying...
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11/16/2012 02:46 AM
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bsflag
I call troll.
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11/16/2012 02:49 AM
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Looks like the end of the line for us....

Her 15 year old son took a hammer to my tail lights. I called the cops on him. Thanks for the replies. Such a pity, I do care about her and her kids.
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well I hope you got some good pussy while it lasted!!!


yeahsure
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11/16/2012 02:52 AM
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There are 2 sides to every story and maybe you should be calmly discussing things with your wife and kids instead of bringing it here. That right there would piss me off, shows a lack of concern/communication. Just saying...
 Quoting: girlonfire


I read this thread to her. All of it. I created it because I wanted an informed concensus. I appreciate ALL of the input. Thanks.
scorpio66

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11/16/2012 02:55 AM
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There are 2 sides to every story and maybe you should be calmly discussing things with your wife and kids instead of bringing it here. That right there would piss me off, shows a lack of concern/communication. Just saying...
 Quoting: girlonfire


I read this thread to her. All of it. I created it because I wanted an informed concensus. I appreciate ALL of the input. Thanks.
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oh.

hi, gf/wife. we tried to tell him it was all his fault haha. i think he gets it now and he didn't mean to make you mad.

good luck you crazy kids!
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11/16/2012 03:14 AM
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OP, GTFO of that situation. She has a lot more to lose than you by you leaving. It sounds like you will inherit a lot of problems if you try to stay.
Anonymous Coward
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11/16/2012 03:22 AM
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Her son does have access to the home. She chose not to give him the key back. I duplicated it and yes I did have it, but I did give it back. I do not know who has that key now?
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I know you rent but did you move into her place?
Anonymous Coward
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11/16/2012 03:23 AM
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Also if your kids are pretty much grown up why did you bother to get married. Why not just have her as girlfriend and keep your own space.
tandym

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11/16/2012 11:01 AM

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Run, as fast as you can, and get an annulment. Don't divorce her or you will end up paying palimony or something.

This freakish control issue will only get worse :-(

 Quoting: tandym


I think not. Annulment is a religious process, not a legal secular process.

GTFO and get a legal divorce; the woman is batshit crazy.

Seriously, dude? You're married and pay more than half the upkeep, and she didn't want you to have a key? WTF is wrong with you?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1006681


It is ALSO a legal process for marriages that existed less than a certain amount of time. An annulment negates him from ever having been her husband in the first place meaning she has no claim to palimony / spousal support / child support / division of equity / division of debt.

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