...and the terrible part is if you suggest anything is wrong with taking chemo to a family member with cancer(or even if they are just at risk) they will quickly attack you and label you as not having their best interests in mind...I've had a few older family members succumb, and I've learned to never bring up alternative therapies or anything wrong/bad with chemo as a whole. The vast majority of folks accept it, even if as a necessary evil and will always trust themselves to their doctor's orders.