I have been there. I honestly know how you feel.

The first thing you need to do is enter survival mode, all moms have it.

Get rid of any luxuries (cell, cable, internet etc...) you may think you will die but I promise you won't and you will actually enjoy life much more.

Plan your meals so that you can have leftovers for lunches or dinners the next night. Turkeys are the good buy right now, roast one on a sunday and eat off of it turkey sandwiches, pot pies and soups off the rest. Make everything you can yourself, use coupons!

It sucks, it is hard, but sadly it is happening to a lot of people.

Good luck to you and God bless.