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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 06:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you are the namby pamby clingy type... Wait for her to come to you. (if you go to her, she will see it as a continuation of your typical clingy behavior) Quoting: momma coop If you are the manly man, somewhat emotionally distant type... You go to her. (If you wait for her, she will see it as her being correct about you not really caring in the first place.) Lesson over. Lol, that's funny. You make it seem like the man ALWAYS needs the woman; you are incorrect with your stance. It's a mutual thing, the way fate works. You would understand it if you've had it. EL Your wrong. You were the one that was speaking from the male perspective so I continued it. Besides, Love, fate, whatever... They are not enough. *you're my my, "your" grammar is horrendous; surely you've been taught better, but then again, you know everything... |
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momma coop User ID: 20442533 United States 11/17/2012 07:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you are the namby pamby clingy type... Wait for her to come to you. (if you go to her, she will see it as a continuation of your typical clingy behavior) Quoting: momma coop If you are the manly man, somewhat emotionally distant type... You go to her. (If you wait for her, she will see it as her being correct about you not really caring in the first place.) Lesson over. Lol, that's funny. You make it seem like the man ALWAYS needs the woman; you are incorrect with your stance. It's a mutual thing, the way fate works. You would understand it if you've had it. EL Your wrong. You were the one that was speaking from the male perspective so I continued it. Besides, Love, fate, whatever... They are not enough. *you're my my, "your" grammar is horrendous; surely you've been taught better, but then again, you know everything... I stand corrected. your - you're Glad to see you learned something. Maybe by the time I figure out how to use this new keyboard with my longer nails you will realize that I am correct. I may have been blunt in my first post (I am a blunt kind of person), but that is how the majority of younger women think/feel in those situations. I was, trying to be helpful. I guess some people want a yes man instead of honesty. Last Edited by Grammycoop on 11/17/2012 07:03 PM The power is yours. Take it back. In a world where you can choose to be anything, choose to be kind. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 07:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2212303 Lol, that's funny. You make it seem like the man ALWAYS needs the woman; you are incorrect with your stance. It's a mutual thing, the way fate works. You would understand it if you've had it. EL Your wrong. You were the one that was speaking from the male perspective so I continued it. Besides, Love, fate, whatever... They are not enough. *you're my my, "your" grammar is horrendous; surely you've been taught better, but then again, you know everything... I stand corrected. your - you're Glad to see you learned something. Maybe by the time I figure out how to use this new keyboard with my longer nails you will realize that I am correct. I may have been blunt in my first post (I am a blunt kind of person), but that is how the majority of younger women think/feel in those situations. I was, trying to be helpful. I guess some people want a yes man instead of honesty. " You make it seem like the man ALWAYS needs the woman; you are incorrect with your stance." i dont think im a yes man; you're out of the loop, momma coop... el |
momma coop User ID: 20442533 United States 11/17/2012 07:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: momma coop Your wrong. You were the one that was speaking from the male perspective so I continued it. Besides, Love, fate, whatever... They are not enough. *you're my my, "your" grammar is horrendous; surely you've been taught better, but then again, you know everything... I stand corrected. your - you're Glad to see you learned something. Maybe by the time I figure out how to use this new keyboard with my longer nails you will realize that I am correct. I may have been blunt in my first post (I am a blunt kind of person), but that is how the majority of younger women think/feel in those situations. I was, trying to be helpful. I guess some people want a yes man instead of honesty. " You make it seem like the man ALWAYS needs the woman; you are incorrect with your stance." i dont think im a yes man; you're out of the loop, momma coop... el Learn to read dear, I didn't say you were a yes man, I said you wanted one. You started the thread wanting people to agree with you and tell you how wonderful and right you are. You did not want honesty. You want to live in your fantasy world. Well... be my guest, enjoy your lonely fantasy world. The power is yours. Take it back. In a world where you can choose to be anything, choose to be kind. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27929796 United Kingdom 11/17/2012 07:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: 1908247 See, you are making a mistake with your interpretation. If one trusts in "fate", which should also be carefully interpreted, it does not necessarialy mean he will simply wait for things to happen out of thin air. Once one understands, accepts and receives.. then magic happens (: Said it almost better than I could have myself ;). My kind regards, El It's harder to explain it than to understand it So ironic is it not? How can one explain that which has no words? The key is in the eyes, but how can we "see" that which we can not see? El Could you please elaborate on the key being in the eyes, I have heard that before and have been trying to figure it out. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 07:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27446438 *you're my my, "your" grammar is horrendous; surely you've been taught better, but then again, you know everything... I stand corrected. your - you're Glad to see you learned something. Maybe by the time I figure out how to use this new keyboard with my longer nails you will realize that I am correct. I may have been blunt in my first post (I am a blunt kind of person), but that is how the majority of younger women think/feel in those situations. I was, trying to be helpful. I guess some people want a yes man instead of honesty. " You make it seem like the man ALWAYS needs the woman; you are incorrect with your stance." i dont think im a yes man; you're out of the loop, momma coop... el Learn to read dear, I didn't say you were a yes man, I said you wanted one. You started the thread wanting people to agree with you and tell you how wonderful and right you are. You did not want honesty. You want to live in your fantasy world. Well... be my guest, enjoy your lonely fantasy world. im a male...your intuition is right on point... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3223382 United States 11/17/2012 07:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And shes prolly thinking, if he is for me he will come to me. So both of you are waiting for the other to make a move? funny dat Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27904634 Lol... Men of courage and honor always make the first move. Any woman with self respect and dignity remains lady like and allows the man the opportunity to court her/seek her. Its a class thing. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 07:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And shes prolly thinking, if he is for me he will come to me. So both of you are waiting for the other to make a move? funny dat Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27904634 Lol... Men of courage and honor always make the first move. Any woman with self respect and dignity remains lady like and allows the man the opportunity to court her/seek her. Its a class thing. lol. like the man-made concept of "class" has anything to do with the universe's fate...enjoy "class" while it lasts... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3223382 United States 11/17/2012 07:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And shes prolly thinking, if he is for me he will come to me. So both of you are waiting for the other to make a move? funny dat Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27904634 Lol... Men of courage and honor always make the first move. Any woman with self respect and dignity remains lady like and allows the man the opportunity to court her/seek her. Its a class thing. lol. like the man-made concept of "class" has anything to do with the universe's fate...enjoy "class" while it lasts... I am a woman. I would never make the first move. I would assume the guy was not interested, and trust me, I got asked out quite often. I was raised to believe men should always be the ones to make the first move, otherwise, the woman appears needy or desperate or worse. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21693464 United States 11/17/2012 07:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And shes prolly thinking, if he is for me he will come to me. So both of you are waiting for the other to make a move? funny dat Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27904634 Lol... Men of courage and honor always make the first move. Any woman with self respect and dignity remains lady like and allows the man the opportunity to court her/seek her. Its a class thing. lol. like the man-made concept of "class" has anything to do with the universe's fate...enjoy "class" while it lasts... I am a woman. I would never make the first move. I would assume the guy was not interested, and trust me, I got asked out quite often. I was raised to believe men should always be the ones to make the first move, otherwise, the woman appears needy or desperate or worse. the problem is women know how to subtly control the advances into enslavement. no offense to women, but perhaps its time we each learn to meet in the middle. just a thought. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 07:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And shes prolly thinking, if he is for me he will come to me. So both of you are waiting for the other to make a move? funny dat Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27904634 Lol... Men of courage and honor always make the first move. Any woman with self respect and dignity remains lady like and allows the man the opportunity to court her/seek her. Its a class thing. lol. like the man-made concept of "class" has anything to do with the universe's fate...enjoy "class" while it lasts... I am a woman. I would never make the first move. I would assume the guy was not interested, and trust me, I got asked out quite often. I was raised to believe men should always be the ones to make the first move, otherwise, the woman appears needy or desperate or worse. then i was not talking to you in my original post as your mind/situation is already made...good day EL |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3223382 Lol... Men of courage and honor always make the first move. Any woman with self respect and dignity remains lady like and allows the man the opportunity to court her/seek her. Its a class thing. lol. like the man-made concept of "class" has anything to do with the universe's fate...enjoy "class" while it lasts... I am a woman. I would never make the first move. I would assume the guy was not interested, and trust me, I got asked out quite often. I was raised to believe men should always be the ones to make the first move, otherwise, the woman appears needy or desperate or worse. the problem is women know how to subtly control the advances into enslavement. no offense to women, but perhaps its time we each learn to meet in the middle. just a thought. Look at "her" next post, "she" trolled.... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16561762 United States 11/17/2012 08:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One has to decide whether to think with their head or to follow their heart...the head looks for reason, the heart follows love, and ignores reason, and this is where faith comes into play. The head can play tricks on you, but the heart can't be fooled. True love endures, if only within our hearts...follow your heart! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 3223382 United States 11/17/2012 08:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | no doubt women control much. But we also want the man to be confident and secure. Men who have good relationships with their mothers and sisters understand this. ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3223382 Lol... Men of courage and honor always make the first move. Any woman with self respect and dignity remains lady like and allows the man the opportunity to court her/seek her. Its a class thing. lol. like the man-made concept of "class" has anything to do with the universe's fate...enjoy "class" while it lasts... I am a woman. I would never make the first move. I would assume the guy was not interested, and trust me, I got asked out quite often. I was raised to believe men should always be the ones to make the first move, otherwise, the woman appears needy or desperate or worse. the problem is women know how to subtly control the advances into enslavement. no offense to women, but perhaps its time we each learn to meet in the middle. just a thought. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26811529 United States 11/17/2012 08:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let her go. Let fate take the reigns in the relationship. If it was meant to be, fate will make sure you're in the right place, at the right time; and she is in the right place, at the right time. Don't worry about it. Focus on something that makes YOU better, so when the time is right, she will benefit and learn as well. It takes time. It takes patience. It takes faith. You just have to let it happen, on it's own. That way, fate will make sure to bless you, and her; forever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7183877 el THANK YOU EL - this is exactly what I needed to hear tonight!!!! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 08:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good luck op, hope your ding dong doesn't get old and shriveled up waiting for her, lol. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3223382 Let her go. Let fate take the reigns in the relationship. If it was meant to be, fate will make sure you're in the right place, at the right time; and she is in the right place, at the right time. Don't worry about it. Focus on something that makes YOU better, so when the time is right, she will benefit and learn as well. It takes time. It takes patience. It takes faith. You just have to let it happen, on it's own. That way, fate will make sure to bless you, and her; forever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7183877 el It hasn't. EL |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 08:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let her go. Let fate take the reigns in the relationship. If it was meant to be, fate will make sure you're in the right place, at the right time; and she is in the right place, at the right time. Don't worry about it. Focus on something that makes YOU better, so when the time is right, she will benefit and learn as well. It takes time. It takes patience. It takes faith. You just have to let it happen, on it's own. That way, fate will make sure to bless you, and her; forever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7183877 el THANK YOU EL - this is exactly what I needed to hear tonight!!!! it is my humble service to help, thank you EL |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 08:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I believe fate does take over, but it isn't magic, at a certain point, a man will have the courage to move, fate doesn't over-ride nature, and these delicate processes are enshrined in our different biologies. Quoting: K.Kool Very much true. People keep trying to misconstrue my words, yet im saying WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, it will be obvious. So many people try to force it, only to fail in the long run. EL |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26811529 United States 11/17/2012 08:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let her go. Let fate take the reigns in the relationship. If it was meant to be, fate will make sure you're in the right place, at the right time; and she is in the right place, at the right time. Don't worry about it. Focus on something that makes YOU better, so when the time is right, she will benefit and learn as well. It takes time. It takes patience. It takes faith. You just have to let it happen, on it's own. That way, fate will make sure to bless you, and her; forever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7183877 el THANK YOU EL - this is exactly what I needed to hear tonight!!!! it is my humble service to help, thank you EL You are a good man and very perceptive! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27446438 United States 11/17/2012 08:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let her go. Let fate take the reigns in the relationship. If it was meant to be, fate will make sure you're in the right place, at the right time; and she is in the right place, at the right time. Don't worry about it. Focus on something that makes YOU better, so when the time is right, she will benefit and learn as well. It takes time. It takes patience. It takes faith. You just have to let it happen, on it's own. That way, fate will make sure to bless you, and her; forever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7183877 el THANK YOU EL - this is exactly what I needed to hear tonight!!!! it is my humble service to help, thank you EL You are a good man and very perceptive! I try my best to do the best. El |