OP...If you are married this can be one hell of a ride. I started dating the lady answering the phone at work. The only problem, I was married at the time. My wife at the time got pregnant, the lady answering the phone got pregnant. All this with in 2 months of each other. Got divorced of course. Married the lady ansering the phone. 21 years later and we are still together. Like I said can be one hell. Good and bad.