Your comments are very nice indeed. Especially when coming from a woman's perspective. However, a relationship is about giving and taking. Here is what a man wants and I am very sure you know that because when a woman wants a man really bad, they always know what to do to attract the men. Every woman knows that men want:

1. A fit woman. no fat chicks please. Very few man want that and if you don't agree with me why is that guys go to strip clubs all the time? They prefer to see a sexy fit woman. Most of the time the chick loses the weight so she fits in the wedding dress. Once the ring is on....it is time to hit the cake and the chocolates.

2. A sweet and feminine lady. No frumpy chicks please. Yes and this is weird. Because the fatter the chick gets, the frumpier she gets and the bitchy she gets too. I also think that guys are in blame too because they seem to forget that it is important to look good and to shower every day (come on guys! What's wrong with you?!!)

3. A couple that plays together, stays together. Pick an activity that is good for both and keep you in shape. Ladies need to stop staying at home playing with their dildos while their husbands participate in sport activities and etc. This is the reason why the guys drifts away. He will end up meeting a girl who like what he like to do and bingo. It is a recipe for divorce.

4. If you can't afford it, then don't buy it. Ladies love to spend money they don't have on crap. Work together to build a budget and save the money. Then buy cash only!