Read it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 673980
My wife read it and started to act differently in bed, in a good way. but I didn't know where she was coming from.
she would say things like, "I want you to spank me" and having only pornos to refer to was like, ok... but the type of spanking that she wanted wasn't like what you see in a porno.
she wanted to get "spanked" feel the pain, then have me rub it and show her that I still want her to feel the pleasure from my hand etc...
my advice is to read it not for the great literary masterpiece that it's not, but so you will at LEAST be on the same page as her and where she is coming from.
you don't have to take it to the level that they were taking it to but if nothing else it will give you some ideas for the bedrooom
ok let me pick your brain then.
i enjoy light spanking, nothing we would need a safe word for, just good old fashioned light spanking done by hand.
i thought most women phantasized about it?
it's just u dont aska guy to fufill ur naughtiest phantasies unless u really love him, most ladies i know , their brains work that way...u dont try anal unless u really love the guy, and u dont ask for all ur phantasies to be fufilled unless u absolutley love him...
again, nothing hard core, i have recently seen a video of a bit of spanking, it seemed very hard core to me, even if i know in reality that it wasn't that hard core...
butts ger red easily, the guy wasn't that rough, but still it was really strange role plax where she is younger than him and he is her guardian nad he was punishing her, and blah blah..
i like good old hommade slap slap my hubbies hand nothing too painful, just good old fun and playfulness.
i thought all ladies liked that?
i couldnt bring myself to rad books like 50 shades if they are anything like de sade, coz i tried de sade and it really di not do much for me except think that i am now scared for life after i read that particula sentence...
same feeling i get if i stumble upon a dodgie clip on porn sites or anything.....
so do most ladies like spanking or did i have particularly sexually extreme girlfriends?