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How to get over a soul connection, when they are already dating someone else? (Soul Connection Experience Preferred)
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It's been two months since I found out he had a gf. I should just avoid him? He still looks at me, and I know it's just looking. I was mean, and when he tried to talk to me when I knew he had a gf, I just walked away. I felt led on, even though I wasn't really. I don't feel like it's right, since it was so weird and intense.
Your words are helping. I know most people will just think he's a bad guy, there was nothing between us. To be honest, I don't tell others how intense it is, other than my mom. That's why I came to GLP over it, since it's a lot to take in. I feel like no one would believe me. And to see it in his eyes...I have the horrible "what if's". The connection is so different and unexpected, hit me like a ton of bricks. I just wish it meant something other than just this. I hate to still think about him 20 years from now, and I see myself doing just that.
I know I can't close my heart, but I have.
Thanks for being my therapist. :) I understand embracing the sadness, it's sticking to me like a bad cold. I thought I could just ignore him, and everything would just work out. It's not....
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322 I'm not a "therapist" :) -- just someone who is going to walk with you through all of this, as much as you want and as far as you like. Avoid him? Maybe if it's bothering you. But not otherwise. If he is looking at you, enjoy that. You don't have to respond outwardly, but enjoy being the focus of someone's attention for a few seconds. Perhaps it would be encouraging to hear that I have had three or four of these "heart to heart" connections in my life. Obviously, they were not all romantic as I was not available for that. But they were/are still deeply meaningful and breathtaking. They will last forever. In your case, you are available, and when (when, not if!) another comes along, you will recognize it for what it is. You will not feel as blindsided and unexpected. (The first time one happened to me, I wanted to run away and nearly did! I'm glad I didn't.)
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