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I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...

 
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I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
Met a girl online...

We chatted on the phone and texted several times...she was back in town so I suggested we meet and she said yes but I was continuing conversation in text.

And she was talking about the new James Bond movie and kept on telling me she finds James Bond irresistable, gets all the pretty girls...

So I playfully said "So I'm sure he can get you with a snap of a finger right? lol"

And she replied with "I'm not that easy but maybe james bond can."

And I responded back with 2 other texts and no response for a whole day!

Could I have set her off with just one comment?
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
Just keep bothering her shell give in and you'll get a handjob eventually but that may be the end of your romance
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11/18/2012 10:07 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
your first mistake was messaging a girl online
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
oh well, there's plenty of women out there. Take it as a sign and move on. No big deal. ;)
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11/18/2012 10:10 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
your first mistake was messaging a girl online
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25573358


I thought there was potential in this one because we were alike in alot of respects but maybe her girl emotions kicked in about meeting someone online? and that mental resistance kicked in?
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
LORDY, if you can't talk face to face, SEE her expression, HOW will you ever kiss/hold hands and God forbid you marry, you'll NEVER be able to " Do It " !
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11/18/2012 10:17 PM
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LORDY, if you can't talk face to face, SEE her expression, HOW will you ever kiss/hold hands and God forbid you marry, you'll NEVER be able to " Do It " !
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I did make the offer to meet up but i wouldn't be surprised if she backs out
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11/18/2012 10:20 PM

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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
OP these online communications with the opposite sex can end just as quickly as they begin. If she was turned off by one little innocent comment then what were the chances that this was going to blossom into anything significant anyway? There's no way to tell what she's thinking based on a texting communication so just play it cool and if she doesn't communicate back to you then it's time to move on.... Plenty of more girls/women out there for you to get to know regardless.

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11/18/2012 10:20 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
your first mistake was messaging a girl online
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25573358


I thought there was potential in this one because we were alike in alot of respects but maybe her girl emotions kicked in about meeting someone online? and that mental resistance kicked in?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 713631


If she's this much trouble so soon into (what is not yet even) a relationship, it's not going to be pretty from here on out. I'd say drop it and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, man.

Of course, she may have just had something come up. You don't know what's going on in her life. Don't be all clingy and shit with someone you have not even met IRL yet.
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LORDY, if you can't talk face to face, SEE her expression, HOW will you ever kiss/hold hands and God forbid you marry, you'll NEVER be able to " Do It " !
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16389604


I did make the offer to meet up but i wouldn't be surprised if she backs out
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Don't take it personal if she does... Online communication can be very superficial since it's not face to face and it's hard to get to know someone's true nature remotely....

"You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger"
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11/18/2012 10:25 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
One day without a response is no big deal. When a girl is playing hard to get, I might go 3 days without a response. I have a rule, never text them more than once, then wait for them to respond. Also, don't text her back 3 seconds after she texts you, it looks like you're sitting there staring at your phone waiting on her text, and that seems desperate. Act like you don't even notice her little game. Play it cool. I bat .750 with this strategy, although its dealing with girls I met at a bar first, not online. It doesn't hurt to be good looking and drive a sports car either.
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11/18/2012 10:28 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
One day without a response is no big deal. When a girl is playing hard to get, I might go 3 days without a response. I have a rule, never text them more than once, then wait for them to respond. Also, don't text her back 3 seconds after she texts you, it looks like you're sitting there staring at your phone waiting on her text, and that seems desperate. Act like you don't even notice her little game. Play it cool. I bat .750 with this strategy, although its dealing with girls I met at a bar first, not online. It doesn't hurt to be good looking and drive a sports car either.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8083785


^This^

I was just about to say something like this. Best advice, never text her back too fast.
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11/18/2012 10:29 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
You talk too much and your posts are too long
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11/18/2012 10:31 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
Probably she had shit to do and you should do some shit so you aren't hounding her. Give it 24 - 48 hours then message her again.
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11/18/2012 10:33 PM

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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
Met a girl online...

We chatted on the phone and texted several times...she was back in town so I suggested we meet and she said yes but I was continuing conversation in text.

And she was talking about the new James Bond movie and kept on telling me she finds James Bond irresistable, gets all the pretty girls...

So I playfully said "So I'm sure he can get you with a snap of a finger right? lol"

And she replied with "I'm not that easy but maybe james bond can."

And I responded back with 2 other texts and no response for a whole day!

Could I have set her off with just one comment?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 713631


I will assume you are in your teen years due to context. If I were to remember that time in my life, I think she could have easily felt you were disrespecting her. Move on.
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11/18/2012 10:35 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
Meh, you struck out you loser.

You better hope it's not the start of a streak or you're fucked (or rather, you won't be).
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11/18/2012 10:36 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
One day without a response is no big deal. When a girl is playing hard to get, I might go 3 days without a response. I have a rule, never text them more than once, then wait for them to respond. Also, don't text her back 3 seconds after she texts you, it looks like you're sitting there staring at your phone waiting on her text, and that seems desperate. Act like you don't even notice her little game. Play it cool. I bat .750 with this strategy, although its dealing with girls I met at a bar first, not online. It doesn't hurt to be good looking and drive a sports car either.
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^Bar trash
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
ASK HER IF SHE WILL MARRY YOU
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11/18/2012 10:37 PM
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Re: I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet...
No, no, this can be salvaged. He just hounded her too much. He flooded her with texts and she got crowded. He needs to hold off for a bit.

Girls like attention, but when you pour it on them they feel like they've won you. Hold back a bit.

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