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I think I said the wrong thing now girl is completely turned off and doesn't want to meet... | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 713631  United States11/18/2012 10:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22441207 United States11/18/2012 10:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25573358 United States11/18/2012 10:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24433009 United States11/18/2012 10:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 713631 United States11/18/2012 10:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 16389604 United States11/18/2012 10:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 713631 United States11/18/2012 10:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26795689 United States11/18/2012 10:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP these online communications with the opposite sex can end just as quickly as they begin. If she was turned off by one little innocent comment then what were the chances that this was going to blossom into anything significant anyway? There's no way to tell what she's thinking based on a texting communication so just play it cool and if she doesn't communicate back to you then it's time to move on.... Plenty of more girls/women out there for you to get to know regardless. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6383062 United States11/18/2012 10:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I thought there was potential in this one because we were alike in alot of respects but maybe her girl emotions kicked in about meeting someone online? and that mental resistance kicked in? If she's this much trouble so soon into (what is not yet even) a relationship, it's not going to be pretty from here on out. I'd say drop it and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, man. Of course, she may have just had something come up. You don't know what's going on in her life. Don't be all clingy and shit with someone you have not even met IRL yet. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26795689 United States11/18/2012 10:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | LORDY, if you can't talk face to face, SEE her expression, HOW will you ever kiss/hold hands and God forbid you marry, you'll NEVER be able to " Do It " ! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16389604 I did make the offer to meet up but i wouldn't be surprised if she backs out Don't take it personal if she does... Online communication can be very superficial since it's not face to face and it's hard to get to know someone's true nature remotely.... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 8083785 United States11/18/2012 10:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One day without a response is no big deal. When a girl is playing hard to get, I might go 3 days without a response. I have a rule, never text them more than once, then wait for them to respond. Also, don't text her back 3 seconds after she texts you, it looks like you're sitting there staring at your phone waiting on her text, and that seems desperate. Act like you don't even notice her little game. Play it cool. I bat .750 with this strategy, although its dealing with girls I met at a bar first, not online. It doesn't hurt to be good looking and drive a sports car either. |
reptarjr  User ID: 27722539  Italy11/18/2012 10:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One day without a response is no big deal. When a girl is playing hard to get, I might go 3 days without a response. I have a rule, never text them more than once, then wait for them to respond. Also, don't text her back 3 seconds after she texts you, it looks like you're sitting there staring at your phone waiting on her text, and that seems desperate. Act like you don't even notice her little game. Play it cool. I bat .750 with this strategy, although its dealing with girls I met at a bar first, not online. It doesn't hurt to be good looking and drive a sports car either. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8083785 ^This^ I was just about to say something like this. Best advice, never text her back too fast. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1054379 United States11/18/2012 10:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 17090286 United States11/18/2012 10:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| D. Bunker 11/18/2012 10:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Met a girl online... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 713631 We chatted on the phone and texted several times...she was back in town so I suggested we meet and she said yes but I was continuing conversation in text. And she was talking about the new James Bond movie and kept on telling me she finds James Bond irresistable, gets all the pretty girls... So I playfully said "So I'm sure he can get you with a snap of a finger right? lol" And she replied with "I'm not that easy but maybe james bond can." And I responded back with 2 other texts and no response for a whole day! Could I have set her off with just one comment? I will assume you are in your teen years due to context. If I were to remember that time in my life, I think she could have easily felt you were disrespecting her. Move on. :savetata: Favorite Quote - "I just fucking love outer space, it has all those planets and stars and shit." - Mister Obvious 2009 |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27932485  Ireland11/18/2012 10:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 23200727 United States11/18/2012 10:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One day without a response is no big deal. When a girl is playing hard to get, I might go 3 days without a response. I have a rule, never text them more than once, then wait for them to respond. Also, don't text her back 3 seconds after she texts you, it looks like you're sitting there staring at your phone waiting on her text, and that seems desperate. Act like you don't even notice her little game. Play it cool. I bat .750 with this strategy, although its dealing with girls I met at a bar first, not online. It doesn't hurt to be good looking and drive a sports car either. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8083785 ^Bar trash |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27942256  Brazil11/18/2012 10:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 17090286 United States11/18/2012 10:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, no, this can be salvaged. He just hounded her too much. He flooded her with texts and she got crowded. He needs to hold off for a bit. Girls like attention, but when you pour it on them they feel like they've won you. Hold back a bit. |
