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Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?

 
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11/19/2012 04:34 AM
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Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
One day I was having a chat with my wife about domestic violence (there had been an incident in our extended family), and I realized that for me - as a male - it would be easier to forgive infidelity than getting hit by her. I've always hated the double standard in movies where women slapping men is seen as humorous or justified. A man hitting woman is an abomination, but domestic violence towards men is not justified either.

Cheating is, of course, inexcusable, but for me a one-night stand would be easier to forgive than a slap in the face (or worse).

And no, I am not projecting "my own desire to cheat on her". For me, hitting your spouse is the ultimate betrayal of trust and if I ever did it to her, I couldn't live with myself anymore. Cheating is bad, but for me the difference is a bit like the difference between shooting someone and stealing all his property. You can't take the bullet back and fix the injuries as if they never existed, whereas property can always be returned or compensated for.

I can see how a marriage can be salvaged after a problem with infidelity, but I don't see how it could work anymore once someone gets beaten.
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11/19/2012 04:38 AM
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Re: Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
Pushing buttons leads to beating.

Not pushing buttons leads to cheating
Face Palmer
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11/19/2012 04:41 AM

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Re: Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
If your spouse breaks up with you cause you beat the living shit out of her - she did not truely love you.
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11/19/2012 04:57 AM
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Re: Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
cheating = forgive
beating = kill
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11/19/2012 05:06 AM
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Re: Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
Cheating - would walk proves every thing they said was a lie and would of been happening well before you found out.

Beating - are we talking one enraged slap or push into wall or whatever as provoked or a severe bashing as his dinner was burnt. But chance of forgiving here with me IF pushed and if it was not excessive. However he may find he got a kick in the privates whilst it was happening, lol.
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11/19/2012 05:08 AM
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Re: Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
If your spouse breaks up with you cause you beat the living shit out of her - she did not truely love you.
 Quoting: Face Palmer


lmao
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11/19/2012 05:20 AM
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Re: Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
Beating, but then I'm a masochist.
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11/19/2012 11:22 AM

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Re: Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
Both will get you all fukd up..better make sure its gonna be worth it...
" It`s only weird the first time" ;p
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11/19/2012 11:41 AM
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Re: Cheating or beating - which one would you forgive more easily?
You do not accept either. If you do, you have no respect for yourself.

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