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omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm

 
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
if this is a true story, and your not a troll. I would do this:

Find a wonderful Christian church, evangelical, bible believing, outreaching concerned church.

I would go to church, if your not 'born again' I would ask the Lord to change my heart for Him.

I would pray both silently and infront of my husband.

I would curb my tongue, soften my tone, show concern and love and charity, for my husband, for my family, for my community and my church.

I would spend hours reading the bible, turn from the tv, movies and news and not engage with them, but if your husband wants to talk about the 'news' listen politely and show that you care what he is talking about. But don't add to the fuel or the fire.

Show him a better way to be. Be the way YOU want him to be. When he sees its not just a temporary 'thing', and that you have peace of mind, heart and soul, maybe he will become interested.

He is not happy in his skin, in his life or with the path he has choosen. But people dont automatically figure it out or have the energy, faith, know how to get off 'that path'.

The Lord will help you, he will first change you, and with adamant prayer and faithfulness, he will show your husband through you.
It takes faith, it takes time and patiance.
If you love your husband, you must first love God.

Talk is cheap, action is what will give credance.
Don't talk a lot about your change, just show him.

Get involved in charity work, helping others, fill your time creatively, positively and with good intention fulfilling needs of people who can not fulfill their own.
We can not change others.
We can only change ourselves.
And through dailey prayer, contact and intercession, can we ever hope to influence a change in those we love.
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Wholly Fuck!!! Unicorns, Rainbows and Mystical Fairies.

OP,

Do Not do this!!!

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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
He is covering up some sort of fears. It comes out in the traits you described.

He likely doesn't even realize what his fears are.

He has been conditioned with all that macho marine crap, and doesn't have a way he thinks is manly to express his fears, so he lashes out in other ways, as you describe.

I'm a vet, not some military basher, before anyone decides to flame me.
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
I am a Marine wife, too (retired).

First off, there are some wonderful Marine families and marriages out there. Hang around with them so that he sees good behavior modeled in front of him. He will eventually see that his negativity is not neccesary and may be holding him back in life.

I am of the old school and believe that you should support your husband 100%, although you may have to get YOUR emotional support from others (Bible, trusted family, etc.). Given the up tempo life that Marine families go through, I am sure that he is under a lot of stress. I think that it is particularly telling that he doesn't want anyone over Thanksgiving. Surely you know by now that our lives are not like other lives and our Marine Corps. burdens are not like other family burdens. It sounds like he really needs to unwind for a day with no responsibilities. I would honor that and make it the most relaxing day possible for him.

Good luck and many blessings to you.

A Marine wife of 27 years
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Negativity from morning till night.

The truck tire needs air
Those steaks you bought suck
I hate Florida(course, hes hated everywhere hes lived

 Quoting: natasha77


So you live in Florida, drive around with flat tires and can't cook. Your hubby is pointing out FACTS and you call him negative?
 Quoting: Face Palmer


Seriously...

I lived in Ft lauderdale for three weeks once and it was three weeks too long.

You don't DO anything about your husband. Marine or not, the fact is that you should be a faithful wife. If he is being so negative its probably because he is unhappy with you in some or many ways. Honestly he is being polite, I'm sure he probably wants to smack you and kick your ass to the curb sometimes. Seriously, your not meeting his expectations, and instead of just saying it, he is being critical, its a common response. If you love him and you want him to keep you, then you should think really carefully about how best you can make him happy.

And for fucks sake the man is in the Marines, hes got all kinds of shit to deal with, including possibly shooting it out with some assholes in a shitty third world country for nothing, for a society that considers men like him disposable.
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From the OP's post, it doesn't sound like he is even in the MC anymore.
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
Negativity from morning till night.
I can no longer stand it, nor make excuses, nor pretend it isn't there.

No one has seen anything like it.
Everything is bad, wrong.
The minute he opens his mouth,

Got to pay this bill
The truck tire needs air
Those steaks you bought suck
I hate Florida(course, hes hated everywhere hes lived
His boss is an ass
I don't want anyone over Thanksgiving
Bla bla bla bla...

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IS POSITIVE.

HOW CAN PEOPLE LIVE INDIDE THEIR SKINS LIKE THAT
????????

I can't take it any more.damned1dunno1
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He needs to go to counseling you already know this.
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
Negativity from morning till night.

The truck tire needs air
Those steaks you bought suck
I hate Florida(course, hes hated everywhere hes lived

 Quoting: natasha77


So you live in Florida, drive around with flat tires and can't cook. Your hubby is pointing out FACTS and you call him negative?
 Quoting: Face Palmer


Seriously...

I lived in Ft lauderdale for three weeks once and it was three weeks too long.

You don't DO anything about your husband. Marine or not, the fact is that you should be a faithful wife. If he is being so negative its probably because he is unhappy with you in some or many ways. Honestly he is being polite, I'm sure he probably wants to smack you and kick your ass to the curb sometimes. Seriously, your not meeting his expectations, and instead of just saying it, he is being critical, its a common response. If you love him and you want him to keep you, then you should think really carefully about how best you can make him happy.

And for fucks sake the man is in the Marines, hes got all kinds of shit to deal with, including possibly shooting it out with some assholes in a shitty third world country for nothing, for a society that considers men like him disposable.
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WTF I hope this post is the a joke.
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
Negativity from morning till night.
I can no longer stand it, nor make excuses, nor pretend it isn't there.

No one has seen anything like it.
Everything is bad, wrong.
The minute he opens his mouth,

Got to pay this bill
The truck tire needs air
Those steaks you bought suck
I hate Florida(course, hes hated everywhere hes lived
His boss is an ass
I don't want anyone over Thanksgiving
Bla bla bla bla...ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IS POSITIVE.

HOW CAN PEOPLE LIVE INDIDE THEIR SKINS LIKE THAT
????????

I can't take it any more.damned1dunno1
 Quoting: natasha77


BTW...

The bla, bla, bla, part shows YOUR disrespect for your husband right there. Have you considered that you may be contributing to the problem?
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11/19/2012 08:41 AM
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
Yeah, keep supporting those troops so they can continue the slaughter of innocents, yeah, don't want to rain on their parade.

Leave the asshole. Life is too shortpeace
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Yeah, keep supporting those troops so they can continue the slaughter of innocents, yeah, don't want to rain on their parade.

Leave the asshole. Life is too shortpeace
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"The troops" are as much victims as anyone. They didn't start any of these wars, politicians did.
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
natasha this for you baby

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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
I'm on his team...

Bills are a pain in my fucking dick.
Truck tires do need air...so fucking stupid!
Those steaks you bought DID suck, do some fucking research next time.
Florida is a fucking hell hole, like most of this country.
His Boss, Eric, is a known fucking degenerate asshole.
FUCK having people over for Thanksgiving...nobody touches my feast.

What you are describing is typical manly man behavior, there's nothing wrong with your husband. Now make me a fucking sandwich and shut your fucking mouth. I love you.
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roflclappa
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Negativity from morning till night.
I can no longer stand it, nor make excuses, nor pretend it isn't there.

No one has seen anything like it.
Everything is bad, wrong.
The minute he opens his mouth,

Got to pay this bill
The truck tire needs air
Those steaks you bought suck
I hate Florida(course, hes hated everywhere hes lived
His boss is an ass
I don't want anyone over Thanksgiving
Bla bla bla bla...

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IS POSITIVE.

HOW CAN PEOPLE LIVE INDIDE THEIR SKINS LIKE THAT
????????

I can't take it any more.damned1dunno1
 Quoting: natasha77


let me guess-- he busts his ass and you do shit all day..
whiney biatch
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
get used to it militarty wives..they are pumped full of vaccinations and then thrown into a third world country, surrounded by male testerone soldiers, who in secret are scared shitless..

then they come home, either working in a boring ass matrix or sitting at home because they cannot find a job..understood...but most join because of this reason, they cant hack it so join the military...

yes they protect our country, atleast I think they do, maybe they just really are puppets on a huge string, thrown into a war zone...

I would be one pissed off mother fucker too...
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been there with an ex girlfriend. it will never get better. get out while you still can.
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oh yes, the vaccinations are the start of the whole mental problems....throw in the stress of third world country male dominated war zone...ship them back home, after a prolonged period of isanity, basically swinging their peckers in the desert with guns...throw them back into reality, or the matrix...BIG big recipe for disaster.....
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If you're not angry...you haven't been paying attention.

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The religion advise is the worst thing you could do. Move to another country and tell him to leave the marines asap.

That is what you really need to do.
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You men dont understand that you get bjs when you are NICE, not negative assholes.
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You men dont understand that you get bjs when you are NICE, not negative assholes.
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i was once offered a bj at the end of every day i could go without a cigarette.


well i didnt even make it one day ever without a cigarette.



now that im not with that girl anymore, i dont smoke.


go figure.
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You men dont understand that you get bjs when you are NICE, not negative assholes.
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i was once offered a bj at the end of every day i could go without a cigarette.


well i didnt even make it one day ever without a cigarette.



now that im not with that girl anymore, i dont smoke.


go figure.
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seriously go figure that out.

break up with the girl/// no need to kill myself with ciggies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOLOL
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If you're not angry...you haven't been paying attention.
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WOOT!!!

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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
This reminds me of my father, he was never deployed anywhere, but I can't stand it when he starts the woe-is-me train. From one subject to another, he keeps going on and on and on.

He usually starts with something that just happened or that he just read about, and then works his way through every slight in his life. Sometimes going back to complain`about things that happened when he was 6. He's 70!!!!

This isn't new, it's just how he is. Complaining about his complaining or asking him to stop doesn't help. The only thing that works is to leave him alone for an hour.

He's an emotional vampire and seems to live on making others suffer through his complaints. But walk away for an hour and then come back, and he's broken the loop and can be a nice person again. If I didn't walk away and stayed, he would literally complain the entire day. gaah (My idea of Hell is having to drive him somewhere far away, and have him start the woe-is-me train when I drive out the driveway. tissue)

Everyone needs to be able to complain a little. But if you husband hitches the woe-is-me train up, then go find something to do far away from him. You can suggesting help or talking to religious leader, but it's up to him to go.

When he starts, I'm betting your blood pressure goes through the roof. Remember, you can't help him if your dead. Go for a walk or drive and then come back in an hour. It really helps.

blwkss
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1 - Let him starve
2 - Let him sleep outside, in the cold
3 - Let him get really sick

Then, when he is hungry, cold and sick, tell him now he's got reason to be so freaking negative.
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in the cold in Florida ? i'm not sure that it will got so much effect on him

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lmao @ "those steaks you bought suck"
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Re: omg, I dont know what to do about my 100% negative Marine husband. Hes getting worse.....dm
Negativity from morning till night.
I can no longer stand it, nor make excuses, nor pretend it isn't there.

No one has seen anything like it.
Everything is bad, wrong.
The minute he opens his mouth,

Got to pay this bill
The truck tire needs air
Those steaks you bought suck
I hate Florida(course, hes hated everywhere hes lived
His boss is an ass
I don't want anyone over Thanksgiving
Bla bla bla bla...

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IS POSITIVE.

HOW CAN PEOPLE LIVE INDIDE THEIR SKINS LIKE THAT
????????

I can't take it any more.damned1dunno1
 Quoting: natasha77


I have 6 Combat tours, and they effect everyone differently. Me, I have PTSD thats triggered by noises, but not too bad.

Other than that I stay very happy, positive and motivated all day & night long.

Is your Marine a Combat Veteran too?

If not then most likely he is severely depressed, and we all know what depressed people do, they come in and out of depression very regularly for life.

If your husbad is not a Combat Veteran, it might be time for "YOU", ..... "Make that Move".

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1072087


I can see that your 6 combat tours have turned you into a happy positive motivated jerk.

She should start by paying the bills and getting the tires pumped up. Take some load off the guy and see if the mood improves.
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Negativity from morning till night.
I can no longer stand it, nor make excuses, nor pretend it isn't there.

No one has seen anything like it.
Everything is bad, wrong.
The minute he opens his mouth,

Got to pay this bill
The truck tire needs air
Those steaks you bought suck
I hate Florida(course, hes hated everywhere hes lived
His boss is an ass
I don't want anyone over Thanksgiving
Bla bla bla bla...

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IS POSITIVE.

HOW CAN PEOPLE LIVE INDIDE THEIR SKINS LIKE THAT
????????

I can't take it any more.damned1dunno1
 Quoting: natasha77


He is suffering from Depression.
Get him to a doctor.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22596999


This^^^
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Is his name Dave?
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[link to www.fastereft.com]
for you OP

for your Marine:
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