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if this is a true story, and your not a troll. I would do this:
Find a wonderful Christian church, evangelical, bible believing, outreaching concerned church.
I would go to church, if your not 'born again' I would ask the Lord to change my heart for Him.
I would pray both silently and infront of my husband.
I would curb my tongue, soften my tone, show concern and love and charity, for my husband, for my family, for my community and my church.
I would spend hours reading the bible, turn from the tv, movies and news and not engage with them, but if your husband wants to talk about the 'news' listen politely and show that you care what he is talking about. But don't add to the fuel or the fire.
Show him a better way to be. Be the way YOU want him to be. When he sees its not just a temporary 'thing', and that you have peace of mind, heart and soul, maybe he will become interested.
He is not happy in his skin, in his life or with the path he has choosen. But people dont automatically figure it out or have the energy, faith, know how to get off 'that path'.
The Lord will help you, he will first change you, and with adamant prayer and faithfulness, he will show your husband through you.
It takes faith, it takes time and patiance.
If you love your husband, you must first love God.
Talk is cheap, action is what will give credance.
Don't talk a lot about your change, just show him.
Get involved in charity work, helping others, fill your time creatively, positively and with good intention fulfilling needs of people who can not fulfill their own.
We can not change others.
We can only change ourselves.
And through dailey prayer, contact and intercession, can we ever hope to influence a change in those we love.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27129259 THIS will ultimately cause his complete insanity, depression and his eventual suicide.. Yes, jump right on the Churchtard Bandwagon so he get's threatened with eternal fire for hating this bullshit fucked up world. His truck does need air, your fucking steaks did suck, you are a shitty wife, and you deserve what you get. Actually Jesus did not come to earth to condemn mankind, he came to save mankind. Finding a 'good' church, not a catholic church, would take some work on your part, you have to be careful of churches, as there are many who preach all hellfire and brimstone, while others steer in other directions. I have found non denominational churches can be full of good people and good leadership. You can not change your husband. No woman can change a husband. You have to change yourself. People can not change without the help of God and prayer. I can't relate to being married to a person in the military, and what they probably have gone through. It very well may be through vaccinations, experiences, trials he is broken inside. YOU have to be the light in his life until you can get him interested in God. Of course if YOU aren't interested in God, he will be even more farther from it. You have to take care of yourself first, and you must become strong so you can be there for your husband when he finally decides to straighten up. You only have one life, don't live the next 30 years in seperate rooms, hating each other, hating life and running it into the mud. Do something now, stop complaining, get on your knees and ask for help from the God who was prophesized 2500 years ago to come and be called 'the great councellor'. And don't listen to God haters, they can't know how wonderful it is to love Jesus and be saved by him, and to have true peace and gentleness in this life.
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