I'm really depressed.

Dude I'm about ready to dump my own girlfriend, I know how you are. But the number 1 problem is that you are giving all the power to her. You shouldn't do that, that is disrespectful towards yourself. Think of it from a woman's perspective. They are able to dump you and walk away, get on with their life and find others. But, if you cannot do this yourself, if you cannot cope without them, they won't consider wanting you back. You need to remove all traces of her from your life, it's the only way you'll get over it. If you don't...then you need to stop talking to her all together and begin focusing on the positive. Make it appear you are doing great without her and are very positive about things, it'll make all the difference and maybe you'll begin to see she wasn't meant for you anyways.

You broke up with a girl, and now you're talking about personal doom... it's a girl man, not the end of the world.... why don't you focus on your DIVINE LAW maybe that will allow you to respect the sorriness just a bit.

Hang in there buddy time's a great healer stay strong my heart goes out to you x

It's all lessons. Keep your head up & surround yourself with people that care about you. If it is meant to be, she will be back.

Not just a girl

Well I can tell you something about yourself...You Sir are Intelligent, thoughtful and heartbroken....Look at the bright side 2 outa 3 aint bad...Try to look out for yourself right now and the rest will work out fine... Remember this... As much as it appears she isn't heartbroken she is...Plan for the future and don't dwell in the past...It SUCK'S right now but it will get better...

HOLY POOP.
That is exactly what I thought of the next day of the break up. One of my faults is insecurity. I know I am a pretty good looking guy and I'm not obese by any means but I did have a somewhat poor diet. I already considered myself spiritual but I never really meditated or such things, I just mostly thought about it with my mind.

That very next day I was so motivated and still am to start eating healthy. I have been eating a lot of fruit and eating right sized portions. I work out for at least 4 hours a day now. What I mean by that is, I have done much research on maximizing my results, such as strength training, HITT training on the treadmill. When I get exhausted I start to walk on the treadmill and I have my laptop in front of me so I can go on GLP or watch something or whatever. This past week my stomach has been very sensitive when I eat meat or if I put something in the microwave so I have stopped eating meat and using the microwave.

I have been meditating for at least 20 mins a day. Last night I woke up around 3 am couldn't fall back to sleep so I meditated for an hour and it was nostalgic feeling. It felt really nice. I am going to meditate for longer periods of time now.

I am starting to love myself more. There's always that saying that if you can't love yourself you can't love others and in a way, that is what I feel like I'm experiencing.

Thank you so much

Bloody double post sorry xx

Hang in their OP.....You learn from lessons like theses. Even though they are very painful.You never know what awaits you around the corner.

:kks113:

And now you're just being ignorant.

Save some money on the gym and go out walking in nature instead... it will cure your depression even faster, while you're exercising healthily at the same time..

good luck op, and with a depression out of the way there's room for new love

I'm not going to a gym, I have a treadmill in my house and some weights. You're right though, I didn't think about taking walks outside when I do feel depressed. Thank you for your wisdom.

BLAST THIS OP!!!!

Wisdom lol
thank you for your generous over-estimation :)


It helped me through some shitty times. together with a cocktail of vitams b,c,d, ginkgo biloba, spirulina, omega 3, wheat juice, lots of fresh fruits and vegetables, morning exercises and long walks in the woods or at the seaside, and visiting good friends. that helped too.

But lovesickness always hurts, there's no cure for that. It'll heal and leave some scars. But you know how scars can define you. They tell your story

godspeed

Dude I'm about ready to dump my own girlfriend, I know how you are. But the number 1 problem is that you are giving all the power to her. You shouldn't do that, that is disrespectful towards yourself. Think of it from a woman's perspective. They are able to dump you and walk away, get on with their life and find others. But, if you cannot do this yourself, if you cannot cope without them, they won't consider wanting you back. You need to remove all traces of her from your life, it's the only way you'll get over it. If you don't...then you need to stop talking to her all together and begin focusing on the positive. Make it appear you are doing great without her and are very positive about things, it'll make all the difference and maybe you'll begin to see she wasn't meant for you anyways.