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How do I become a real "bad boy" after decades of being a "nice guy"?

 
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I'm sick and tired of wasting time, money, and effort trying to get pretty girls in the sack. I'd much rather just have one waiting on me, nurturing me, feeding me and fucking me.

It seems that some guys get that without trying and I need to learn how. I'm damn angry at all the time I wasted, and I blame it both on girls giving mixed signals and my failure to read them and be whatever I need to be.

I want to be as bad as necessary, but I'd like to avoid fistfights and jail. Just bad enough to hook the girls with minimal effort and keep them fucking me. And I don't want the loser "bad boy that's really nice" approach. It doesn't seem to work.
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Anger is not a turn on. Bad boys get away with it because they're cute or funny, charming, alluring. If you're as old, bald and ugly as you sound, it's hopeless so give up.
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Re: How do I become a real "bad boy" after decades of being a "nice guy"?
Develop a Cocaine Habit.
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....and we bond through sex. We also DO feel complete, and it's the only time we do.

...Sex with or without drugs is the ultimate connection and enlightenment.
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....AND now we know why you suck with women.

here is a hint: your perception is SERIOUSLY flawed.

Good luck betaboy
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quit caring.

Secret to life, really.
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How sad. Might as well die.

No life without sex.
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OP, you are SO lost it's comical. You DO know that there are now hundreds of books on how to seduce women right?

Any one of them will work wonders in less than a week.

They ALL say, that first and foremost, you have to not care.

But go ahead keep being a retarded ignorant spaz for the rest of your life.
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Whoever it is must be 1/2 my weight and 1/3 my age, and reasonably tall. Fuck anyone that says it can't be done - I'll be as bad as necessary to make it happen.
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If you're under 250 lbs and 54 years of age, I suggest the "Free Candy" van....
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Re: How do I become a real "bad boy" after decades of being a "nice guy"?
You can't.
You're a pussy.
You're a cuckold.
You're a submissve by nature.
Embrace your nature.
Find a woman to serve.
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You can't.
You're a pussy.
You're a cuckold.
You're a submissve by nature.
Embrace your nature.
Find a woman to serve.
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Right here on GLP there are plenty of
goddesses who will fit you with CB6000
and take control of your sexuality and your
life.
Don't try to be what you are not.
Submit to strong dominant woman and be happy.
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I'm sick and tired of wasting time, money, and effort trying to get pretty girls in the sack. I'd much rather just have one waiting on me, nurturing me, feeding me and fucking me.

It seems that some guys get that without trying and I need to learn how. I'm damn angry at all the time I wasted, and I blame it both on girls giving mixed signals and my failure to read them and be whatever I need to be.

I want to be as bad as necessary, but I'd like to avoid fistfights and jail. Just bad enough to hook the girls with minimal effort and keep them fucking me. And I don't want the loser "bad boy that's really nice" approach. It doesn't seem to work.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


Anger is not a turn on. Bad boys get away with it because they're cute or funny, charming, alluring. If you're as old, bald and ugly as you sound, it's hopeless so give up.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6493463


Not bald or ugly. Generally not angry, but I'm getting quite frustrated making effort for nothing. I've got plenty to do if I want to without a girl, but I really have nothing I need to do ever. I do have everything material that I'll ever need.
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You can't.
You're a pussy.
You're a cuckold.
You're a submissve by nature.
Embrace your nature.
Find a woman to serve.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22537353


Right here on GLP there are plenty of
goddesses who will fit you with CB6000
and take control of your sexuality and your
life.
Don't try to be what you are not.
Submit to strong dominant woman and be happy.
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Stupid moranic trolls.......
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quit caring.

Secret to life, really.
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How sad. Might as well die.

No life without sex.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


OP, you are SO lost it's comical. You DO know that there are now hundreds of books on how to seduce women right?

Any one of them will work wonders in less than a week.

They ALL say, that first and foremost, you have to not care.

But go ahead keep being a retarded ignorant spaz for the rest of your life.
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I've read dozens of ebooks on the subject and watched/listened to endless videos. They just ask people to do things that are not natural, like not care, be happy, and teasing, with a back and forth flirty vibe. Totally unnatural behaviors that can't be taught.

If I didn't care, I'd not bother - too much trouble.
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If you go the bad boy route, you may have lots of sex, but it will all be with crazy women. It's not about "bad boy" anyway. What you need to project is confidence - never say it out loud, but let the women you date know you can take her or leave her in subtle ways. Don't let her walk all over you, but don't be a dick. Know what you want, and take it, but you don't have to be an asshole to achieve this. Trust me, we can smell desperation, and nothing makes us want a man more than knowing he can live without us. It makes us want to prove him wrong.

Now the feminazis are going to bad karma me into oblivion, but I don't care. Please, for the love of Pete, do not turn into another Jersey Shore douche bag. Thank you.
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Ignore everything else she said and do what she said not to do (bolded for you). That's what works.
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Buy a motorcycle...
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Good idea. It's on the short list.
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But not just any motorcycle - a Harley

woohoo
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Harley = pussy magnet.
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Buy a motorcycle...
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Good idea. It's on the short list.
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But not just any motorcycle - a Harley

woohoo
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Harley = pussy magnet.
 Quoting: last one


OK, I'll bite. Why a Harley, and why do they attract more pussy than other big bikes?
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If you go the bad boy route, you may have lots of sex, but it will all be with crazy women. It's not about "bad boy" anyway. What you need to project is confidence - never say it out loud, but let the women you date know you can take her or leave her in subtle ways. Don't let her walk all over you, but don't be a dick. Know what you want, and take it, but you don't have to be an asshole to achieve this. Trust me, we can smell desperation, and nothing makes us want a man more than knowing he can live without us. It makes us want to prove him wrong.

Now the feminazis are going to bad karma me into oblivion, but I don't care. Please, for the love of Pete, do not turn into another Jersey Shore douche bag. Thank you.
 Quoting: Meggarea


Ignore everything else she said and do what she said not to do (bolded for you). That's what works.
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OK, time to watch Jersey Shore.
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You are wanting to go in the opposite direction required.
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You are wanting to go in the opposite direction required.
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What are you talking about?
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Good idea. It's on the short list.
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But not just any motorcycle - a Harley

woohoo
 Quoting: Sloane


Harley = pussy magnet.
 Quoting: last one


OK, I'll bite. Why a Harley, and why do they attract more pussy than other big bikes?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


Let's put it this way. On more than one(many) occasions, I have referred to mine as an eight foot long, black,96 cubic inch, gas powered vibrator. If there are any ladies around that are intrigued by that description, they WILL be around to "ask for a ride".

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tom Lykis 101google it watch the videos listen to the shows. i never needed it the great one already been though it.
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If you go the bad boy route, you may have lots of sex, but it will all be with crazy women. It's not about "bad boy" anyway. What you need to project is confidence - never say it out loud, but let the women you date know you can take her or leave her in subtle ways. Don't let her walk all over you, but don't be a dick. Know what you want, and take it, but you don't have to be an asshole to achieve this. Trust me, we can smell desperation, and nothing makes us want a man more than knowing he can live without us. It makes us want to prove him wrong.

Now the feminazis are going to bad karma me into oblivion, but I don't care. Please, for the love of Pete, do not turn into another Jersey Shore douche bag. Thank you.
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Well said.

You are being told the truth here.
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That might be good advice - if I was a girl, but I'm not. Real MEN NEED SEX - it's visceral. We only have one X chromosome and always need another, and we bond through sex. We also DO feel complete, and it's the only time we do.

I've done the hard work of soul searching and it's take years, and if I had it to do over, I'd just do lots of sex and drugs. It's like seeking a phantom. Sex with or without drugs is the ultimate connection and enlightenment.
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Or

You could try to evolve past that.

Wouldn't it be great to be free of being chained down by sex.

Like I said, visit an animal shelter. Watch the documentary 'The cove' about how dolphins are slaughtered. Join GreenPeace. You can burn up a lot of testerone with that group. Try to use your testerone for something good.

Really sweet nice girls would love a man like that. I know I do.
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when sex doesn't control you , neither can anything in the world... its not for everyone. Most people do not understand. Being held captive over one's sexual desires is a prison in itself.

Own your sexual desires, don't let them own you... when you change the way you think/approach this, it is amazing what will be attracted to you...hf
 Quoting: mk ultra 5813027


To add what you said.

Once you focus on something bigger than yourself, like a cause, everything will take care of itself.

And you will be in a position to meet nice girls. Girls that are attracted to bad boys just aren't the type you take home to mommy, besides, they will dump you for the next bad boy. Then you have to factor in that she probably already had a bad boy boyfried, who might really be a badass and then you can get in trouble.

Think about just being yourself and focusing on something to help others.

hf
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this is so true.

Sex keeps you captive on a level that never truly elevates one to their potential destiny. I've read some studies that say too much promiscuous sex actually ages you (well sex with multiple partners) and there is probably truth there since multiple partners can equate to disease, even silent, slow changing cellular diseases have been traced back to potential unclean partners who were infected with some sort of bacteria infection etc. I don't think anyone could argue that today's world of sex, sex, sex... that a lot of people are sleeping with multiple partners and lying about it. its a dirty game. even the people with the best intentions who set out to meet a nice guy or girl have no idea how many people their perspective mate has slept with or exactly what sexual acts they did in the past.

so yeah, imho a vast majority of people have been programmed to seek out sex with has many and any kind of person they can get. And then they settle down at some point when they get tired of the monotony of so many different sexual partners and decide they want one person. then they realize how hard that is because they have been programmed to seek sex, not a true, loving relationship.
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If you go the bad boy route, you may have lots of sex, but it will all be with crazy women. It's not about "bad boy" anyway. What you need to project is confidence - never say it out loud, but let the women you date know you can take her or leave her in subtle ways. Don't let her walk all over you, but don't be a dick. Know what you want, and take it, but you don't have to be an asshole to achieve this. Trust me, we can smell desperation, and nothing makes us want a man more than knowing he can live without us. It makes us want to prove him wrong.

Now the feminazis are going to bad karma me into oblivion, but I don't care. Please, for the love of Pete, do not turn into another Jersey Shore douche bag. Thank you.
 Quoting: Meggarea


Well said.

You are being told the truth here.
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Give up. You tell yourself you were a nice guy? lol
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Buy a harley.

Get some leather.

Grow a goatee.

Check out Biker or Not for women into the lifestyle.
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OP, what do you plan on doing with the old-ex-current-GF?

Is she willing to wait at home while you're out looking for her replacement?

Are you being honest with her about this?

Does she know you're as unhappy as you seem to be here?

If she's not attacted to you physically, as you said, do you not think she's looking for your replacement as well?

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I'm sick and tired of wasting time, money, and effort trying to get pretty girls in the sack. I'd much rather just have one waiting on me, nurturing me, feeding me and fucking me.

It seems that some guys get that without trying and I need to learn how. I'm damn angry at all the time I wasted, and I blame it both on girls giving mixed signals and my failure to read them and be whatever I need to be.

I want to be as bad as necessary, but I'd like to avoid fistfights and jail. Just bad enough to hook the girls with minimal effort and keep them fucking me. And I don't want the loser "bad boy that's really nice" approach. It doesn't seem to work.
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get a blonde wig and some high heels.kim jong
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OP, you sound very patient. It sounds like she may need some counseling. I can tell you for most happy couples sex only gets better as you grow older together, especially if you stay fit and take care of yourselves physically and because of the trust and bonding you develop with time. I do things now I had no idea existed when we first got married, its exciting. And I love it when he comes to me asking to try something new, its exciting for me that he wants to keep exploring me in that way of pleasing me. I try to be spontaneous and exciting with him as well. Sure people get dry spells now and then do to life, stress, work, etc. but if she is telling you no more sex, that is something serious that she might be dealing with. Is she okay physically? does anything hurt during sex? she may be afraid to tell anyone. just some thoughts.
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She and I have very few secrets, and she's told me that she never liked my body. I'm twice her size in build - she's very slender and my chest is twice the size of hers. She's built to dance and I'm built for heavy lifting. We're both in good shape and have taken serious backcountry hikes together. Appearance together means a lot to her, and I can never be sufficiently slender for her taste, even if I was skin and bones. Nothing hurts during sex except she gets dry. We lube everything and then try everything, and she's OK with that.

She would never live with me, and refuses couple's counseling. I've heard that it really doesn't work 80% of the time, and many counselors don't encourage and force couples together. I've no interest in what's right - only what works.
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Unfortunately it does sound like a bad match. I truly believe in the physical chemistry component for a long lasting relationship. I was always attracted to the marky mark build on a guy and luckily my hubby has that type of build. During my dating years I dated all types, but for some reason, I had a certain 'type' of guy in physical stature that I desired. Perhaps it was programming, IDK, but I could never marry someone I wasn't physically attracted to. Its all about chemistry when you first meet. The rest are just crossing stuff you would like in a mate off the list, but physical attraction is first, if you kid yourself about this, you usually wind up divorced. Lots of people panic and marry the first person that says yes at age 30 something... then years later they claim that they are not attracted to them anymore, well the truth is they were never really attracted to them to begin with, they just didn't want to be lonely and single.
 Quoting: mk ultra 5813027


We had GREAT chemistry for 4 years, and after that, it was always more difficult, but we always had some sex. Like I said, I need to either get her back on my terms or find someone hotter. Whoever it is must be 1/2 my weight and 1/3 my age, and reasonably tall. Fuck anyone that says it can't be done - I'll be as bad as necessary to make it happen.
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it sounds like you both need a break.

like other posters have said, you need to care a little less. Do not try to be anything you are not. Knowing what you don't want is half the battle and you sound like you actually know what you are looking for. Just let it happen, don't try so hard. Engage in activities/hobbies where you meet people and be friendly, not desperate. Its funny, being married, I've been out of the dating game for a long time, yet when I used to work, I would get hit on sometimes (usually after work at an outing when everyone was drinking) and a couple of the office flirts would be so blatant with their cute talk - but I shrugged it off, and I am not some gorgeous gal, just an average gal who is easy going around co-workers. I never went in that direction and returned the flirting, as I love my hubby and would never cheat, nor do I need the fleeting attention of a co-worker, but I refuse to believe it is so hard for men and women to meet these days. I had a friend email me last week to tell me about an old co-worker who was asking about me and how he missed me, lol... I was like he needs to get a life, I'm married. I guess my point is, if I was single, I would be out living it up with friends and having fun. And dating lots of people even if it was just 'friend dates' That is what you need to do right now, have some fun and not worry about meeting someone -- it will happen all on its own.
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You can only be who you are... nothing more, nothing less.
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hah. empirically women like the "bad boy".

as a gay, ive had several beautiful women friends. they do always go for the bad boy.

the key is - to treat them like shit. be sarcastic as hell. sarcasm is an aphrodesiac to women. they get off on that shit. verbal tete-a-tete is their blow job.
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OP, what do you plan on doing with the old-ex-current-GF?

Is she willing to wait at home while you're out looking for her replacement?

Are you being honest with her about this?

Does she know you're as unhappy as you seem to be here?

If she's not attacted to you physically, as you said, do you not think she's looking for your replacement as well?

?
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We live thousands of miles apart. She's told me she wants me to find someone else. She has dreams of some new partner, though I think it's still a dream. She could never be trusted not to cheat, though she was always honest about it if I asked. In short, she doesn't want me as anything other than a friend. We've never lived together, though I've suggested it for 20 years. I was there to nurture her emotionally, and she nurtured me sexually and emotionally a few times a year. My heart's been bleeding for decades, and now I suppose I'll just have to find someone else. She knows I want her and that I'll be loyal if we can have something real.
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hah. empirically women like the "bad boy".

as a gay, ive had several beautiful women friends. they do always go for the bad boy.

the key is - to treat them like shit. be sarcastic as hell. sarcasm is an aphrodesiac to women. they get off on that shit. verbal tete-a-tete is their blow job.
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This is an interesting point of view. It makes no sense, but women never have either. It's actually hard and rather painful to be sarcastic and harsh, but I'll find a way.
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You can only be who you are... nothing more, nothing less.
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That's a real limiting belief. I need to do better than that.

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