Women who went through C-sections...

only a person who is radically immature could ever feel resentment towards her child for having to be born a certain way.

when i had my c section it was at a catholic hospital.

i asked them if they would tie my tubes but they refused.

when the baby flips upside down and gets the umbilical cord wrapped around it's neck, it is attempting to commit suicide.

when the baby flips upside down and gets the umbilical cord wrapped around it's neck, it is attempting to commit suicide.

if it was up to me, all women would have babies by c-sections as a part of induced labour, after she enters the time in which it's safe to do this, and a tummy tuck immediately after the baby is born, while she is still in surgery.

plenty of rich women do it this way, so it's safe only requires skilled doctors.

there is nothing natural in the way women have babies, especially nothing grand, natural, or beautiful in the pain, the mutulation of my body, or anything that happens during the giving birth through your vagina, i might as well have a c-section....

unless someone really wants to claim that hours of excrusiatiing pain in which parts of me, i grew to like since i use them to make love to the other half of my everything, open up like a gauge, and then my son or daughter ripps my periannum,until i almost faint, and it's sawed back together and my sagging stomach and vagina stay an open wound for at least a month, and i am at bed rest for fear of ripping open again, and my genitals never ever get back into same shape i was in prior to having my kids.
but half of my everything still has the same penis, only he is 33 and i am 40, with a wracked vagina from our teo kids, and with tight pussy attached to beautiful ladies of 25 walking around saying to my husband, 'heyyy, sup, can wanna see my lovely little pussy?'

even christians understand that the way we have kids was part of a cruel punishment of eve, and not only eve, but the fact it applies to all women was designed to make eve feel guilty of the horrendous pain and terror all women go through so they could have a family....

so anyone claiming anything natural about the way we have kids, or finding beauty in it is in denial.

kids are the best part of humanity withiut a doubt, but the way we have kids is ignorant, coz unusually criel punishment and torture of women is considered natural and even beautiful....

It seems the purpose of this thread is to criticize C section havers. Fuck you.

I disagree. Discussion is important to shed light.

There are a lot of misconceptions out there...

Well, I think a connection to a live baby versus one that would have died is pretty good, now if your a craniosacral therapist you might disagree (given that the baby would have lived with out the c section) due to the importance (long term) of the baby coming through the birth canal and all that.

Dead baby connection, not so good.

This thread pisses me off, what is your point?

I had to have my 2nd c section at a non catholic hospital for that reason. My first child born by c section was born at the catholic hospital where I worked at the time. My second child was born at the Lutheran Hospital. Catholics do not understand the laws of God at all. There is no requirement to not have birth control by God. I only wanted 2 kids for many reasons, and knowing that sex on this world tends to continue after child birth, I wanted my tubes tied. There one prohibition here has caused all sorts of irresponsible behavior. there is no God that demands that you cannot use birth control when you are not ready to bear a child or are finished bearing children.

You're a little bit bonkers, aren't you?

Vaginal birth is natural. It's been done that way since the beginning of time. Just because it's painful and messy doesn't mean it's not. I feel for the women that have to get cut open, I'm sure many would prefer to give birth naturally.

You're pissed because your vag is loose. Try kegals and then get some therapy.

yep, you are right, only coz time was also invented to punish lucifer and eve for standing up to the god of this world, same as "natural" birth.
don't concern yourself with my vagina though, just worry about your own.
if you have one.
if not, you can always pay someone to show you hers.

It seems the purpose of this thread is to criticize C section havers. Fuck you.

if it was up to me, all women would have babies by c-sections as a part of induced labour, after she enters the time in which it's safe to do this, and a tummy tuck immediately after the baby is born, while she is still in surgery.

plenty of rich women do it this way, so it's safe only requires skilled doctors.

there is nothing natural in the way women have babies, especially nothing grand, natural, or beautiful in the pain, the mutulation of my body, or anything that happens during the giving birth through your vagina, i might as well have a c-section....

unless someone really wants to claim that hours of excrusiatiing pain in which parts of me, i grew to like since i use them to make love to the other half of my everything, open up like a gauge, and then my son or daughter ripps my periannum,until i almost faint, and it's sawed back together and my sagging stomach and vagina stay an open wound for at least a month, and i am at bed rest for fear of ripping open again, and my genitals never ever get back into same shape i was in prior to having my kids.
but half of my everything still has the same penis, only he is 33 and i am 40, with a wracked vagina from our teo kids, and with tight pussy attached to beautiful ladies of 25 walking around saying to my husband, 'heyyy, sup, can wanna see my lovely little pussy?'

even christians understand that the way we have kids was part of a cruel punishment of eve, and not only eve, but the fact it applies to all women was designed to make eve feel guilty of the horrendous pain and terror all women go through so they could have a family....

so anyone claiming anything natural about the way we have kids, or finding beauty in it is in denial.

kids are the best part of humanity withiut a doubt, but the way we have kids is ignorant, coz unusually criel punishment and torture of women is considered natural and even beautiful....

The mother subconsciously resents the child for giving her a scar for the rest of her life.

I figure that will be the majority response, that no bond has been severed. A good motherly bond is strong, despite maybe some misteps in the birthing process.

Do you feel like you missed out on anything because you had a C-section?

Theres a documentary called "The Buisness of Being Born", Great little film about the benefits of natural birth. Worth a watch.

Towards the end, a woman claims she felt she has a missing link between herself and her baby. The motherly bond still there, but just some "thing" missing between them.

I've heard this repeated with other women I personally know who went through the C-section.

For me, I don't feel that way. I was put under completely for it and woke up 30 mins after the baby was born. Didn't see him for another 20 mins after that.

So I feel like I missed out that part, and that part was so very important to me, but I don't feel a missing "link" or whatever between my son and myself.

I tried delivering with a midwife and the thought of hospital terrified me. Wasn't part of my birth plan at all. I eventually had to go to the hospital because my labor went haywire.

Just curious how other women feel. Is there something missing for you? What sort of bond is severed, if any?

Interesting article in the New Yorker a few weeks back about our many helpful colonies of bacteria in the body, and science's dawning realization that, rather than germs being bad, a healthy ecosystem of good germs seems to promote good health.

One of the details within the article is that children of C-sections seem to have a less varied germ ecosystem, and potentially as a result, are more susceptible to illnesses. It seems that the passage of the baby through the birth canal might provide a vital process of seeding the newborn with thousands of different types of germs.

Do you feel like you missed out on anything because you had a C-section?

No one is concerned about your vagina.

Problem is you felt the need to go into graphic detail about how loose it is.

I have a vagina..I squeezed a couple of human beings out of it. All natural like and mine isn't all tore up and loose. I don't have a floppy belly either, but then I didn't eat like a sow, allow myself to get all out of shape and then magically expect my body to morph into what it was immediately after the baby came out.

Save your anger for someone else. Don't spout off about your loose lady parts and you will not be addressed about them again. Easy enough, right?

You sound like the Transformer version of a genital Venus Flytrap. I'm afraid of the dark tonight.....