i have family but choose not to be with them...WHY...becuase my child became disability at 4 months old...6 years later, they are still uneducated on him, show no concern, and have no idea what me and my wife go through..

I understand majority of people are uneducated or lack of experience of the subject...

But you know what, i became educated, so i could take care of my son, instead of throwing him in a nursing home..

and if one of my family members where going through the same, i would show my concern, show my support, give my support and would always be in my thoughts..

My seperated mother, father and brother are the most selfish people on this planet...other people have seen this...i have 30 aunts and uncles and not one call in 6 years, only from non-blood related uncle and i am thankful for him many times...and yes i do pick up the phone when grandma is sick and few visits when in town with family members...

not very thankful for the rest of my family...Now i understand... why, out of all my family members, i was the only one put in this position..Because of my ability to handle the situation...Fuck everyone else, and their selfish ways...and that is an understatement...i have been through this for 6 years, and this is not just a delusion, it is acceptance and final awarness after all these years...

But i am thankful for my stressed out wife, even when she goes crazy, understood, right...thankful for my 2 year old, who is doing very well, from the education i have gained, due to our first born complications..and very thankful for help from the angels that have been answering my prayers, when praying for my 6 year old and his well being...