I'll tell women who can't see this one thing...

When a woman finds a real man, not the corporate drones society produces, not the brainwashed guys who blindly follow polititians or whatever... a REAL MAN, who has real balls and all, who has his own ideas, his own objectives in life, etc. and she sees that he wants to go and accomplish the same that she would like to see, she naturally submits to him, complements him, she wants to be with him and serve him. Is not that she HAS to do that, she wants to do that. It doesn't mean that she will be there like a parasite, it's just that she'll help him in all she can because he NEEDS help from her.
That is true love, both submiting to eachother, he listens to her wise advise letting his ego aside, trusting that she won't manipulate him, and she follows him, submits to him, serves him, trusting that he won't abuse her.

Until you find real love, you just don't know what you are talking about, it's about mutual submission.