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Life is horrible.

 
Mastema
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Life is horrible.
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Last Edited by Mastema on 02/13/2013 09:58 PM
“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” -Mahatma Ghandi
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Life can't be easy for a demon who thinks he's "holy".



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The Budda said life is suffering.
Suffer on!
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Another quick thing: There is no such thing as "soulmates" with women nowadays. It's just a dumb paradigm imposed to us by love comedy romances by Hollywood.

Maybe you'll find a decent girl who can be a very good friend, but soulmates? No sorry, you have to give up on such a concept like "soul mates" because once you give up on this paradigm, you become FREE and independent.
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just move on
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no

Last Edited by Mastema on 02/13/2013 09:59 PM
“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” -Mahatma Ghandi
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bipolar..look up the symptoms, think about it and ur experience with her...if this might be a possiblity, then calmly ask her to make a doctors appointment with her..tell her its for your anxiety issues..when you get to the doctor, explain all the bipolar symptoms to the doctor...it may catch her by suprise...but at that moment you are the closest to the goal of getting her properly diagnosed...

if you dont like this idea, talk to her about the symptoms, ask her if she agrees with your assumptions...

my wife is bipolar, and it has been hell...i finally reached an agreeement to get her to she the doctor..my first born had a hypoxia brain injury at 4 months old, 6 years ago..seizures, no mobility, 6 month development, stem cell treatments..This has also been hell..had a second child, 2year old, thank god he resembles me...but it was hell to get past the last 2 years...

point is, it could be worse, get her diagnosed, if she doesnt comply, you may have to seriously think about moving on, and choosing very wisely in your next soul mate, symptons of bipolar do get much much worse, believe me...

good luck in your decision, its a hard world, and as you can see on GLP, its only to get worse...
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my gf is same, her mood can change from baby cutie to satan... u know what... i think she is the Antichrist.
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You're really insecure. Didn't your daddy give your balls permission to drop?
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You are experiencing "ascension" symptoms. Do not fear, "they" will be here soon to save us from this earthly "virtual reality" of "relationships".
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bipolar..look up the symptoms, think about it and ur experience with her...if this might be a possiblity, then calmly ask her to make a doctors appointment with her..tell her its for your anxiety issues..when you get to the doctor, explain all the bipolar symptoms to the doctor...it may catch her by suprise...but at that moment you are the closest to the goal of getting her properly diagnosed...

if you dont like this idea, talk to her about the symptoms, ask her if she agrees with your assumptions...

my wife is bipolar, and it has been hell...i finally reached an agreeement to get her to she the doctor..my first born had a hypoxia brain injury at 4 months old, 6 years ago..seizures, no mobility, 6 month development, stem cell treatments..This has also been hell..had a second child, 2year old, thank god he resembles me...but it was hell to get past the last 2 years...

point is, it could be worse, get her diagnosed, if she doesnt comply, you may have to seriously think about moving on, and choosing very wisely in your next soul mate, symptons of bipolar do get much much worse, believe me...

good luck in your decision, its a hard world, and as you can see on GLP, its only to get worse...
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I understand and if somehow I pull through this and discover that she really still loves me I'll keep this in mind, thanks for your advice.

I'm sorry for you to hear about your first born, what ever happened to him/her?
“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” -Mahatma Ghandi
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You're really insecure. Didn't your daddy give your balls permission to drop?
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O.K., you need to realize what I'm "losing" is like when someone who has everything going for them in the world has had their entire family kidnapped and held for a ransom they might not be able to come up with.

My girlfriend in this case would be simultaneously the kidnapper and the abductee; I don't want to upset her any further and lose everything I care about in life, and I'm running out of luck.
“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” -Mahatma Ghandi
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I once went through something similar. The girl you speak of is supposed to be your very best friend, and someone who loves and cherishes you above all others. What she's doing is emotionally abusive. Demand more for yourself.

My mom once told me that I needed to be with someone who was excited to be with me, and showed it every single day, and she was right. Words to live by.

This idiot you're wasting your time on is clearly damaged goods. Even if you're somehow able to salvage the relationship, you'll spend eternity as a human doormat. That what you want?
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You're really insecure. Didn't your daddy give your balls permission to drop?
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O.K., you need to realize what I'm "losing" is like when someone who has everything going for them in the world has had their entire family kidnapped and held for a ransom they might not be able to come up with.

My girlfriend in this case would be simultaneously the kidnapper and the abductee; I don't want to upset her any further and lose everything I care about in life, and I'm running out of luck.
 Quoting: Mastema


But what you don't seem to understand is this situation is about as different from a healthy relationship as you can get. You won't lose a thing by kicking this chick to the curb. Trust me. You don't want to live this way.

Get yourself into therapy, and focus on pulling it together. You won't regret it.
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My mom once told me that I needed to be with someone who was excited to be with me, and showed it every single day, and she was right. Words to live by.

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THIS, my great grandma, told me at 5 years old, and somehow someway, this was the only thing i remember her telling me..

"Find a women that chases you, never be with a women that you have to chase"..

36 years old and many relationships, many different nationalities, 31 years later, my God, she was right....

Dont spend your time wasting on chasing a women, they will just keep on running, only to slow down every once in a while, so you can catch back up...Bam there she goes again...

sounds like the classic case...

i traveled 45 states, dude there are plenty, i promise..plenty I say..more then you can imagine...
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I once went through something similar. The girl you speak of is supposed to be your very best friend, and someone who loves and cherishes you above all others. What she's doing is emotionally abusive. Demand more for yourself.

My mom once told me that I needed to be with someone who was excited to be with me, and showed it every single day, and she was right. Words to live by.

This idiot you're wasting your time on is clearly damaged goods. Even if you're somehow able to salvage the relationship, you'll spend eternity as a human doormat. That what you want?
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I wish it were more like that but being with her like this for eternity would be a dream come true.

When we still lived together, these kinds of things weren't so hard to deal with, she usually just shut herself in her room and went to sleep and felt better afterwards.

She usually let me lie with her for a long while too until she needed to fall asleep.

It's not like that when we are apart, and it really literally kills me and makes me feel sick.

One time, the last time we were together, she said something untrue to make me cry for a long time and I didn't care because she let me hold her the whole time and I'm hoping it's just something like that this time and nothing too serious.


I don't know why you had to call her an idiot. I take offense to that.

Last Edited by Mastema on 11/23/2012 09:50 AM
“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” -Mahatma Ghandi
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You're really insecure. Didn't your daddy give your balls permission to drop?
 Quoting: Chip


O.K., you need to realize what I'm "losing" is like when someone who has everything going for them in the world has had their entire family kidnapped and held for a ransom they might not be able to come up with.

My girlfriend in this case would be simultaneously the kidnapper and the abductee; I don't want to upset her any further and lose everything I care about in life, and I'm running out of luck.
 Quoting: Mastema


But what you don't seem to understand is this situation is about as different from a healthy relationship as you can get. You won't lose a thing by kicking this chick to the curb. Trust me. You don't want to live this way.

Get yourself into therapy, and focus on pulling it together. You won't regret it.
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How can you say I wont lose anything?

I love her very deeply.
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OK, I'll try one more time and then I'm out of here. You are looking for validation - somebody to tell you to go ahead with your boneheaded plan to be with a crazy person. You need to listen to the more mature posters who have seen (and some experienced) this kind of thing before - and who know it won't work out. Cut your losses now - don't get involved again. You are young and love is merely a state of mind - you can love any number of people in your life. Choose one you also can get along with and respect - or, if you don't think you can do that now then go it alone. I still say you need to work on yourself - you are very immature.

So, you hook up with Unstable Bi-polar Chick. Then what? She makes you feel good some of the time - but she also makes you feel bad enough that you believe your life sucks. Your life sucks now and you aren't even with her? How do you think you will feel a few years down the road if you do get back with her? You'll end up blowing your brains out! That's what you want?

So, you get her to start popping pills to lessen the extreme highs/lows. They will make her a slightly different person and she won't like it and will probably stop taking the pills and you will be back where you started - with a loony. I work with these people on a daily basis - I know the ins and outs of how they think. They always have an excuse as to why their natural loony state is better than one which is tempered by medication. Believe me, you can't fix a broken egg - you can only temporarily put a band-aid on it so the goo doesn't leak out.

What about kids? If you marry her and have kids she will NOT be a fit parent. You run the risk of having totally screwed up kids because of 1) a mom who was popping pills for her bi-polar when she was pregnant; 2) a mom who never popped pill while she was pregnant and didn't take care of herself; 3) an abusive mother to your kids; 4) a genetic neurological defect being passed down to your kids. If you think living with one person like this is nearly unbearable, try living with several.

Any way you look at it, you lose. Cut your losses and run fast and far away from this girl. If you don't you deserve just what you get. People wonder why some of us have little sympathy for those who are in bad situations because of the piss-poor decisions they have made over the years. You are young and you've already made some bad choices. Keep it up and you will be an old unhappy fool living in a broken down trailer with a crazy wife and crazy kids mooching off you. God help you.
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Well said, couldn't agree more.

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Is there a possibility of any mental illness? There are always ups and downs in any relationship but if it comes to the point where you are so miserable and crying it may be time to consider this is not the woman for you.

I don't know how old you are op but time goes by pretty quickly and to waste time in a relationship that is making you upset may not be worth it.

Sorry you're upset but only you can make the changes in your life to be happy.

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Love.


You say she always come back and tells you what it was that had her in this "mood".


Might I suggest you love her enough to stop the cycle. Stop this manic circle jerk, step outside as now and peer within. Seize that instant when it begins in the future. Love.

This small word encompass so much, its barely comprehensible to all.

She needs to trust you the next time, trust you to listen, to understand, to not be judgmental, to be a friend and show compassion.

This point in the circle is here it should end and you should begin a new straighter course into your futures and stop going in the same circles that hurt you both.
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You're really insecure.
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OP, have her come on here and read your thread. I think everything you need to tell here lies within this thread. I haven't read the whole thing but from what I have seen It looks like she means the world to you. Don't give up on her but respect her free will. I hope it all works out well for the both of you.