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My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.

 
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11/23/2012 01:41 PM
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My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
My parents don't like me.
I don't like them.

I can't find work.
I have nowhere to go.

What do I do?
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11/23/2012 01:50 PM

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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
My parents don't like me.
I don't like them.

I can't find work.
I have nowhere to go.

What do I do?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22110043


Apply for work at fast food places, restaurants, construction sites.
A lot of places are hiring part time help just for Christmas season.
I suspect your parents love you but might not approve of some of
your choices maybe?

If you have nowhere to go, try Salvation Army or any United Church.
They'll usually help.
ANHEDONIC

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11/23/2012 01:51 PM

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Wait tables.

That or join a traveling circus.

"You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger"
Anonymous Coward
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11/23/2012 01:56 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
grow weed
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11/23/2012 02:00 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
How old are you OP? The answer depends on how old you are.
Anonymous Coward
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11/23/2012 02:13 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Join a Buddhist monastery. After a while, you will be enlightened enough to deal with your parents or become more tolerable to them.

either way, the world will be better. Plus they will feed you! Hope you like rice.
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11/23/2012 02:13 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Age?

Then, we can better answer you.
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11/23/2012 02:19 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
find something to do that makes money. Get off your Butt.
Offer laundry/pressing service.
Do some gardening (summer!) for your community - get paid too.
Just DO SOMETHING.
Anonymous Coward
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11/23/2012 02:19 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
It's called survival.

As Nike says, Just Do It...
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11/23/2012 02:25 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
I think u should try to resolve your personal issues running from it won't work
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11/23/2012 02:28 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Join the military? That'll make a man out of you.
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11/23/2012 02:34 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Go to family therapy ...
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11/23/2012 02:45 PM
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do gay porn5a
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11/23/2012 02:51 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Dude, I joined the Army when I was there.

I regret not taking the time to find myself on my own terms and carving my path from the start.

I suggest you go visit many places, many states, many countries. Find a place you can be confortable in and build a root. You dont need a lot of money to go and see things for what they are instead of tourism. You can always find a way to complete your quest. Just never give up hope and always learn from the harsh things in your life. Do not resent but appreciate the lessons you learn to grow who you are for the benifit of you, No one else.
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11/23/2012 03:01 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
I think u should try to resolve your personal issues running from it won't work
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13158115



This is true... especially if you're still a teenager. I doubt your parents don't like you and if you're a teen then it's natural for you to feel like you don't like them. We've all been there.
Professor Marvel: Better get under cover, Sylvester. There's a storm blowin' up - a whopper, to speak in the vernacular of the peasantry. Poor little kid, I hope she gets home all right. (Wizard of Oz, 1939)
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11/23/2012 03:01 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
My parents don't like me.
I don't like them.

I can't find work.
I have nowhere to go.

What do I do?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22110043



check out the job corp---

[link to www.jobcorps.gov]
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11/23/2012 03:04 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
My parents don't like me.
I don't like them.

I can't find work.
I have nowhere to go.

What do I do?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22110043



check out the job corp---

[link to www.jobcorps.gov]
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27227279


YES!

great idea, I did Americorp after the service.

Small stipend, bu you go and meet likeminded peope, see places you havent seen, and experiance the majesty of nature.

And you get education money up to $11k for max time served.
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11/23/2012 03:10 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Age?

Then, we can better answer you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15215384








I'm guessing 15yo

Maybe 14
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/23/2012 03:23 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
It won't sound good to say how old I am, but that's not really my concern. I'm 21 years old and after repeatedly saving her from her drunk, abusive husband and her son who recently stabbed me(the son is now out of the house, the father stopped drinking), I couldn't bring myself to move out for school. Thought I had to stay there and 'protect' her, though when she gets me mad, she'll look at me the same as any of her previous abusers-- although I've ONLY ever protected her. It leaves a psychological mark. Anyway, that's been my life since day one after learning I was adopted and being shunned for no reason at all from day one to now from both of my "parents".

So, I think depression and no real direction in life, and being caught in this tornado household has taken away from a lot of personal growth and real life skills. It's sad to say and I probably sound like an irresponsible non-working able-bodied person, but I also suffer from a nerve condition that's practically debilitating. I've been working on it though and have been actively seeking work for a while now too.

They keep saying they want me to get a life and push me out of the house. I've gone to Community College and got A's(no big deal) and that was okay but I didn't really have much for direction and it creeped me out. Obviously not an excuse, I'm not going to make excuses for myself. I'm not very active, my nerve problem makes me less ambitious, I haven't worked in over a year, and I don't feel like school is for me.

I think I would be ambitious if I left the house. I honestly want TIME more than anything to just recover from my past, my nerve problems, and constitute an honest plan to the future. These foreign figure-head parents have enough loot to seat me comfortably in their house for the next 30 years. I hardly eat or use their resources. I want time here and they constantly tell me how much I suck at things.

I'm actually very talented. I've written 4 books, used to be a skilled athelete, not much for personal skills but I'm a talented leader, and I'm not bad with hands on work at all. In fact, many of my community college teachers told me to leave school and figure something out on my own cuz they thought I could do it.

Bottom line is they literally just don't like me and they're not afraid to remind me of that. Their son stabbed me, their daughter got pregnant out of wedlock, and the 21 year old middle child who just wants time to figure out their life, and has broken up all of their malicious, drunken knife-intensive fights over the years is the one to get the boot. Great.

I need to get out of here is the bottom line. I don't want to come back either. There's no room for me here or in their lives. I feel that in my heart and know it. Not to mention, the great division between us is no irreparable. It's sad to say but so be it. This adoption has been a failure from day one and it's now reached the boiling point.

I want a real life, not some foreign household I'm forced to role play in and stuff. As much as it's me desiring a lifestyle they don't approve of(one that stands for freedom and enjoying life, not being a slave to a salary job and European modesty-- i actually want to live, not afraid of cops or the law like these alien FOBs are afraid of our gov't. they really are afraid of power structures here as foreigners and it's never worn off. they try making me feel the same "don't misbehave" but I was born here lol i think i should feel free, not like a foreigner)-- the big issue is just the divide.

This hasn't worked and how it needs to end. It's negative for everyone and has ruined me now for too long. As much as it's about me unable to work or find a job or anything, it's as much about me needing to heal and get on with my life.
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11/23/2012 03:28 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
The biggest reason I need to leave is because the divide is growing and they literally hate me.

The main reason I have trouble finding work, working, moving out, living a life, going to school, or having any form of life, is this debilitating nerve condition I have that makes me feel discouraged from being a part of life.

Both are big problems. They don't want to understand I'm not a very talkative social person, or face the fact I have a debilitating nerve problem. I'm going to get over the nerve thing, but I can't get over them.

I know this is the end for me living with these people as the divide has just grown too deep.
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11/23/2012 03:28 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
You really only have control over YOU and YOUR DIRECTION in life. You might want to protect, but that's not your place. Get out and surround yourself with good people who are goal-oriented. Get a job or finish school. Move out. Do it for yourself - you owe yourself that much. Even if you want to "protect" you will only be in the position to truly do so if you are able to take care of yourself. Good luck.
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11/23/2012 03:29 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
OP,

Honestly, you sound like a Mentally Broken, washed up loser.

I think you need to grow up, get a job or create revenue by doing odd jobs, get your own place to live and start living.
Tea Party Hobbit

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11/23/2012 03:32 PM
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Get a job in the North Dakota oil fields.
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11/23/2012 03:35 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Join the military? That'll make a man out of you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28348384


Yeah, a dead man.
Hellcat Maggie

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11/23/2012 03:39 PM

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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
OP, you honestly sound like you have a solid head on your shoulders.

You seem to be very aware of your life and your surroundings.

I think you dont need permission, now. Take your life, and lead it the way you want it to go.

If you need time, and you can't stay there, maybe there are some community places that will help you.

Do you have any grandparents? Sometimes grandparents are willing to help, maybe come a bit "clean" about what's going on.

Im sorry you're having such a rough time of things, I know when I was your age, my life was topsy-turvy as well.

It might not help much, but I'd like to tell you that things DO get better, especially if you keep that goal in your mind.
Do not read this sentence.
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11/23/2012 03:41 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Go work on a cruise ship. Room and board is included and you can just stack up cash until you figure out what to do with your life. Screw your parents if they are making you miserable. Just sail away and don't look back.
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11/23/2012 03:41 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
im kind of in the same boat OP

what area of the US do you live in?

ill help you find a job and we can get a place cuz i need a room mate i can trust if im going to move out!
Joker

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11/23/2012 03:41 PM

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Join the military? That'll make a man out of you.
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I agree!
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11/23/2012 03:45 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
OP,

Honestly, you sound like a Mentally Broken, washed up loser.

I think you need to grow up, get a job or create revenue by doing odd jobs, get your own place to live and start living.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1072087


I completely agree and it's great hearing suggestions like job corp., united churches, etc. Keep the suggestions rolling. I definitely don't agree with the post I'm quoting. In fact, that's practically the point of the post along with some hard evidence/first person accounts of what's attributed to the current circumstances.

Thanks for the reply =]
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/23/2012 03:45 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
OP,

Honestly, you sound like a Mentally Broken, washed up loser.

I think you need to grow up, get a job or create revenue by doing odd jobs, get your own place to live and start living.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1072087


I completely agree and it's great hearing suggestions like job corp., united churches, etc. Keep the suggestions rolling. I definitely don't agree with the post I'm quoting. In fact, that's practically the point of the post along with some hard evidence/first person accounts of what's attributed to the current circumstances.

Thanks for the reply =]
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/23/2012 03:49 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
OP, you honestly sound like you have a solid head on your shoulders.

You seem to be very aware of your life and your surroundings.

I think you dont need permission, now. Take your life, and lead it the way you want it to go.

If you need time, and you can't stay there, maybe there are some community places that will help you.

Do you have any grandparents? Sometimes grandparents are willing to help, maybe come a bit "clean" about what's going on.

Im sorry you're having such a rough time of things, I know when I was your age, my life was topsy-turvy as well.

It might not help much, but I'd like to tell you that things DO get better, especially if you keep that goal in your mind.
 Quoting: Hellcat Maggie


I don't have a family unfortunately. I greatly appreciate your good will towards me. The one thing I've always been excited about is my willingness to do my best at things. It may not show by how things are described in my posts, but outside of that life, I've always prided myself in my inextinguishable will.

I haven't really contemplated much about 'better', or 'good', or 'positive' up until probably 2-3 months ago. Then I crashed. Now I'm trying to consider those things again. Honestly, when people talked about the 'green grass' side of life or 'glass half full', I never thought it existed. Depression my whole life has led me to believe that this is what life is and I've recently discovered that'snot the truth. I want a good positive life and getting there will be a challenge. I'm very pleased with the number of responses and the honesty in each post.

Thanks guys<3

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