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My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.

 
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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11/23/2012 03:52 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
OP,

Honestly, you sound like a Mentally Broken, washed up loser.

I think you need to grow up, get a job or create revenue by doing odd jobs, get your own place to live and start living.
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I completely agree and it's great hearing suggestions like job corp., united churches, etc. Keep the suggestions rolling. I definitely don't agree with the post I'm quoting. In fact, that's practically the point of the post along with some hard evidence/first person accounts of what's attributed to the current circumstances.

Thanks for the reply =]
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Wow this is bad after a triple-post already, but I meant to say I don't disagree, not I don't agree. I would be contradicting my very first sentence lol. Sorry for the quad-post.
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11/23/2012 03:54 PM
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Go work on a cruise ship. Room and board is included and you can just stack up cash until you figure out what to do with your life. Screw your parents if they are making you miserable. Just sail away and don't look back.
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Good luck being an American (and possibly Caucasion) and getting a job on a cruise ship. Right. Not gonna happen. That Love Boat cast was purely fictitious.
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11/23/2012 04:07 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Also, I'd like to point out they've both also done worlds of good in my life that I appreciate beyond words. They're great people, and make a decent argument even in my own eyes as pretty okay parents, however, with the way our lives have carried on there's no future between us in any sort of relation. That's just the way it had to be, but I'll never ever say they aren't spectacular people with great hears. Our lives were just complex from the beginning and this is how it turned out. So be it.

For my own future, I think writing-related or skilled labor jobs would be best for me. Either free intellectual thinking in writing(which I have a passion for), or purely mechanical thinking in skilled labor.
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11/23/2012 04:15 PM
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I think you need to get out of there, at least for a while.

If you don't want to do military consider the North Dakota suggestions. From what I hear its one of the few booming places in the US now, with all the new oil drilling going on up there. Even if you don't want to work on an oil rig, wherever there is oil money there are plenty of other jobs and business opportunities. Everything from restaurant and bar work to driving trucks...if you are more stuidious type you could tutor kids, etc...go where the money is. Just get the fuck out of your current situation, sounds toxic.
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11/23/2012 04:20 PM
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I'm in the same position and staying with a friend. If you can hold it there at home, do so. Keep your head down and your inner hope up as much as you can. Because it ain't easy to leave.
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11/23/2012 04:24 PM
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OP, what you need most of all is to make up your mind that you can do it and leave on a day where things a fairly normal in the home and without creating any drama or being involved in any that your "parents" might create.

They don't hate you. Dad's not drinking, Mom is not getting beaten and you are a reminder to them of who they are and what they have done to their children. Genetically you are the oddball. The normal one, really.

You can do this. You know you can. Just get out on your own. Don't write yourself out of the only family you have - just get to a place where you can be you without all the negative input.

And the grandparent suggestion was a really good one. Reach out to other relatives if you can.

Best wishes.
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11/23/2012 04:25 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
I work with my dad, I dont get paid but it gives me something to do and Im not just laying around all day. Im well old enough to get a job but dont know if that would be an option since I only have my permit and my parents arent taking me driving. I dont like my family a lot of times either, and same with them not liking me but running away is also not an option as much as Ive felt like doing that since Id have nowhere to go and I can guaruntee you my parents would get people to come searching for me and I cant just live in the woods. So Im in a situation similar to yours but working with my dad does give me some hope and has done me some good.
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11/23/2012 04:26 PM
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I'm in the same position and staying with a friend. If you can hold it there at home, do so. Keep your head down and your inner hope up as much as you can. Because it ain't easy to leave.
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same boat, and my girlfriend just broke up with me on thanksgiving out of all days.. fuck my life man..shit is just soo not worth it
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11/23/2012 04:30 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
freeway + thumb = life.

dont be a sniveler, I know a guy that was hitching across the lower in a blizzard without so much as a ruck sack.
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11/23/2012 06:44 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
I'm in the same position and staying with a friend. If you can hold it there at home, do so. Keep your head down and your inner hope up as much as you can. Because it ain't easy to leave.
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same boat, and my girlfriend just broke up with me on thanksgiving out of all days.. fuck my life man..shit is just soo not worth it
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Gf stuff sucks when that's a problem. Gf stuff has been problematic for me since my nerve thing. It's like I don't even feel human sometimes because of it. There are so many fish in the sea though. You'll run into one a little better and different, and then one day quit thinking too much and just find one you fit with.

For me, I'm going to try to find constructive ways to stay out of the house.

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Post above the one I'm quoting in relation to that poster working with their dad and talking on getting out of the house and not being lazy: Yeah it's good to work with your parents. I don't have any way to work with mine but I do frequently enlist my few friends to do the work I'm able to find just lying around in the area. For instance, I got some friends to help me scrap this one lot and we made a few hundred bucks. Or I'll find jobs for us to clean places out, or we'll come across things of that nature. I try to stay off my ass and I think I could do a better job of it.

Post below the one I'm quoting on hitch hiking: Thanks for adding sniveler to my vocabulary. Cheers!
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11/23/2012 06:44 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
Move to Alaska fuck t all live in the woods and die
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11/23/2012 07:01 PM

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You need to get out of the house. Find a job, even if it's flipping burgers. Find a place you can share with friends, so the rent isn't too bad. You just have to find your own way. Your mother didn't take you to support until you hit social security. GROW UP! Figure out what you want to do with your life, and do what it takes to make it happen. You are a grown up, you should not be mooching off your parents. You will never change your life until you let go of mommy's apron strings.
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11/23/2012 07:01 PM
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get married lol
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11/23/2012 07:15 PM
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Op when you are able to stand on your own your relationship with your parents will change for the better. They have to see you trying. Resentment builds as long as you are home and not working. Get any job.
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11/23/2012 07:33 PM
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Say a thanks prayer to God that your loving parents brought you into this world, then slit your wrists and put your loving parents out of their misery.
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11/23/2012 07:44 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
The biggest reason I need to leave is because the divide is growing and they literally hate me.
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Do you think it has anything to do with you being such a selfish child you'll not move out of their house because it's more confertable for you to live a life of ease?
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11/23/2012 07:50 PM

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You could always apply to Emirates Airline as a flight attendant. You are the right age and if you are healthy and have a clean police record you would qualify. They provide housing in Dubai, $60k tax free salary, and you would get to see the world. If I was 15 years younger I would do it myself, but I am "stuck" working for US carrier instead who pay considerably less.
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are but blossoms dying.
Wanton pleasures, doting love
are but shadows flying."

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11/23/2012 09:53 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
What makes you think your parents hate you?

Also, how old are you?

Have you ever worked before?

Don't give up. Go to a church and get some counseling if needed. Also, churches can be good leads for jobs as well.

Good luck!!!!
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11/23/2012 10:01 PM

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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
It won't sound good to say how old I am, but that's not really my concern. I'm 21 years old and after repeatedly saving her from her drunk, abusive husband and her son who recently stabbed me(the son is now out of the house, the father stopped drinking), I couldn't bring myself to move out for school. Thought I had to stay there and 'protect' her, though when she gets me mad, she'll look at me the same as any of her previous abusers-- although I've ONLY ever protected her. It leaves a psychological mark. Anyway, that's been my life since day one after learning I was adopted and being shunned for no reason at all from day one to now from both of my "parents".

So, I think depression and no real direction in life, and being caught in this tornado household has taken away from a lot of personal growth and real life skills. It's sad to say and I probably sound like an irresponsible non-working able-bodied person, but I also suffer from a nerve condition that's practically debilitating. I've been working on it though and have been actively seeking work for a while now too.

They keep saying they want me to get a life and push me out of the house. I've gone to Community College and got A's(no big deal) and that was okay but I didn't really have much for direction and it creeped me out. Obviously not an excuse, I'm not going to make excuses for myself. I'm not very active, my nerve problem makes me less ambitious, I haven't worked in over a year, and I don't feel like school is for me.

I think I would be ambitious if I left the house. I honestly want TIME more than anything to just recover from my past, my nerve problems, and constitute an honest plan to the future. These foreign figure-head parents have enough loot to seat me comfortably in their house for the next 30 years. I hardly eat or use their resources. I want time here and they constantly tell me how much I suck at things.

I'm actually very talented. I've written 4 books, used to be a skilled athelete, not much for personal skills but I'm a talented leader, and I'm not bad with hands on work at all. In fact, many of my community college teachers told me to leave school and figure something out on my own cuz they thought I could do it.

Bottom line is they literally just don't like me and they're not afraid to remind me of that. Their son stabbed me, their daughter got pregnant out of wedlock, and the 21 year old middle child who just wants time to figure out their life, and has broken up all of their malicious, drunken knife-intensive fights over the years is the one to get the boot. Great.

I need to get out of here is the bottom line. I don't want to come back either. There's no room for me here or in their lives. I feel that in my heart and know it. Not to mention, the great division between us is no irreparable. It's sad to say but so be it. This adoption has been a failure from day one and it's now reached the boiling point.

I want a real life, not some foreign household I'm forced to role play in and stuff. As much as it's me desiring a lifestyle they don't approve of(one that stands for freedom and enjoying life, not being a slave to a salary job and European modesty-- i actually want to live, not afraid of cops or the law like these alien FOBs are afraid of our gov't. they really are afraid of power structures here as foreigners and it's never worn off. they try making me feel the same "don't misbehave" but I was born here lol i think i should feel free, not like a foreigner)-- the big issue is just the divide.

This hasn't worked and how it needs to end. It's negative for everyone and has ruined me now for too long. As much as it's about me unable to work or find a job or anything, it's as much about me needing to heal and get on with my life.
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You are talented
I believe in you
And that a path will open up for you
And that you will have the heart to follow
Do what is true for you

Hoping the best for you
And I for one really like you :o)


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11/23/2012 11:32 PM
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Re: My parents hate me. I have nowhere to go.
The biggest reason I need to leave is because the divide is growing and they literally hate me.
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Do you think it has anything to do with you being such a selfish child you'll not move out of their house because it's more confertable for you to live a life of ease?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21656968


your obviously an older parent who assumes the world is like it was when you moved out.

fyi 80% of college grads are bartenders and waiters, not to mention rent is really high now a days... so get a fucking clue moran

and learn to spell comfortable

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