Is Life Fair To Those That Never Wanted Participation?

Not wanting to "participate" has nothing to do with life being fair or unfair.

If you don't want to participate, go live in a mountain-community and enjoy your solitude.

If you find that you're still not happy - the problem isn't with others. It's with you.

I've undergone many transitions in my short life at 25 yrs. Periods where I envisioned breaking away from everyone and focusing on my life-ambitions, feeling perfectly comfortable and assured in an independent life.

Then, wanting to do nothing then go out every night and meet new people and socialize, grow new bonds and forge new relationships.

Now I'm back to the other way... :/

Maybe The only reason your even in this life is because at some point before, you wanted the choice of participation.