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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28392316  United States11/25/2012 12:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well...there were plans...from 100 yards, but I won't go into detail...Turns out I...am a nice guy, but you already knew that. Of course I did.  Glad your boys have a nice, stable environment to grow up in and I hope they've done well since all that business took place. Sounds like they have from your other posts. :Briefcoaster367: :kingsisland: :Briefandyoungest: Yay! It looks like you know how to have fun with your boys. Now: good luck in teaching them that their choice of a mate is the absolute most important choice they will ever make in this life, next to seeking and following Jesus Christ as Lord. Wrong choice in mate will destroy anyone's life. I failed to impress that on my kids, but sincerely hope you succeed. Getting them established in Jesus as Lord, and then wisdom in selecting a mate. You do need to get rid of your disrespectful attitude toward women though, if only as a good example to them. God bless you and your boys! |
StormeyGoddess User ID: 22004193 United States11/25/2012 12:23 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | BRIEF-- King's Island? Seriously? You're in Ohio???? We, my dear, would truly be the Brady Bunch with your three and my three!!! I can make samiches and fetch beer! :-) When in doubt, be kind. When you are certain, be even more so. "As for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.” |
| Debauchery User ID: 15455863 United States11/25/2012 12:23 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well then genius, what are men and what are women if not men and women? you're pathetic blanket statements are not amusing, they simply show all how ignorant you are. you are probably a hermaphrodite feel free to exit the 21st century whenever you are ready, we will be waiting. Stop stalking me from thread to thread. It makes you look like a psycho. Find some other way to vent your rage. And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it." Amen. |
| BRIEF Rebel with morals User ID: 28333208 United States11/25/2012 12:24 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | To engage in a contract, that guarantees a bitch half your shit, is absurd...I don't really believe in prenuptial agreements, because that's like planning your divorce before your wedding...but, if the whore don't make money, then beware! Quoting: BRIEF "whore" extremely telling.... your attitude toward women precludes any successful relationship with one. So the wife gives up a career, stays home, makes a comfortable home and family, takes care of the household and the family's needs... gives you the best years of her life, and then you decide to cast her away like garbage. She doesn't deserve half of what you have both worked for? Use her up, kick her out on the street? What an honorable thing to do! Marriage relationships and parenting must be the most difficult undertakings in the world. Both people have to be givers. Marriage has always been difficult. Both husband and wife have to be giving and have strong committments. Marriage isn't for takers or for wimps. I have been married for 49 years, and if my husband had ever called me a whore, he wouldn't have lasted a minute. By the way, I have worked and earned and saved most of the money in my marriage, but certainly half of it, should we have separated, is my husband's! Actually all of it belongs to both of us, and without that attitude, I'm not sure that people can get along. We've supported one another's interests and work, and we have been a team; our abilities have complemented each other. Both people must give. It works that way in every generation. The nature of men and women weren't that different when we were young; it has always been a challenge finding a compatible mate. Then it takes work, and it takes giving. We had three kids, I had to hire a housekeeper, she left two weeks before Christmas with three crying boys...how in the name of fuck do you explain that to a 9, 6, and 3 year old? Well, I managed...and choked on tears when I continued to read them bedtime stories... I am so sorry. Both my children chose mates stupidly. Neither has managed to stay married, because they would not choose wisely. I talked myself blue in the face when they were growing up and then after their hormones kicked in. I could see them making the wrong decisions. They were both smart, good kids until the sexual urges blinded their judgment---then it was like, "where are my kids? what did the devil do with my kids---I want them back!" So both of them made bad judgments, messed up their lives with the wrong people, then come crying back to me and their dad to try to help them put their lives back together. They made bad choices and suffered the consequences, and so have we, the parents! Life is difficult at its best---even moreso when wrong choices are made. Choosing the wrong mate certainly wrecks lives! God gave women extra blood flow to the head, that's why many of you are actually smarter than men...but, HE only gave men enough blood to run a brain or a dick...so guess which one we choose to think with... Nuke the Muzzies! With freedom comes responsibility. Heterosexual pride!  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22899606 United States11/25/2012 12:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: wisc_natureboy Thanks for pissing in my kool-aid. ;-`) On Saturday mornings (6 hours) I teach an upper-level class at a local college. 10 students, 8 men, 2 women. I noticed and commented that every man in the room had a beard. One woman remarked 'No-shave November' to which one of the guys replied, "No, men just grow beards." During break, we watched this: [link to www.youtube.com] I really think where we are all from has a lot to do with it. you are obviously from a household with a gay child-molesting dad and a mom who watches while you and daddy get it on you fucked up piece of shit What exactly is your fucking problem and why do you fantasize about child rape? you are projecting, i envisioned you (a child minded adult i presume) and your eighty year old dad getting it on in the story the father was a child-molester, not what you said |
| Debauchery User ID: 15455863 United States11/25/2012 12:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quote system is jacked up. Damn. Last Edited by Debauchery on 11/25/2012 12:28 AM And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it." Amen. |
| BRIEF Rebel with morals User ID: 28333208 United States11/25/2012 12:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | To engage in a contract, that guarantees a bitch half your shit, is absurd...I don't really believe in prenuptial agreements, because that's like planning your divorce before your wedding...but, if the whore don't make money, then beware! Quoting: BRIEF "whore" extremely telling.... your attitude toward women precludes any successful relationship with one. So the wife gives up a career, stays home, makes a comfortable home and family, takes care of the household and the family's needs... gives you the best years of her life, and then you decide to cast her away like garbage. She doesn't deserve half of what you have both worked for? Use her up, kick her out on the street? What an honorable thing to do! Marriage relationships and parenting must be the most difficult undertakings in the world. Both people have to be givers. Marriage has always been difficult. Both husband and wife have to be giving and have strong committments. Marriage isn't for takers or for wimps. I have been married for 49 years, and if my husband had ever called me a whore, he wouldn't have lasted a minute. By the way, I have worked and earned and saved most of the money in my marriage, but certainly half of it, should we have separated, is my husband's! Actually all of it belongs to both of us, and without that attitude, I'm not sure that people can get along. We've supported one another's interests and work, and we have been a team; our abilities have complemented each other. Both people must give. It works that way in every generation. The nature of men and women weren't that different when we were young; it has always been a challenge finding a compatible mate. Then it takes work, and it takes giving. We had three kids, I had to hire a housekeeper, she left two weeks before Christmas with three crying boys...how in the name of fuck do you explain that to a 9, 6, and 3 year old? Well, I managed...and choked on tears when I continued to read them bedtime stories... Did you realize that she was checking out? Did you pay attention to any mental issues? Or did you brush everything under the rug until she finally left? For women who are unstable, her leaving might have been better than her snapping and doing something truly God-awful. I highly doubt that her leaving was out of the blue. There were signs...I tried to get her help...but working 45 hrs/week, doing house chores, cleaning up the three children, reading them bedtime stories, and well...living, kinda got in the way... Nuke the Muzzies! With freedom comes responsibility. Heterosexual pride! |
| BRIEF Rebel with morals User ID: 28333208 United States11/25/2012 12:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | BRIEF-- Quoting: StormeyGoddess King's Island? Seriously? You're in Ohio???? We, my dear, would truly be the Brady Bunch with your three and my three!!! I can make samiches and fetch beer! :-) Not in Ohio...but I have homes in Kentucky and Indiana ;)  Nuke the Muzzies! With freedom comes responsibility. Heterosexual pride! |
| zenobiaphobia Dancing to the beat of a skinless drum User ID: 28387293 United States11/25/2012 12:30 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You could always marry her little sister....(the last song is a lost classic, check it out) Last Edited by zenobiaphobia on 11/25/2012 12:31 AM Books relevant to our current situation will appear here at random: [link to www.gutenberg.org] |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22899606 United States11/25/2012 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well then genius, what are men and what are women if not men and women? you're pathetic blanket statements are not amusing, they simply show all how ignorant you are. you are probably a hermaphrodite feel free to exit the 21st century whenever you are ready, we will be waiting. Stop stalking me from thread to thread. It makes you look like a psycho. Find some other way to vent your rage. this is you ---->  this is me ---->  lick my balls bitch     |
| Debauchery User ID: 15455863 United States11/25/2012 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In response to: Anonymous Coward User ID: 22899606 Why don't you try adding to the conversation instead of stalking me from thread to thread? You respond only to MY posts and instead of debating or leaving a comment that makes sense you start in with bullshit about child molestation and my father. You're ridiculous. Last Edited by Debauchery on 11/25/2012 12:34 AM And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it." Amen. |
| acegotflows User ID: 19532652 United States11/25/2012 12:33 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't want to get married because I haven't witnessed one marriage that has worked. And my parents have been married for 42 and a half years. my personal feelings on relationships is that I haven't met somebody who doesn't want to change me into what they think a man should be. Problem is this, where they are getting this image of a man from? In my experience it has been from women who don't have men or can't keep one, media, books and such. I'm a guy, at least I know PORN isn't real. Why am I expected to be a living romance novel? Why the double standard? Last Edited by acegotflows on 11/25/2012 12:37 AM "a foundation built on lies is always bound to crumble and those who aren't humble shall tumble to the earth" |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28149963 United States11/25/2012 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you're a Bible believing person there is no marriage in heaven. So why is there marriage on earth? Is it similar to the reason the Israeli people cried for a human king although God said they didn't need one. But they kept crying for one so God gave them King Saul. Biblically speaking if there is no marriage in Heaven then why do we need it on earth? Maybe we don't. Maybe it's only because flawed humans think we do that we do. My Mom wanted to remarry after my Dad died, but when she dies who will be her husband in Heaven? Even if there was marriage in heaven one of her husbands is going to be left alone without a mate? Unless they all get married. Yet could it be that no one here on earth is suppose to be exclusive with just one other person? Maybe we are either meant to explore and be with countless people/souls throughout time, in other lives, etc. For example, we may all be fragments of God and suppose to unite with each other until we ALL merge together and reunite with God's Totality. Or maybe we're suppose to be with no one except God and physical marriage merely represents the union of two polar opposites on a microcosmic human type scale (polarity being the basic structure of our universe). For example, when a couple unites (male/female) they symbolically demonstrate how union creates balance and how this in turn produces salvation from polarity into Union with God who could be seen as Singularity that Ultimately merges duality. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28425966 United States11/25/2012 12:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28320335  Mexico11/25/2012 12:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I came of age in the seventies. Many rejected marriage,,, the institution -- men and women. Common law was most common. To this day I can proudly say I have not been married,,, but not out of some rejection of women. If I rejected women I wouldnt need to reject marriage,, but sex altogether. Sorry OP, whether common law or marriage the law is still there. If you need sex get a woman who philosophically agrees with you, instead of mistrusting all of them. Otherwise you will still be disappointed and will be heading for a fall,,, again.. |
| FATMANGOBOOM User ID: 14376568  Canada11/25/2012 12:36 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The Story is on FOX news Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25028055 [link to www.foxnews.com] As the author of three books on the American family and its intersection with pop culture, I’ve spent thirteen years examining social agendas as they pertain to sex, parenting, and gender roles. During this time, I’ve spoken with hundreds, if not thousands, of men and women. And in doing so, I’ve accidentally stumbled upon a subculture of men who’ve told me, in no uncertain terms, that they’re never getting married. When I ask them why, the answer is always the same. Women aren’t women anymore Men on GLP. do not be the one left holding the bag. DO NOT get married until the laws are changed to be more equitable. Marriage is simply a bad idea. Just say no, and enjoy the free cake instead. Just tells me their plan is working break up the families... and it is working they are driving a financial wedge between man and woman and it is working like a charm... it is sad.. |
| acegotflows User ID: 19532652 United States11/25/2012 12:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The Story is on FOX news Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25028055 [link to www.foxnews.com] As the author of three books on the American family and its intersection with pop culture, I’ve spent thirteen years examining social agendas as they pertain to sex, parenting, and gender roles. During this time, I’ve spoken with hundreds, if not thousands, of men and women. And in doing so, I’ve accidentally stumbled upon a subculture of men who’ve told me, in no uncertain terms, that they’re never getting married. When I ask them why, the answer is always the same. Women aren’t women anymore Men on GLP. do not be the one left holding the bag. DO NOT get married until the laws are changed to be more equitable. Marriage is simply a bad idea. Just say no, and enjoy the free cake instead. Just tells me their plan is working break up the families... and it is working they are driving a financial wedge between man and woman and it is working like a charm... it is sad.. True, those Rockefellers were on point with their funding of the women's lib movement to destroy family structure. I'm not commending them, I'm just saying that it was very effective ... "a foundation built on lies is always bound to crumble and those who aren't humble shall tumble to the earth" |
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| wisc_natureboy I pee outside. User ID: 28395132 United States11/25/2012 12:42 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you're a Bible believing person there is no marriage in heaven. So why is there marriage on earth? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28149963 Is it similar to the reason the Israeli people cried for a human king although God said they didn't need one. But they kept crying for one so God gave them King Saul. Biblically speaking if there is no marriage in Heaven then why do we need it on earth? Maybe we don't. Maybe it's only because flawed humans think we do that we do. My Mom wanted to remarry after my Dad died, but when she dies who will be her husband in Heaven? Even if there was marriage in heaven one of her husbands is going to be left alone without a mate? Unless they all get married. Yet could it be that no one here on earth is suppose to be exclusive with just one other person? Maybe we are either meant to explore and be with countless people/souls throughout time, in other lives, etc. For example, we may all be fragments of God and suppose to unite with each other until we ALL merge together and reunite with God's Totality. Or maybe we're suppose to be with no one except God and physical marriage merely represents the union of two polar opposites on a microcosmic human type scale (polarity being the basic structure of our universe). For example, when a couple unites (male/female) they symbolically demonstrate how union creates balance and how this in turn produces salvation from polarity into Union with God who could be seen as Singularity that Ultimately merges duality. Nice post! The Morse Code of my siggy is "love all'. Something I aspire to, albeit only with moderate success. ;-`) . . . --- We all breathe the same air |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28421286 United States11/25/2012 12:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Interesting that this factor is also mentioned in publications with a liberal bias: Quoting: zenobiaphobia [link to www.thedailybeast.com] "They’re hurting, these men of a certain age. Losing their livelihood isn’t the only “transition” they’re going through. Dr. Jed Diamond, author of Surviving Male Menopause and The Irritable Male Syndrome, calls it a “double whammy.” The first: “a change of life, hormonally based, affecting our psychology and emotions from 40 to 55.” The second: unemployment. “It’s devastating. The extreme reaction is suicide, but before you get there, there’s irritability and anger, fatigue, loss of energy, withdrawal, drinking, more fights with their wives.” And sex. Or lack thereof. In the NEWSWEEK Poll, 45 percent of men admitted to a diminished interest in sex. It’s a vicious cycle, Diamond says. “You don’t feel as manly because you lost your job. You don’t feel as sexy, so there are more problems with you and your wife.” Intellectually, women can say, “It’s not his fault, he’s working hard to find a job.” Emotionally, it’s another story. This is a generation caught between two ideas of manhood, says Coontz: “Old enough to have been brought up with a model of male breadwinning. Young enough to feel they shouldn’t be threatened if their wife has a job.” OMG What a bunch of crap.. Hormonal imbalances from 40 to 55? What about women who actually have hormonal imbalances? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 21987589 United States11/25/2012 12:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I had a back injury working at the factory, I became "Mr. Mom" while the wife worked full time and went back to school. Within a year, she began having an affair. She of course denied it, but it was obvious. One day, we had a big argument and I left. When I returned, the house was a mess.. pictures off the wall, ect. She called the cops with an evil smirk on her face and said I beat her up(I did not!). The cops arrested me, the restraining order was placed and in the 12 hours I was in jail, her new boyfriend had moved into my house. I of course lost the house, and her boyfriend took all my stuff, while the courts made me pay and pay and pay!!! I fought her for custody and won 1/2 shared custody. She has gone through about 30 boyfriends since we split. The kids reside with me full time now while she whores around and drinks herself blind.. As for me, I have not met any women I would even begin to chance going through that type hell again.. |
| SuperNova1 User ID: 24800996 United States11/25/2012 12:50 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men , yes we have our problems. Porn , beer, gambling, golf,etc.But we just need women to be a woman.Most women don't even cook anymore.Every man who has been married over lets say 7 years will attest that women get shitty about sex. Who cares if they don't cook anymore but when ya shut them legs, things get bad for us. We are simple creatures, men, and our needs basically stay the same. We don't ask for much. And WE DON"T LOSE OUR FUCKING MINDS AFTER WE TURN 50 !   You don't have a soul. You ARE a soul, you have a body. Strange women lying in ponds distributing swords is no basis for a system of government. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28320335 Mexico11/25/2012 12:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh to feel the love of a woman again, i cant spot where the breakdown has happened, it seems as if men and women have suppressed all their emotions, relationships have become a process, a business contract, why? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28420771 I have loved a woman (monogamously) 3 or four times. No kids, and we eventually moved on. Unfortunately the one I did have kids with was the wrong choice,,, and no love at all. Go figure! |
| zenobiaphobia Dancing to the beat of a skinless drum User ID: 28387293 United States11/25/2012 12:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you're a Bible believing person there is no marriage in heaven. So why is there marriage on earth? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28149963 Is it similar to the reason the Israeli people cried for a human king although God said they didn't need one. But they kept crying for one so God gave them King Saul. Biblically speaking if there is no marriage in Heaven then why do we need it on earth? Maybe we don't. Maybe it's only because flawed humans think we do that we do. Just as an odd religious footnote, this is how the Mormon Church deals with their (well, kinda mine as well, as my Great-Great (another great or two?) Grandfather invented the religion) complex "sealing issues": "Sealing of Living Members after a Spouse’s Death Women. A living woman may be sealed to only one husband. Men. If a husband and wife have been sealed and the wife dies, the man may have another woman sealed to him if she is not already sealed to another man. In this circumstance, the man does not need a sealing clearance from the First Presidency unless he was divorced from his previous wife before she died (see the previous heading for the policy in cases of divorce). Applying for a Cancellation of Sealing or a Sealing Clearance A woman who has previously been sealed must receive a cancellation of that sealing from the First Presidency before she may be sealed to another man in her lifetime. A man who has been divorced from a woman who was sealed to him must receive a sealing clearance from the First Presidency before another woman may be sealed to him (see “Sealing of Living Members after Divorce” above). If the bishop and stake president decide to recommend that a cancellation of sealing or a sealing clearance be granted, they submit an Application to the First Presidency form. This form is available electronically in units that use Church record-keeping software. Leaders of these units should not contact the Office of the First Presidency to obtain a copy. The form is available from the Area Presidency in other areas. Instructions are on the form. Before submitting the application, the stake president makes sure that the divorce is final and that the applicant is current in all legal requirements for child and spousal support related to the divorce." If a member has requested a cancellation of sealing or a sealing clearance, he or she may not schedule an appointment for a temple marriage or sealing until receiving a letter from the First Presidency giving notice that the cancellation or clearance has been granted. The person should present this letter at the temple. Your idea sounds much simpler... Last Edited by zenobiaphobia on 11/25/2012 12:53 AM Books relevant to our current situation will appear here at random: [link to www.gutenberg.org] |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6739256 United States11/25/2012 12:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | thanks for your story, ALL women are like this now, not just your ex. And thats a common move, the second a guy gets hurt, injured etc... the woman bails. I have lost count of how many times i ve heard the story now, guy got paralyzed wife of gf of the guy turned into a completely different person turned on the guy, and was out within under 6 months. the faking about domestic violence is another tactic they use also. google MGTOW When I had a back injury working at the factory, I became "Mr. Mom" while the wife worked full time and went back to school. Within a year, she began having an affair. She of course denied it, but it was obvious. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21987589 One day, we had a big argument and I left. When I returned, the house was a mess.. pictures off the wall, ect. She called the cops with an evil smirk on her face and said I beat her up(I did not!). The cops arrested me, the restraining order was placed and in the 12 hours I was in jail, her new boyfriend had moved into my house. I of course lost the house, and her boyfriend took all my stuff, while the courts made me pay and pay and pay!!! I fought her for custody and won 1/2 shared custody. She has gone through about 30 boyfriends since we split. The kids reside with me full time now while she whores around and drinks herself blind.. As for me, I have not met any women I would even begin to chance going through that type hell again.. |
| acegotflows User ID: 19532652 United States11/25/2012 12:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you're a Bible believing person there is no marriage in heaven. So why is there marriage on earth? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28149963 Is it similar to the reason the Israeli people cried for a human king although God said they didn't need one. But they kept crying for one so God gave them King Saul. Biblically speaking if there is no marriage in Heaven then why do we need it on earth? Maybe we don't. Maybe it's only because flawed humans think we do that we do. My Mom wanted to remarry after my Dad died, but when she dies who will be her husband in Heaven? Even if there was marriage in heaven one of her husbands is going to be left alone without a mate? Unless they all get married. Yet could it be that no one here on earth is suppose to be exclusive with just one other person? Maybe we are either meant to explore and be with countless people/souls throughout time, in other lives, etc. For example, we may all be fragments of God and suppose to unite with each other until we ALL merge together and reunite with God's Totality. Or maybe we're suppose to be with no one except God and physical marriage merely represents the union of two polar opposites on a microcosmic human type scale (polarity being the basic structure of our universe). For example, when a couple unites (male/female) they symbolically demonstrate how union creates balance and how this in turn produces salvation from polarity into Union with God who could be seen as Singularity that Ultimately merges duality. Nice post! The Morse Code of my siggy is "love all'. Something I aspire to, albeit only with moderate success. ;-`) I believe that most religious institutions,especially the Abrahamic ones have inverted the natural order of things. What I mean is that women have been painted in a bad image and not the nurturers that they are, meanwhile the masculine has been running rampant and destroying roles through their phallic worshiping embedded in their religious symbolism. The roles have been altered and we have been brainwashed to believe that happiness comes from anywhere but from within. "a foundation built on lies is always bound to crumble and those who aren't humble shall tumble to the earth" |
| StormeyGoddess User ID: 22004193 United States11/25/2012 01:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men , yes we have our problems. Porn , beer, gambling, golf,etc.But we just need women to be a woman.Most women don't even cook anymore.Every man who has been married over lets say 7 years will attest that women get shitty about sex. Quoting: SuperNova1 Who cares if they don't cook anymore but when ya shut them legs, things get bad for us. We are simple creatures, men, and our needs basically stay the same. We don't ask for much. And WE DON"T LOSE OUR FUCKING MINDS AFTER WE TURN 50 ! One thing I learned in Church this past year... Sex for a man is the equivalent of talking for a woman. So, say you're a woman and your husband doesn't talk to you for a day, three days, a week, month, year? How would that make you feel? Pretty freaking shitty. Same thing for a man with sex...Men NEED sex as much as we need communication. It is cruel to not please your husband as often as he needs pleased. Yes, I said I learned it in Church! :-) Before my almost ex husband went insane, we attended church and this was taught in a Love and Marriage class. Of course, I am willing, lol, but I didn't realize...In marriage, both partners have to be willing to put the other first. It never works with one person being selfish... When in doubt, be kind. When you are certain, be even more so. "As for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.” |
| wisc_natureboy I pee outside. User ID: 28395132 United States11/25/2012 01:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In response to: Anonymous Coward Quoting: Debauchery User ID: 22899606 Why don't you try adding child molestation to the conversation and keep talking too me from thread to thread? You respond to everyone's posts and always debate and always leave a comment that makes sense. You're fantastic. thanks bitch, sounds like i got a fan Dude, lowest of the low is changing somebody else's post. It should be a ban-able offense. Just go back from where you came, OK? Your brand of anger and hate is not welcome here. . . . --- We all breathe the same air |
| Simple_Man User ID: 15977994 United States11/25/2012 01:08 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has never cooked dinner or done a load of laundry. Quoting: Estella<3 I don't care... He works hard to provides me with a very comfortable life. We treat one another with love, kindness and respect. In every big decision he is the master of our home. Call it old fashioned but it actually works. We are both happily married :) you sound like an amazing Lady and you're husband sounds like the luckiest man on the Earth .... we need more real ladies like you and we need more real men like your husband to change the course we are on Sad thing is tho ...it won't happen |
