I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/26/2012 11:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... Dude, you are creepy too old for her period. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25148952 You want to fuck over your own relative? Your problem is you haven't been with a woman in too long and you mentally checked out for too long and falsely believe you are still a 20 something when you are NOT. Find a date your own age old man. How is that too old? I go out with tons of chicks that are 10 years younger than me. Sounds like you're jealous. A hot 19 year old would stop at 25, trust me. 30 something is approaching too much baggage. Ive never heard of a girl barely out of her teens wanting anyone 30 or over. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25148952 United States 11/26/2012 11:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... It's creepy. Molestation type of shit when a grown man of 31 plans to hit on a teenage relative's girlfriend. I'm pointing out the truth and I'm not jealous just amazed that you don't feel any kind of guilt over stalking a teenage girlfriend of a relative. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/26/2012 11:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... It's creepy. Molestation type of shit when a grown man of 31 plans to hit on a teenage relative's girlfriend. I'm pointing out the truth and I'm not jealous just amazed that you don't feel any kind of guilt over stalking a teenage girlfriend of a relative. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25148952 Yup, it spells creepy factor, Reminds me of the trailer park. OP should find a sexy, confident 26 year old thats authentically single, but probaly doesnt have the balls. |
Skin Suit User ID: 22870849 United States 11/26/2012 11:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... Dude, you are creepy too old for her period. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25148952 You want to fuck over your own relative? Your problem is you haven't been with a woman in too long and you mentally checked out for too long and falsely believe you are still a 20 something when you are NOT. Find a date your own age old man. How is that too old? I go out with tons of chicks that are 10 years younger than me. Sounds like you're jealous. A hot 19 year old would stop at 25, trust me. 30 something is approaching too much baggage. Ive never heard of a girl barely out of her teens wanting anyone 30 or over. it happens. hell most kids (<30) live with mom and pops these days, they'll gladly look up to a guy who actually has a job and has been on his own since 17, most early 30 somethings still walk around with their ipods and such still getting allowance from mom and dad. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16594633 Australia 11/26/2012 11:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... " A hot 19 year old would stop at 25, trust me. 30 something is approaching too much baggage. Ive never heard of a girl barely out of her teens wanting anyone 30 or over." wow- I have enjoyed reading your threads and have respect for your esoteric knowledge- but the statement above is utter nonsense. just look around you- maybe if you live in a gated community in nebraska that would be the case- but you have some serious blinkers on there old mate. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16594633 Australia 11/26/2012 11:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... "most early 30 somethings still walk around with their ipods and such still getting allowance from mom and dad." Right! Girls want Boys- Women want Men. some of the ones you may think are girls are in fact women. |
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Fatstogie User ID: 28243139 United States 11/26/2012 11:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... Its a bad sign that your referencing women you meet now to high school. High school is gone, move on. Id say you should move on from that chick too. Cause it will be more for you than just who that woman is. Especially if it will be family drama. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/26/2012 11:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... " Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16594633 A hot 19 year old would stop at 25, trust me. 30 something is approaching too much baggage. Ive never heard of a girl barely out of her teens wanting anyone 30 or over." wow- I have enjoyed reading your threads and have respect for your esoteric knowledge- but the statement above is utter nonsense. just look around you- maybe if you live in a gated community in nebraska that would be the case- but you have some serious blinkers on there old mate. Im talking in general, It would take exceptional maturity to do ten years age difference and yes, Ive seen it work to great success and its about something deeper than mere lust. Its a longing to spiritualy support one another cause both will be from different generations. The older man will have to be young at heart and lenient and not controlling. The younger woman will have to be reflective and thoughtful and vice versa if it was older woman, younger man. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 28553847 United States 11/26/2012 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... It kills me when an old guy who claims he has been a hermit for 7 years suddenly thinks he is hot enough to make a move on a sexy young 19 year old girl; and is delusional enough to try to take her away from his likely 19 year old relative????????????? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25148952 Im the most handsome one in the family out of all the brothers, cousins and uncles. Also, I dont look like Im in my 30s. I look 23-25. I know its fucked up that I have a crush on her. She reminds me so much of my High School crush. The ways she looks and acts. Its as if because the other one got away 15+ years ago even before this one was born and I dont want this one to get away. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 28553847 United States 11/27/2012 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... It's creepy. Molestation type of shit when a grown man of 31 plans to hit on a teenage relative's girlfriend. I'm pointing out the truth and I'm not jealous just amazed that you don't feel any kind of guilt over stalking a teenage girlfriend of a relative. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25148952 Yup, it spells creepy factor, Reminds me of the trailer park. OP should find a sexy, confident 26 year old thats authentically single, but probaly doesnt have the balls. What do you mean I dont have the balls? For the past 7 years Ive been approach by many women and for some reason I just never cared for them. I was even approached by my bosses and even they flirted with me. I told myself I was going to stay single forever. But the second I laid my eyes on his gf... it did something to me. Im not going to to make the move. Its wrong because its his gf and plus shes 19. She may look and act like my high school crush but at the end, shes not my high school crush. It did feel really good talking to her, I felt alive for the first time in a very long time. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1408355 Australia 11/27/2012 12:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... It kills me when an old guy who claims he has been a hermit for 7 years suddenly thinks he is hot enough to make a move on a sexy young 19 year old girl; and is delusional enough to try to take her away from his likely 19 year old relative????????????? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25148952 Im the most handsome one in the family out of all the brothers, cousins and uncles. Also, I dont look like Im in my 30s. I look 23-25. I know its fucked up that I have a crush on her. She reminds me so much of my High School crush. The ways she looks and acts. Its as if because the other one got away 15+ years ago even before this one was born and I dont want this one to get away. Be very careful OP. She is NOT your old girlfriend and in time that will become obvious to you. What then? If she reminded you of no one it would be a little different. What you need to do is start dating again, and NOT a family members girl. I would be freaked if someone put the hard word on me when I was going out with someone in his family. Not cool and says a lot about you and a lot about her if she agrees. Again different if they break up but until then.... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4428411 United States 11/27/2012 12:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... Young is young. I am around your age and I won't date anybody younger than 25 years old. Why? Because younger than that and the maturity factor starts to weigh in. A 19 year old has had extremely limited experience with the world and probably still lives at home with mom and dad. At least look for college graduate age. OP: she was probably just being nice to you, and you mistook it for flirtation. Don't worry, this happens all of the time. Think of it like she is a waitress and is trying to get a tip, only she isn't trying to get a tip obviously. She is trying to score points with her boyfriend's relatives. Trust me, that is ALL that is going on. If you make a move on this girl, you will make a fool of yourself and cause a great deal of drama in your family. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/27/2012 12:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... It's creepy. Molestation type of shit when a grown man of 31 plans to hit on a teenage relative's girlfriend. I'm pointing out the truth and I'm not jealous just amazed that you don't feel any kind of guilt over stalking a teenage girlfriend of a relative. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25148952 Yup, it spells creepy factor, Reminds me of the trailer park. OP should find a sexy, confident 26 year old thats authentically single, but probaly doesnt have the balls. What do you mean I dont have the balls? For the past 7 years Ive been approach by many women and for some reason I just never cared for them. I was even approached by my bosses and even they flirted with me. I told myself I was going to stay single forever. But the second I laid my eyes on his gf... it did something to me. Im not going to to make the move. Its wrong because its his gf and plus shes 19. She may look and act like my high school crush but at the end, shes not my high school crush. It did feel really good talking to her, I felt alive for the first time in a very long time. Those rushes are good. Ive felt them once every few years with a beauty practically from every race.. I never forget them, but I move on after those first glances or talk . Go after whats practical. Those rushes are normal, Enjoy the high and move onto other hobbies, Many highs lead to nightmare relationships from hell so its nothing to really go on. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 28553847 United States 11/27/2012 12:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I have a crush on my family members girlfriend. She makes me feel young and like a teenager all over again. Im so messed up in the head... This thread is gross. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4428411 Young is young. I am around your age and I won't date anybody younger than 25 years old. Why? Because younger than that and the maturity factor starts to weigh in. A 19 year old has had extremely limited experience with the world and probably still lives at home with mom and dad. At least look for college graduate age. OP: she was probably just being nice to you, and you mistook it for flirtation. Don't worry, this happens all of the time. Think of it like she is a waitress and is trying to get a tip, only she isn't trying to get a tip obviously. She is trying to score points with her boyfriend's relatives. Trust me, that is ALL that is going on. If you make a move on this girl, you will make a fool of yourself and cause a great deal of drama in your family. Nah, thats what women do with you. When women flirt with me, trust me, they flirt with me. Grabbing my thighs and feeling my hair is beyond just being nice. |
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