Going into the military but don't want to leave my girlfriend

Dump her ASAP.

It's only fair for both of you.

She's gonna cheat on you 60% of military wives do.

And those are the ones who get caught.

Give her a good kiss goodbye ...she is young and most likely won't wait for you.

Don't worry OP, I'll take real good care of her.

Have you watched army wives? There ya go it can work for ya just knock her up and she can live on one of the bases.

"girlfriend"

Don't worry i'm sure someone else will keep her company in the meantime.

I told her the news and she just replies with all the feelings she has for me, she said she wouldn't leave me, her cousin got killed in the marines over in Afghanistan and his wife cheated on him before his death sadly. But i don't know it's such a hard decision to make, I want to be with her but then I know I won't ever be able To see her because the rating I chose.

Why didn't you just get a mcjob and swallow your pride? Looks like you'll be swallowing more than your pride when you join the navy if you know what I mean.

Do yourself a favor and show up at your ship high as a kite and hope the navy has a policy of sending your ass home after that

does the acting gay thing still work?

Is she still alive, yes, well stop being self centered you still get to see her sometimes. I didn't want my husband to die after being with him for 31 years but he did.

I never get to see him anymore. Get the point?

I chose seal in my contract, don't talk shit and be negative and say I won't make it. I've been training everyday for the past 2 years for this. But I'll have to leave her

its over OP.

sorry

This its for the best.

Sorry OP we're just looking out for you.

Really? So the recruiter just said check the Seal box?

Well I'm a NINJA and ain't got no ho neither cuz of my decision!

Fuck the navy...
Stay with the girl.

Wtf you chose "seal" in your contract that is impossible my friend. Just by the way your write have fun being a cook.

You can stay in the Navy. And replace her.

Or you can drop out, stay with the GF but at the risk of eventually breaking up. Young love rarely works out, sorry but its true all the posters above me know its for fact.

Either way you will live with regret, If I had a do over I would have joined the Military.

Women come and go, stop thinking of the present and think of the future.

If its meant to be she'll come back to you, maybe not now but eventually like when your in your 30's-40's.

is this what we have out on the battlefields?

sadly yes

This

Yes I chose it, it was either between seals or swcc, if you score high enough on the asvab and pass the pass the past test you can choose. Don't relieve me go talk to your local navy recruiter, I obviously have to pass buds but I know I will.

You won't make the seals, from the way you type and ask for advice on a forum all about conspiracies, it's obvious you don't have the intellect to be a seal. That girl will drop you like a rock, might as well go be a regular sailor.

Long-distance relationships are hard, and I don't recommend them to anyone younger than 20. If you're committed to joining the Navy, then the kindest thing would be to let her go. Only you know what kind of person you are. If you can resist temptation, good on you. Just know that there will be a LOT of temptation.

Well done on being a muppet mercenary for your own corrupt governmen.

Why not pat yourself on the back for oppressing ppl in THIER OWN COUNRY.

PS: PLenty of guys will look after your gf while your away.

What rating you chose wont mean much in time of war. The Marines began as part of the Navy and are usually onboard. Navy will TAD to Marine when needed.

There are many jobs in the right parts of the US. Since it looks like you have no problem with travel you may try the oil fields of ND and surrounding areas.

OP I was in special forces training. I had a woman I loved more than life, even my existence. We were in love, and it was like no other love Ihave ever seen.

She was in school. She slept with many others. I brushed it off, ans she implied that it was because I was in the Army, So I droped Special forces training and got out for cancer, to be with her. She then walked the other way.

If I had not dedicated my life to her, I would be a Green Beret who just had some cancer cut out.

In the end though, I am not a killer, and have no passion to for anyone.

Make your choice for you and no one. NO ONE else.

I've never heard of that, and I've been in for almost 12 years. They'll send people on an IA tour every once in a while, but that's usually to the Army. The only rates that routinely go out in the field with Marines are HM and RP.