Hello (:
My DOB is 08/04/1991. I met this Navy guy (DOB 10/20/1991) in September of this year, and we have been seeing each other for about 2 months now. We connect greatly, even though we have opposite personalities, he is very much a party with his friends and crazy loud when he is drinking, and I am not, I don't draw too much attention to myself. Opposites attract haha. His last deployment he went on was for about 20 days and before he left he kind of said he wanted to be just friends because he is getting stationed in elsewhere, which crushed me. While he was gone he emailed me 3 times, and I got none of them so I didn't reply(obviously) and I think he was a little hurt by it because when he came back he asked why I didn't email him back, so I explained it and it worked out. I later find out that the same day he came back he texted me while I was at work, but I didn't reply because I was working and didn't have my phone on me, so he came up to my work to see me but it was so busy he didn't find me. A few nights later we were together cuddling and he asked me if I loved him, like an idiot I said "Do you" and his reply was "I'm not playing this game," then I said, "Im not either, I don't want to get hurt," he replied saying, "your my girl, I would never hurt you." He asked again and I nodded and he told me I love you and I said it back. He asked me if I could ever marry a guy like him (I am a "good girl" -christian & virgin) and he isn't either of those, I said yes but not right now. I just want to know if his feelings are true, I feel like they are, maybe my absence made him grow fonder?? He wants me to move with him but I need to sort out a few things in my life before I can, which he knows, I just don't want to lose him in the process because he is a firm believer in long distance relationships not working (and I believe they can....told you opposites haha). I am sorry for the long message but maybe details help? I would just like to know if we spend our lives together? Thank you!