Soulmate means people from the same 'soul group'.
It doesnt have to be a men-woman or sexual relationship necessarily.
My souk mate is a friend. We are both male an straight. We are friends. But we know we belong to the same soul group. We share lots of the same energy per say. We are soulmates.

Also, we are not all here going to find a soulmate in this lifetime. It depends on ur experiences, on what you need this time around.
You may call urself lucky and blessed if u find a soulmate AND be able to have a marital relashionshipwith such.

So.. NOT like the moronic hypothesis on the first page.