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Just watched my sister have a stillbirth after 5 years of trying. WHAT is the greater purpose?!!

 
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My sister had three still borns before she had a baby boy who was three months premature and survived. I feel so much empathy and compassion for her. My heart is sending out much love to her. I know I could never fully fathom the depths of her loss. What I can do is send love.
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he'll be in heaven, waiting for her. I lost a baby in a miscarriage, I believe I'll meet that soul on the other side, I pray in Jesus's name I will.
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This Boy Says He Met His Dead Sister in Heaven — Thing Is, He Never Knew She Existed

Read More at: [link to hollywoodlife.com]

The remarkable thing is, Colton’s parents, Todd and Sonya, had never told him about his sister, who Sonya miscarried a year before Colton’s birth.

Read More at: [link to hollywoodlife.com]
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And that book has been debunked again..and again..and again..

HOW DARE you make light of this womans PAIN by foisting that made up load of new age crap dressed up in bible verses to make MONEY for the LYING FATHER who told his boy WHAT to say?

You EVIL CREATURE!
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Doesnt make the person evil if they didnt know the book was fake, if it even is. And how do you know that that book was debunked unless you were there with the family when the things in the book happened?
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Do some investigating and see for yourself.

Also..reading the book itself should tell you that its utter crap..its got more new age stuff and lies in it than a hare Krishna/Ufo/lightworker conference.

But..add a bible verse..change Krishna to Jesus..and VOILA..its suddenly CHRISTIAN.

Go do some digging and get back to me on it.
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Things are very rarely, if ever, as we think they are... the finite mind trying to make sense of the infinite.

I feel your sister's pain, a lot, and yours as well. There are no words to ease this pain... there's only the promise of tomorrow and the healing which it may bring - which already is - may you and your family find that time quickly.

hf

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I am so sorry for your entire family...red_heart
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I watched my sister go through five years of waiting month by painful month to get pregnant as she watched all of her siblings have children. It finally happened earlier this year and I have never seen her happier or more beautiful. She took such good care of herself, she did everything right.
I got called to the hospital Monday to watch her go into labor too early and they told her she had to deliver a baby that was too young to make it. He was a boy, and he was beautiful. I cried every tear with her at her side for two days with her wonderful husband and still at home my tears won't stop.
WHAT is this greater purpose?! Every word I tried to say to her as she wept over her perfect son sounded empty and hollow. As a mother to five, how can anything I say even relate to her lonely heartache? My heart broke into a million pieces as we all said goodbye. I gave him my ring I always wear, I'd have buried him with my own heart if I could have.
There's NO reason. None. This post will soon be lost and abandoned among the many other threads but his life deserved a moment of recognition. Let this please compel you to look around you today and show someone close to you that you care. Love those around you with everything you've got, let my nephew's death have meaning on you for one moment to cherish what you have because it could end in an instant.
If you run across this post and you'd like, please post flowers, hearts, or just send your love out to my sister, and my sweet nephew up above.
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I am so sorry :(. I watched my cousin's girlfriend (who is also one of my closest friends) give birth to her first daughter 4 years ago, she was stillborn. HUGS to you. verysad

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So sorry for your family loss.

Personally, I would not want to bring a child into this world at this point in time. I believe we only another year or so (AT MOST) left here. War, famine, destruction, eq's, etc. Her beautiful child will miss all this sadness, and WILL be waiting in heaven to greet her.

God Bless You all.
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So very sorry OP.

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I doubt there is anything that anyone can say to help ease the hurt.
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Not to be a jerk be doesn't it seem that if you try to get pregnant for years and can't, then the purpose is that nature doesn't want you to reproduce?
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Re: Just watched my sister have a stillbirth after 5 years of trying. WHAT is the greater purpose?!!
Wow Atheists are so heartless they won't even allow a person of faith to comfort anyone who's suffered loss?

So WHAT if it's all empty platitudes? SO FUCKING WHAT?????

You talk about Christians shoving their crap down YOUR throats?

If the person being comforted doesn't tell them to shut up why the fuck should you?

Grow the hell up.

You are the most intolerant, hateful people on the entire planet.
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So what if it's empty platitudes? So you're comfortable lying to me when I am pain? You are a horrible human being. This is why I am not religious. What you are suggesting is far FAR more hateful than what I said. I simply stated that I could not, in good conscience, speak of "greater purposes" because to do so would be dishonest on my part.

I'm not going to coddle someone's religious delusions. The most honest thing I could do is offer my sincere apology...which I did. You're the one talking about the virtue of lying.

Personally it would make me feel much better about a miscarriage due to a pH imbalance rather than be feel like I did something to anger some god or another. Isn't an "oh well" better than an "oh shit"?
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First of all I don't think they are empty platitudes, but my point was even if you DO believe that...it's none of your business what I give to a grieving person. We all offer the best we have. I don't judge yours, you could at least do me the same courtesy.

Isn't that what you people are always screaming about...tolerance?

Obviously you only meant when it applies to you.

Get off your God damned high horse and remember what it is to be human. I get it. You don't believe in God. That in no way, shape or form changes my beliefs. Never will.
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Re: Just watched my sister have a stillbirth after 5 years of trying. WHAT is the greater purpose?!!
I watched my sister go through five years of waiting month by painful month to get pregnant as she watched all of her siblings have children. It finally happened earlier this year and I have never seen her happier or more beautiful. She took such good care of herself, she did everything right.
I got called to the hospital Monday to watch her go into labor too early and they told her she had to deliver a baby that was too young to make it. He was a boy, and he was beautiful. I cried every tear with her at her side for two days with her wonderful husband and still at home my tears won't stop.
WHAT is this greater purpose?! Every word I tried to say to her as she wept over her perfect son sounded empty and hollow. As a mother to five, how can anything I say even relate to her lonely heartache? My heart broke into a million pieces as we all said goodbye. I gave him my ring I always wear, I'd have buried him with my own heart if I could have.
There's NO reason. None. This post will soon be lost and abandoned among the many other threads but his life deserved a moment of recognition. Let this please compel you to look around you today and show someone close to you that you care. Love those around you with everything you've got, let my nephew's death have meaning on you for one moment to cherish what you have because it could end in an instant.
If you run across this post and you'd like, please post flowers, hearts, or just send your love out to my sister, and my sweet nephew up above.
 Quoting: Strawberrymittens


all of this emotion over one baby, and to think the animal people murder babies in the womb with sharp tools, cutting them up as they try to get away. THE HORROR, THE HORROR

this planet is heaven and hell, moreso hell.
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I watched my sister go through five years of waiting month by painful month to get pregnant as she watched all of her siblings have children. It finally happened earlier this year and I have never seen her happier or more beautiful. She took such good care of herself, she did everything right.
I got called to the hospital Monday to watch her go into labor too early and they told her she had to deliver a baby that was too young to make it. He was a boy, and he was beautiful. I cried every tear with her at her side for two days with her wonderful husband and still at home my tears won't stop.
WHAT is this greater purpose?! Every word I tried to say to her as she wept over her perfect son sounded empty and hollow. As a mother to five, how can anything I say even relate to her lonely heartache? My heart broke into a million pieces as we all said goodbye. I gave him my ring I always wear, I'd have buried him with my own heart if I could have.
There's NO reason. None. This post will soon be lost and abandoned among the many other threads but his life deserved a moment of recognition. Let this please compel you to look around you today and show someone close to you that you care. Love those around you with everything you've got, let my nephew's death have meaning on you for one moment to cherish what you have because it could end in an instant.
If you run across this post and you'd like, please post flowers, hearts, or just send your love out to my sister, and my sweet nephew up above.
 Quoting: Strawberrymittens


I had a stillborn daughter, Laurel. My heart goes out to them. I believe I wil see her one day. They will see their son one day.
I wonder sometimes what it would be like if she lived, what she would look like, what kind of life she would have now, how many more grandchildren I might have, etc. The hardest thing for me, is that my youngest daughter was born years later, just one day before the anniversary of my stillborn daughter, Laurel. My youngest daughter was born with double toenails, one on top of the other. Makes me wonder, sometimes.
My living daughters know they had an older sister. I told them when they were younger. I think by keeping her memory alive, in a way that keeps her alive. No matter what, she is always alive in my heart.hf
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I'm sorry.

It makes no sense.

It serves only to test our mettle and our faith.

As a woman who tried for years to get pregnant, I totally get where you and your sister are at.

But, ONE MUST HAVE HOPE.

I did end up with my sweet baby. I will hold him tighter when I nurse him tonight and say a prayer for your sister.

God bless you both and don't yield to bitterness. Easy to say, I know, but just don't.

Her time will come.
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Think too OP on all the people touched by your story and thoughts. It has served a purpose already.


My husband and I were fighting not ten minutes ago...about nothing and everything. About life and time and hectic schedules. Petty mundane shit.

I read him your post, all choked up. We both cried.

We held hands and he gave me a kiss. The fight over and we both felt ashamed.

We are the parents of a child born 8 weeks early.

I could have been your sister.

You nephew's death has had a purpose in my life - to make me remember what is important and that God work's in mysterious ways.

God bless your nephew and your sister and you.

hf
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I don't understand God and his ways ... many parents would love to be able to have healthy kids but God makes them suffer ... But then there are the evil people of the world like those that trample children and kill the kids for human sacrifice and God lets them have multiple children to torture....

see this tread...

Thread: WTF? INDIA Godman is trampling children and infants to cure them? Warning GRAPHIC
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Have you thought about being a surrogate for your sister. It could be the greatest gift that you have ever given .
BTW I do know what it is like to lose a child.

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And maybe his sweet little soul looked at this wretched planet and said, "Uh, no thanks."

Or, maybe even, "Not now..."
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OMG, OP. To find this thread today is so odd. Today would be the 18th birthday of my full term stillborn grandson.

There is nothing, and I mean nothing more heartwrenching than the breaking heart of a mother in this situation. OP, you recognize how you are feeling, the heartbreak you feel. There is no numerical value that can be given to the degree of your sister's pain in comparison to yours.

For now stay close to your sister. Do nothing but be there when she asks for you. Nothing will console her for a while. She will eventually work through the grief enough to begin to function again.

My son and his wife had another child almost two years later. He was born very premature - 32 weeks, but he survived and is a 16 years old hockey player, as well as his 13 year old sister. They also had a son prior to the stillborn baby.

Funny, that my daughter-in-law had major issues carrying three baby boys. When she became pregnant with her baby girl, it was smooth sailing the entire pregnancy through birth.

I am praying for that little girl for your sister and the mending of her broken heart. Godspeed to her and your family.

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Not to be a jerk be doesn't it seem that if you try to get pregnant for years and can't, then the purpose is that nature doesn't want you to reproduce?
 Quoting: dr. know


Most women are just wired with the desire to have a child. It's natural. It's what our bodies were created to do and it HURTS when we can't.

Not all women feel this way, but many do.

I gave a child up for adoption. I've gotten to know the mother through her letters and I've got to say, I admire and respect her. I'm grateful she was there to be the Mommy I could not be at that time. She's an amazing and generous woman. I feel blessed to have her raising my son.

I wish for all women who can't have a child of their own to find their heart's desire through adoption.

I know it's not always the answer, but it's always something to consider.

I pray the OP's sister is graced with a lovely healthy baby of her own. I pray she finds comfort from her pain and loss.
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I'm so sorry. rose rose rose
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he's back at the source of life. Be happy you got to experience God its purest form. I'm sorry for your pain but just know that that beautiful child is watching over you right now.
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I feel that still born babes hf are highly evolved beings who in their spiritual evolution only need a short span to complete their lessons.
This being came to your sister because she was the most perfect, caring vibrational vessel for his purpose.
Grief will have its way.
May light be with you.
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My thoughts are with you and your family OP! My wife and I have gone though two miscarriages.

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I am so sorry for your families loss.
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My tears have joined yours and your sisters...

May She and everyone touched by your nephews passing, find a silver lining in the renewed love and support by those who love her and can empathize with her tremendous pain...

:heartablaze:

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This is it, as bad as this experience is there is the silver lining with the outpouring of love and support from everyone around you.

Who knows the why of anything like this.

The worst thing for your sister will possibly be the uncomfortable reaction that friends will have around her, when they talk about babies and births.

Your sister will get better but it will be slow and incremental, and if she can talk about it, and cry and acknowledge the pain even years from now, with a loving friend ... all the better.

How is her husband coping? He needs help too.

Best of luck in helping her heal and keep your eyes and ears open to the great many ways those from the angelic realms can provide welcome assistance.
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he'll be in heaven, waiting for her. I lost a baby in a miscarriage, I believe I'll meet that soul on the other side, I pray in Jesus's name I will.
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I contacted.
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I don't understand God and his ways ... many parents would love to be able to have healthy kids but God makes them suffer ... But then there are the evil people of the world like those that trample children and kill the kids for human sacrifice and God lets them have multiple children to torture....

see this tread...

Thread: WTF? INDIA Godman is trampling children and infants to cure them? Warning GRAPHIC
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Oh that really helps! /sarc
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it seems so unjust.

when what your sister wants is so right.. so true.

i have to believe there is some equalizer out there.

something wondrous is due your sister- it's her turn.

hfhfhfhf

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