No, you're trying to claim apples be oranges. If someone is waiting for justice or hurt to happen to someone, then it's a selfish claim. Justice is never selfish, just is justice. Revenge is selfish, and the person you are speaking for in the above post, is waiting for revenge for some perceived slight. The woman you speak of, and claim has no control over her destiny, is not a slave to her destiny.

Sounds like your Nobody needs to suck it up and go stalk someone other.