'We're married, we just don't have sex'

If neither of you feel desire, it is likely to be a hormonal malfunction, not a spiritually enlightened state.

But, I guess if you're happy with the way things are, keep going, I hope you can keep an option open, to have sex in the future.

Nope, you are completely wrong.

I was trying to be nice, but you are pretty judgmental OP. To declare yourself more 'developed' than the rest of us is quite arrogant I must say!

this was a joke from her side (i have to laugh a little bit myself here)

do you understand that you yourself give this view credence by your reply? you yourself seem to believe in the notion of 'more developed people'

get it?

lol

I'm only speaking the truth, Sloane.

I meant what I said xD.

Bet you two book into bird watching tours 12 months in advance power up your iPods and listen to whales calls while trying not to step on the ants

How up tight you must be

All power to you if that's what floats ya boat !!

Hahah you aren't more evolved, just get the satisfaction from different things. Like thinking you're more evolved, I'd put your ego to the side and just accept that you are here with the rest of us. We are your reflection, whether you like it or not.

of course you did!

lol

I completely agree. It is a waste of time to chase sexual satisfaction. As the only purpose of your sexual organs is to ensure the survival of your bloodline, and not for pleasure.

Nope. I really am a more evolved human when compared with those who feel the need to have "sex".

So, if I understand correctly, you both do feel desire, but don't act on it and channel it into other areas?

What do you see as the outcome of evolution?

One who has evolved past physical DESIRES, and focuses instead more on NECESSITY.

Uh no. She or you - claimed to be more 'developed'. I myself would never use that word to differentiate between us humans.

But I'm feeling this was just a big joke. Because who in their right mind would choose to live the way you claim to?

Yes there are 'asexual' people, but that is simply their nature. Nothing to do with being more evolved.

Anyway . . .

I have desires, but one can relieve them without the need to share bodily fluids with another human. That's not to say I don't have sex with my girl, she needs it. I just don't.

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You're an underdeveloped human, so of course you can't even begin to understand what I'm talking about :)

There is more out there.
Like I said before; make love to your spouse's mind, not their body.

So, we are supposed to be evolving to have no pleasure?

Why wouldn't you use that word to differentiate between us humans?

How would you differentiate then, or would you differentiate at all?

What is the part in you which which feels 'threatened' by differentiating with words such as 'developed' and 'more evolved'.

It is sometimes not easy to understand each other, and this is especially true when younger people speak with ones who were here on this earth for a little bit longer.

With age, understanding changes, even the whole dialectic may change drastically, which means that the same words we use in everyday speak have different meanings for the one or other age group. Which or course doen't mean that we're on the same level, at least not on the same level of understanding and knowledge.

For example you are right when you say or ask 'who in their right mind would choose to live the way you claim to?'.

I guess nobody in the right mind would. No joke!

Therefore we may be judged as different or 'crazy'.

There's another side of the pond.

What does 'evolution' mean to you?




(maybe a flowery loveheart will get my questions answered, lol)

If you were so developed as you think you are you'd be beyond romantic love too, moran.

wow

lol

i think this is a question where no descriptive answers in regards to its workings and its outcome or destination can be given.... but this was not the question you asked... or is it?

I don't feel threatened at all! It's just that I don't feel I am superior in any way to anyone else. Nor are they to me. Just on a different path.

I am as spiritually developed as I say I am.

Nah, you just have a huge ego there buddy, believe me I know extremely developed people and they do not communicate in the way which you do.

Well, yes it is the question, you are saying we have different definitions, so what evolution means to you is likely to be different from what it is to me...
try your best to describe it, I know it won't be 100% accurate, but at least we'll get clearer on understanding.





(another flowery love heart for good measure ;)

No, you are wrong :).

Well, OP, if you actually were as developed and evolved as you say you are, you would realize that there are different paths to spirituality. Demeaning other people and other paths just shows how arrogant and underdeveloped you truly are. And that has absolutely nothing to do with sex. I find sex to be boring, but I find stupid and arrogant people to be even more so.

Look you're just naturally prone to not have sexual desire, that just makes your whole struggle easier than other people. You know what spirituality really is? Overcoming the flesh while being hit by sensual stimuli constantly while in the physical world. The condition you're so proud of is not something you have achieved, if you're asexual that just came with your biology.

But something you could work to overcome is your pride, which is clearly very exacerbated, to the point in which you're just not willing to hear anything but your own high perception of yourself.