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'We're married, we just don't have sex'

 
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^^^

Some more.


Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband; and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
(1 Corinthians 7:2-4)
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Now imagine having both a great relationship and great sex! Twice as good!
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Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


This is the proof that you're not coming from a spiritual place regarding your avoidance of sex.

If you you saw sex as something beautiful, but something you've decided to not participate in, then it would be different.

Nope, it's simply low testosterone which means you have a highly elevated risk of cancer later on.

There's probably not enough fat in your diet, which means your brain will also become diseased.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 990186


this AC nailed it here. You can tell alot about someone, how they describe themselve's. Someone who thinks one of our greatest pleasures and a way to physically become emotionally entangled with their partner is disgusting, is not playing with a full deck of cards.
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^^^

Just a bit more.

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
(Hebrews 13:4)
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Now imagine having both a great relationship and great sex! Twice as good!
 Quoting: Chip


Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


This is the proof that you're not coming from a spiritual place regarding your avoidance of sex.

If you you saw sex as something beautiful, but something you've decided to not participate in, then it would be different.

Nope, it's simply low testosterone which means you have a highly elevated risk of cancer later on.

There's probably not enough fat in your diet, which means your brain will also become diseased.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 990186


this AC nailed it here. You can tell alot about someone, how they describe themselve's. Someone who thinks one of our greatest pleasures and a way to physically become emotionally entangled with their partner is disgusting, is not playing with a full deck of cards.
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That AC was way off the mark.
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Betcha the asexual guy eats a lot of SOY.
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Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it.
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Sorry, but that's just wrong. I've got a genius IQ and have done many valuable things in my life. Sex is EVERYTHING as far as enjoyment and fulfillment. WTF is the point of getting married if you don't have sex? That is the reason most guys get married at all, other than to have someone to cook and clean.

As a married guy, you have a right to sex from your wife. That's the "valuable consideration" that she brings to the marriage contract. Otherwise, there's nothing there, and if there's no consummation, then you are technically not married.
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You're spiritually stagnant chuckle.
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^ this.
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i told my fiance if the sex was that damned important go find a fuck buddy. I want love. He gets sex when he gets the love part right. He seems to think being engaged obligates my pussy to his peewee.
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Betcha the asexual guy eats a lot of SOY.
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Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


You are afraid of sexual intimacy you should get some therapy before your body doesn't work any longer. Sex is the act of creating life but also creates great pleasure for the body and mind and also builds confidence and the clouds also look really fluffy when you getting some coochie on a regular basis. You should embrace this life while you are here not avoid it. It is a learning experience, well for those of us aren't turned into mindless media spoon fed dribbling idiots.
 Quoting: Marathon March


I'm not afraid of it, I just find it no way appealing or pleasant. I honestly, find even the thought of it disgusting.

My husband and I have developed beyond that basic animal instinct, and our lives with each other are perfect.

Plus, if you can only build confidence though such acts, you are a seemingly dormant "human" being.
hf
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


People can absolutely be in love without sex. That is possible.

But, it's very unlikely that this marriage will last without sex. One of you, most likely your husband, will eventually want it, which is normal and healthy.

You're missing out on the one thing that can bring the 2 of you even closer together.

Instead of completely shutting your mind off to it, try working on it as it is a healthy part of a marriage.

I have never met a man that didn't want sex. I think something is wrong with this scenario.

I hope it works out for you tho OP. Maybe you really did meet the 1 man on the face of the earth that hates sex, but I"m having a hard time believing that.

Who knows.
 Quoting: Lisa*Lisa


I actually know a dude that had sex with one person really and preferred asexual in general. To think of sex was gross to him, whether it be straight, gay, or lesbian sex. He loved/obsessed over this one woman but he was fine with rarely having sex with her too because the thinking of sex repulsed him so much.

I think for me it is as someone else said. Sex is an extension of my love for someone. I like fucking but when it isnt fun anymore, thats it. I just cant have sex willy nilly until the love component catches up. I want the connection and not just banality of sex because he will just die without it.
cant just spend three hours gaming hop on for a go and nod off to dreamland and expect sex to continue with your chick, guys. Lmao.
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I feel like this is a simple example of why the world will never get along.....way too many points of view... I am all for freedom, freedom of thought , expression etc....but take a simple thing like sex and see how differently people react and we depend on these same people to tell us what is right and wrong in our own lives, pass laws , go to war etc. I love that people have different points of views on things it makes for wonderful discussions..but how are we as a whole going to ever accomplish anything on this planet if we can't get past something as primitave and natural as sex?
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just had sex. it sucked. nothing special bout it bro.
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I dunno man... reproduction is an instinct. One you can supress yes, but totaly? I dunno man.
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Make love to you lady's mind, not her body :)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


I tried, but she wouldn't take it in far enough. The truth is, my wife and I haven't had sex in eight years. I am old, she is old, and by the time we finally crawl into bed, all we want is sleep. She is also the best reason for declining sex.

The biggest question I have about sex is why it is suppose to be so damn exciting. I have never understood why GOD would put an recreation center right next to a toxic waste dump., unless it isn't suppose to be an recreation center.
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i told my fiance if the sex was that damned important go find a fuck buddy. I want love. He gets sex when he gets the love part right. He seems to think being engaged obligates my pussy to his peewee.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


The better question for you is: why is this person your fiance if you aren't even sexually compatible? You clearly still have issues in that department.

I for one would certainly not be engaged to someone in those circumstances.
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My husband and I have developed beyond that basic animal instinct, and our lives with each other are perfect.




I am human...I am female...I am animal....I have instinct....I am lioness.....HEAR ME ROAR when my husband , my best friend, my soulmate, my lover , ..... wants to get all tangled up! :)
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My husband and I have developed beyond that basic animal instinct, and our lives with each other are perfect.




I am human...I am female...I am animal....I have instinct....I am lioness.....HEAR ME ROAR when my husband , my best friend, my soulmate, my lover , ..... wants to get all tangled up! :)
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** edit** The top part of that was a quote from op....the later half was my response
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i told my fiance if the sex was that damned important go find a fuck buddy. I want love. He gets sex when he gets the love part right. He seems to think being engaged obligates my pussy to his peewee.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


The better question for you is: why is this person your fiance if you aren't even sexually compatible? You clearly still have issues in that department.

I for one would certainly not be engaged to someone in those circumstances.
 Quoting: Urban


Because i still feel like there is hope and under the right circumstances im a nympho, he is just so dense -.- mainly on the loving me part. we could be so compatible if some efforts were made. He sees all this as punishment whereas i just see it as an extension of my love which i cant extend right now.

The other side of this is im on some pretty bad meds right now for epilepsy that make me really terrible to deal with such that small things turn into big deals but i dont want to leave because of medication.
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Now imagine having both a great relationship and great sex! Twice "more better"!
 Quoting: Chip


Not necessarily, most having the great sex begat children they do not properly raise or plan for. Sex was not created as entertainment.
 Quoting: God Loves ALL


Disagree.

If it wasn't entertaining, people wouldn't have it. Then, there would be none of us.
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Because i still feel like there is hope and under the right circumstances im a nympho, he is just so dense -.- mainly on the loving me part. we could be so compatible if some efforts were made. He sees all this as punishment whereas i just see it as an extension of my love which i cant extend right now.

The other side of this is im on some pretty bad meds right now for epilepsy that make me really terrible to deal with such that small things turn into big deals but i dont want to leave because of medication.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


That can only work if both of you make a genuine attempt to think and act in a way that is different from your ordinary self. Otherwise, you are simply going to butt heads until your strength runs out, and with no energy to maintain the relationship it will disintegrate.

I say this out of personal experience, I was in a very similar situation to you guys in a past relationship. Everything's clear in hindsight of course, I was both right and wrong, she was both right and wrong, and both of us wanted to change the other person into someone different so we wouldn't have to change ourselves. We really loved one another but after 4 years of pushing, all the energy had been used up and we went our separate ways.

Not a fun experience, I wish you guys good luck.
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You don't say?
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We are not married, we are divorced. Get over it and let go. A sexless marriage is an abomination and goes against human nature.
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Wow, you really don't say.
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We are not married, we are divorced. Get over it and let go. A sexless marriage is an abomination and goes against human nature.
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That said, if there is a medical condition that's a different story.
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Wow, you really don't say.
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rofl
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We are not married, we are divorced. Get over it and let go. A sexless marriage is an abomination and goes against human nature.
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bsflag
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Wow, you really don't say.
 Quoting: -GooGooFlexy-


Hahaha
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Now imagine having both a great relationship and great sex! Twice as good!
 Quoting: Chip


Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


Whoa! You're all fucked up! See a doctor...and report back.
 Quoting: Chip


I don't think so :)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


EXTREMELY overated!!!!

Grow UP!

I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... .
clappa
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Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


Whoa! You're all fucked up! See a doctor...and report back.
 Quoting: Chip


I don't think so :)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


EXTREMELY overated!!!!

Grow UP!

I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... .
clappa
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1327743


applause2
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Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


Whoa! You're all fucked up! See a doctor...and report back.
 Quoting: Chip


I don't think so :)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


EXTREMELY overated!!!!

Grow UP!

I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... .
clappa
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1327743


Underdeveloped humans generally feel the way you do. Have a flower hf
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Whoa! You're all fucked up! See a doctor...and report back.
 Quoting: Chip


I don't think so :)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


EXTREMELY overated!!!!

Grow UP!

I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... .
clappa
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1327743


Underdeveloped humans generally feel the way you do. Have a flower hf
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988


If I misinterpreted your post, I apologise hf

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