I am happy that you are happy. However I am a female few years older than you. I have been with the same man since we were 14 and married for 10 years this summer. We have 2 amazing children that yes we do provide for and my husband enjoys providing for us. That being said I enjoy his touch his body and I desire it from him, on the flipside I enjoy pleasuring him and indulginf in the pleasure together is amazing.