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'We're married, we just don't have sex'
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Because i still feel like there is hope and under the right circumstances im a nympho, he is just so dense -.- mainly on the loving me part. we could be so compatible if some efforts were made. He sees all this as punishment whereas i just see it as an extension of my love which i cant extend right now.
The other side of this is im on some pretty bad meds right now for epilepsy that make me really terrible to deal with such that small things turn into big deals but i dont want to leave because of medication.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912 That can only work if both of you make a genuine attempt to think and act in a way that is different from your ordinary self. Otherwise, you are simply going to butt heads until your strength runs out, and with no energy to maintain the relationship it will disintegrate. I say this out of personal experience, I was in a very similar situation to you guys in a past relationship. Everything's clear in hindsight of course, I was both right and wrong, she was both right and wrong, and both of us wanted to change the other person into someone different so we wouldn't have to change ourselves. We really loved one another but after 4 years of pushing, all the energy had been used up and we went our separate ways. Not a fun experience, I wish you guys good luck.
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