'We're married, we just don't have sex'

this AC nailed it here. You can tell alot about someone, how they describe themselve's. Someone who thinks one of our greatest pleasures and a way to physically become emotionally entangled with their partner is disgusting, is not playing with a full deck of cards.

^ this.

People can absolutely be in love without sex. That is possible.

But, it's very unlikely that this marriage will last without sex. One of you, most likely your husband, will eventually want it, which is normal and healthy.

You're missing out on the one thing that can bring the 2 of you even closer together.

Instead of completely shutting your mind off to it, try working on it as it is a healthy part of a marriage.

I have never met a man that didn't want sex. I think something is wrong with this scenario.

I hope it works out for you tho OP. Maybe you really did meet the 1 man on the face of the earth that hates sex, but I"m having a hard time believing that.

Who knows.

Make love to you lady's mind, not her body :)

i told my fiance if the sex was that damned important go find a fuck buddy. I want love. He gets sex when he gets the love part right. He seems to think being engaged obligates my pussy to his peewee.

My husband and I have developed beyond that basic animal instinct, and our lives with each other are perfect.




I am human...I am female...I am animal....I have instinct....I am lioness.....HEAR ME ROAR when my husband , my best friend, my soulmate, my lover , ..... wants to get all tangled up! :)

The better question for you is: why is this person your fiance if you aren't even sexually compatible? You clearly still have issues in that department.

I for one would certainly not be engaged to someone in those circumstances.

Not necessarily, most having the great sex begat children they do not properly raise or plan for. Sex was not created as entertainment.

Because i still feel like there is hope and under the right circumstances im a nympho, he is just so dense -.- mainly on the loving me part. we could be so compatible if some efforts were made. He sees all this as punishment whereas i just see it as an extension of my love which i cant extend right now.

The other side of this is im on some pretty bad meds right now for epilepsy that make me really terrible to deal with such that small things turn into big deals but i dont want to leave because of medication.

We are not married, we are divorced. Get over it and let go. A sexless marriage is an abomination and goes against human nature.

Wow, you really don't say.

We are not married, we are divorced. Get over it and let go. A sexless marriage is an abomination and goes against human nature.

Wow, you really don't say.

I don't think so :)

EXTREMELY overated!!!!

Grow UP!

I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... .

EXTREMELY overated!!!!

Grow UP!

I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... .

Underdeveloped humans generally feel the way you do. Have a flower

Yeah, really, sex is for the proles!!

Truth is, you are impotent and unable to get it up. Sex disgusts you because you are unable to pleasure a woman. You knew that, you just needed to hear it from someone else.

A real man takes care of his wife's pussy. He fulfills her needs.

Women's' libbers marry pussy men who cannot do a real day's work. A real man can work all day and take care of a woman at night, even if he has an office job. A liberal pussy man worries about whether or not his ancestors perpetrated injustice on anyone. He has been intellectually castrated by white guilt, even though he works 10 hours a day so the government can take his wages and give them to people who were never oppressed.

A real man and a real woman have sex. They care for each other and they satisfy each other. Liberals bathe in their guilt, and are neutered by it, even though they never did anything but read bad things about their ancestors, who built the country.

Thinking the reproductive process is "disgusting" is a form of phobia. I'll venture to say that the OP was abused as a child in some form.

In fact, any of you who are trying to say that sex is overrated, gross etc...are really off your rockers. The human mind is so complex that he term "can't see the forest through the trees" becomes an understatement. Seriously...perhaps the globalist mind fucking, poisons in your food, and the idiot box has finally fucked us up!

OP probably also believes the earth is over populated.