see now you are getting judgmental against the people who enjoy hot sweaty sex with their partners, nothing wrong with laying in bed together ready to go to sleep and feeling your spouse next to you, I as a woman love the scent of my husband and the sound of his deep voice that TURNS ME ON AND MAKES ME WANT HIM...sex is disgusting with strangers, one night stands, no respect for one's self but with the person you love its amazing...maybe you guys don't love each other?