Easy OP.

You're ruffling feathers amongst the cavemen here,. Lol

The people attacking you are defined by their genitalia. Im willing to bet that the attackers are mostly, if not all, men. For them, being a "man" means having a big "stick" and strutting it. How else would they define themselves if they didnt use their stick?

The idea of a life without sex is impossible for them. Worse, they insult others who find a meaningful life without the need of sex.

If they only knew that women could care less. And their stick competitions are nothing more than cavemen chest-thumping-rights amongst themselves.

So how could they imagine a life, never mind a relationship, without using their sticks? The vast majority of people equate sex with love.

Kudos to you and your spouse for rising above the bonds of physical entrapments.