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The Torture and Insanity of Limerence

 
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11/30/2012 05:14 PM
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The Torture and Insanity of Limerence
There is no worse mental torture on this planet than limerence and unrequited love. I have been thinking of her every waking moment for 2 months. We only speak via text or facebook and when I ask her to get together she's made excuses. I decided that I wasn't going to play her games and am now trying to cut off all contact. I can't stop thinking about her, the only respite I get is sleep and even then sometimes I dream about her.
How do I end this mental torture? I am 37 years old, divorced, and this has NEVER happened to me before. I have been in love but never like this.
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11/30/2012 05:16 PM
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She always texts me first.

"how are you today"
"what have you been up to"

But always makes excuses not to meet. So I stopped asking.
Last night she texted me a video from Youtube of some kid having a fit, I guess she thought it was funny (or maybe she knows how I feel and is teasing me?) I didn't respond.

Today is the worst. I cannot concentrate on anything else other than this overwhelming desire to be with her.

Goddamn this mental prison to hell.
wwwasp

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11/30/2012 05:19 PM
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wow.


sounds so familiar...................
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Re: The Torture and Insanity of Limerence
wow.


sounds so familiar...................
 Quoting: wwwasp


Do you know how to make it stop? Other people told me to go after other woman but they all look like dogshit compared to this one.
wwwasp

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11/30/2012 05:23 PM
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wow.


sounds so familiar...................
 Quoting: wwwasp


Do you know how to make it stop? Other people told me to go after other woman but they all look like dogshit compared to this one.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22788475


wow.


sounds so familiar...................
 Quoting: wwwasp


Do you know how to make it stop? Other people told me to go after other woman but they all look like dogshit compared to this one.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22788475


i know, from my experience, there is only the one...

the rest just numb moments...

at best...
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11/30/2012 05:27 PM
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This is a completly life altering state of mind, more than a "crush", very intense feelings of affection towards her, unreciprocated. Sometimes I fantasize that she feels the same way, but I know she is just out there living her life, and texts me when she is bored, or perhaps smells my vulnerability and enjoys toying with me. Maybe the demon gods are doing this to me to create loosh.

When the feelings are unrequited, it can destroy ones life.
wwwasp

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11/30/2012 05:31 PM
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hm.



if you cannot break free there is a message in your mental matrix you probably want to listen closely to....



i will never give up my feeling for the woman i love...even if she cant stand still long enough to trust me.....
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11/30/2012 05:35 PM
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hm.



if you cannot break free there is a message in your mental matrix you probably want to listen closely to....



i will never give up my feeling for the woman i love...even if she cant stand still long enough to trust me.....
 Quoting: wwwasp


When I close my eyes I see her face. I didn't know this could happen to grown men, who have had relationships and been married. It is sick, I feel like I am being mentally tortured. I know part of it is loneliness from my failed marriage and lack of potential partners (the town i live in is very small).
I pray to God every day to remove her from my mind so I can enjoy the things I used to enjoy.
I know all of this is very pathetic. My friends don't know, my family doesn't know how I feel.
wwwasp

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11/30/2012 05:37 PM
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why attempt to remove her?


i dunno,,


i feel for ya.





"loneliness is a cloak you wear...a deep shade of blue....is always there...". SW
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11/30/2012 07:32 PM
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Time to cut off all contact. No more FB, block her texts, yes?
wwwasp

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11/30/2012 07:35 PM
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i say no.


dance like you are infected.



what else is there?
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11/30/2012 08:56 PM
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i say no.


dance like you are infected.



what else is there?
 Quoting: wwwasp


sanity and serenity?





GLP