It's taken me quite a while but I've spent hours going over every single post on this thread.
I have to say, I believe in these dates, partially due to the numerous sites that have supported my beliefs, but also because I believe in what I 'know' to be true.
OP, I KNOW your heart is to get this message out to the masses and I understand your passion.
However, I also know that our Creator/Father knows everything in the future from the past and He already knows who will and who will not 'choose' to believe and desire to come 'Home'. These people are written in 'books' that were written before the foundation of the Earth.
I personally believe that the 18 days from the 3rd to the 21st is the period of time of 'grace' where our Father will give the 'non-believers' the opportunity to change their minds and choose to 'come Home' and relinquish their stronghold to this earth.
You have done everything you can to get this message to everyone on this forum. Trust in our Father to complete this and rest in Him. He is in control of everything. Rest and trust and just look forward to our future...it's a whole new world that is 'complete' in the love it was created in...
Much love and hugs....