Almost 30 and still a virgin...

Who cares about other people. Lol

Then go get some. Go to Vegas and get a prostitute.

Then figure out what it will take to get a woman

In the real world, what people think of you affects your entire outcome in life. Think about it.

Ugh. I guess.

I'm a Christian, I'm tempted but it ain't worth risking heaven.

so you won't lose your virginity until you get married then?

What rules do you follow?

do you attend church? join some of the groups in church if possible because there are some girls there who will be more similar to you and you can both talk about jesus and turn each other on

Don't define yourself by this.

There is no one "similar" to me, I'm a very unique specimen, unfortunately.

Sex is very much overrated, so don't worry. You're not missing out on anything important.

And what about companionship and love? I wish i could experience that.

Who gives a shit. 99.9% of all women are influential whores who will leave any man for one who is more attractive, has a bigger dick, and has more money. True love makes up < .01% of relationships out there. Stop caring so much and live life single, maybe you'll get your chance in another life if it doesn't come around this time.

If you think that having a lover is the source of one's happiness than you have been greatly deceived. That is basically propaganda from our corrupt media.

You actually have a unique advantage. Without the constraints implied by marriage you have an opportunity to save money, to travel and to gain many experiences that most people could only dream of.

Get yourself buttoned up. Get in shape, get an education, travel and take the less traveled path. Don't worry about this stuff. Besides foreign women like Americans, if that's where you are from.

Take on this quote from our greatest president, Theodore Roosevelt,
"Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat.
"

As far as education here is another awesome quote from the same man,
"A thorough knowledge of the Bible is worth more than a college education. "

And what about companionship and love? I wish i could experience that.


You could not be more right friend. Too few seek these, yet lust and entrap themselves. Patience.

I'm in the same boat as you. I see lots of posts that sex is overrated etc, but without that experience its hard to understand that. But i think they are right, i tried to be with some girls before but i received messages in my dreams that this was not in my best interest, God even prevented it. So everyone that is not similar to you, is not good enough for you to be your companion.

Look for beauty on the inside, not the outside, for beauty is only skin deep. If you can find a woman that has faith in God, then you have won half the battle. The rest is up to you! I truly believe there is someone for everyone, you may have been looking in the wrong direction!
Been married 30 years, with 5 kids, and 3 grand kids, and love my wife more than when we first met. And forget 50-50, it is 100 percent from both!

Have you ever met Mary Palm and her five sisters?

Just pray about it. And it's true if you have sex before marriage you'll basically sort of defile yourself. It's not the end of the world but it's not the right path to go down. It's better to find someone you can marry, love and build a future with.

Ive been with the same woman for thirty years we fuck all the time you folks that say sex is overrated dont have a clue.Fucking is great.

you are not the only one..I am 26 soon and still virgin...

Well that's one! All we need now is for the 143,999 others to step forward.

First of all.

You are so unique that you can find no one like you. Perhaps you should examine yourself and start making attempts at fitting in with others if you wish to meet a mate. Relationships are about compromise. If you aren't willing you are never going to have one. So pull your head out of your ass and give a little bit.

2. It is only pre-marital sex if you plan on marrying them.

3. If you believe that having sex with a woman out of wedlock is going to cost you your ticket into heaven, then you must be a really shitty human being in every other way.

Sorry, but good people do good things. Their actions are justifications for the rewards of the after life. I will not bash your religion or your faith, but remaining a virgin or not having sex because you not married being the deal breaker for getting into heaven regardless of how many other good things you do is a little absurd.

Here is an idea. I have never read Thou Shall Not have sex outside of marriage in the 10 Commandments.

Even Noahide Laws only say sexual immorality, and per Levitical Law pre-marital sex is never mentioned in the Arayot or forbidden acts.

In fact, in the entire bible there is no concrete specific mention of pre-marital sex. And certainly not in the first 5 books of the old testament which are the law books.

If you follow Pauline Christianity, then those laws are tossed out with the exception of the Ten Commandments and he wasn't even one of the 12 Apostles.

I'm 26, and honestly, I couldn't imagine life without sex.


Sure, the bible says no sex before marriage. But if you really wanna be a godtard and a bibletard, you need to deeply reflect is THAT path is right for you.

If you are coming on GLP because you are depressed, and your instincts tell you that you need to get laid, but you are afraid to because you feel you are "risking a shot at heaven".....well friend, to be brutality honest, you need to stop being a pussy, enjoy life, and take some risks.


Life is not about fear. It is not about the afterlife. It isn't even about religion. Life is about living from your heart, and making decisions each and every day. Some are great decisions, some arent. THe point is, you live entirely from your heart, and you get to experience this physical world in all its glory. If you are AFRAID to do that, because of some manmade religion, I feel very sorry for you.


Sex isn't a sin. Sex before marriage isnt a sin. Marriage is even a manmade thing, even your BIBLE admits that.


I really, honestly hope you take some time to sit down in your life, and really think about things. No one should be miserable, and if some "holy" book is making you that way, it obviously isn't as holy as you were led to believe, now is it?





Sex is NOT the answer. No body is claiming it is. But until you go out and experience it, you WONT know what you are missing. Obviously your body and soul are craving the experience, Id say go for it.



Everything IVe heard from the OP so far has been some excuse as to why he cant or wont have sex. And yet the whole Original post was him feeling unhappy that everyone else is, but he isnt.

You need to be a man, and stop whining about what you DONT have in life. ANything you dont have in life is because YOU didnt take it. Step up to the plate son

go get a past life regression...could be past life vow..

hope that helps

I'm 30 and don't get laid anymore. After my X ruined my fucking life I just said to hell with all females. But up to this age I got a lot of pussy so I can die happy. But wtf, 30 and a virgin? Fuck that.

You're gay. Admit it and move on with your life.

Don't get herpes.

Lots of slags have herpes.

rule #1 for relationships. If it seems to good to be true. It is.

Whatever you do don't do it with a prostitute. You could get aids, you could get robbed, you definitely won't be given a good time, the basically take advantage of the naive and innocent. Not like in the movies. They're basically nearly criminals. They're not to be trusted. If you have to score you might have to lower your standards a bit. But again that's kinda gross!!!