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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 20559344 United States12/02/2012 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is the other rejecting YOU personally or your approach? How many have rejected you? Has your approach changed at all fundamentally? Rejection is scary because we think it is a rejection of US and not the approach. Work on the approach, and you will not worry about rejection too much because your new way will bear fruit here and there, which is enough to mute the pain of jilted overtures. |
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| Perseus7 User ID: 28260886 United States12/02/2012 02:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it is what it is. move on and you may find things get better for me anyway. turn all negatives in you to positives. you will be surprised how often I get what I am after despite the setbacks, at least in my experience it has been this way without fail. shrug. % Last Edited by <%)oM34PrIm|(%>< on 12/02/2012 04:58 AM 1s 2s 2p 3s 3p 4s 3d 4p 5s 4d 5p 6s 4f 5d 6p 7s 5f 6d 7p |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 24512322 United States12/02/2012 12:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it is what it is. move on and you may find things get better for me anyway. turn all negatives in you to positives. you will be surprised how often I get what I am after despite the setbacks, at least in my experience it has been this way without fail. shrug. Quoting: Perseus7 % But sometimes you have to step outside your comfort zone to get what you want, yes? I feel like I never really done that. I have baby stepped outside, but nothing big. Seeing that regrets outweighs rejection, you guys helped me. I hate the wondering what if.... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28917027 Canada12/02/2012 12:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Regret is much worse, regret is the acknowledgement of guilt. But regret and rejection are not only confined to relationships. It can happen anywhere, work, business. And some people find relationships harder then life. And others find life harder then relationships. It all works out to about half. But regret always hurts more. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28574209  Portugal12/02/2012 01:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Regret off course. Rejection only exists when you are expecting something in return from someone. Besides, when you have been in the "game" long enough you will realize it doesn't even matter. Heck, not even God appeals to everyone so how can you? You can't have everything, deal with it and tell that fragile Ego to shut the fuck up and be a man. :) Another thing, if you need exterior factors to be happy there's something wrong with yourself. Rejection shouldn't have any meaning to you if you were already happy to begin with. One last thing, most of the time no one is even rejecting you, just the way you present yourself. Change yourself and the "world" will change how it sees you. |
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| TheSeventhGate User ID: 28910388  Ireland12/02/2012 01:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Regret is worse imo. The pawns are in place, the stage is set. The question is, are you ready? Righteous anger and Zeal does not equate to hate,pride or arrogance and are fully justified. Soon, all the slaves will be released, for the Jubilee approaches. Let them give glory unto the LORD, and declare his praise in the islands. Isaiah 42:12 And God said unto him, I am God Almighty: be fruitful and multiply; a nation and a company of nations shall be of thee, and kings shall come out of thy loins. Genesis 35:11 America(Maneesah), Britain(Ephraim) and the Prophesied Common-Wealth(Company of nations) Saul/Paul, the false Apostle. [link to www.judaismvschristianity.com] [link to www.jesuswordsonly.com] The transplanted Throne of King David to Ireland,Scotland, and England fulfilling Ezekiel 21:25-27 Prophecy. [link to www.henrymakow.com] [link to www.giveshare.org] The "Lost" Ten Tribes of Israel...Found! [link to stevenmcollins.com] Proof that the Law of Moses is still in effect. [link to www.biblegateway.com] [link to www.biblegateway.com] [link to www.biblegateway.com] [link to www.biblegateway.com] 777 |
| Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States12/02/2012 02:00 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | rejection, regret can easily be forgiven and it doesn't need approval from people. It is easy to overcome regret forgiveness of self and to move on.. It is the rejection that hurts the most. Saying someone cares and really they don't. What if god was here for instance, with a learning disability the biggest thing that is my gripe is that people don't give two shits about people that quite just don't get it all it takes a right word or someone with enough love to may be share there view in loving kindness to help so one will be able understand. But as the famous saying goes "I AM NOT YOUR TEACHER" Then why in the hell do we preach the Christ? Love your neighbor as yourself? Are we just trying to teach to a certain sect of people who can only figure out riddles??? I am revalutating my personal walk with my Creator, that is why Love and forgiveness is the fastest way to Heaven. Not by how much you know, It is easy for a child spirit to enter into the EYE of a needle than it is for a rich man.... That is my two cents on this issue. Don't you know ye are all gods? Yeshua/Christ Jesus/Esu Sananda/Christ Michael Aton/CM/ATON was Jesus Christ oversoul as he walked the earth,set up the Kingdom of Heaven within. To get to Father/Mother God is through your own Heart Portal, we have been gifted the HOly Spirit/HigherSelf as our guide. [link to www.machiventamelchizedek.org] [link to www.abundanthope.net] Thread: Starships above my home Love yourself, and your world will heal around you like the waves in the ocean. When ONe unites with the Holy Spirit/HigherSelf, it becomes your mate, you are inlove with the Divine within, then comes the relationship for he is the direct line to Father Source so you experience that connection, so then it becomes your rule of measure as to who knows the FAther, The kingdom is within... The Path to the New World is guilt, shame, and regret free. Dear Father Mother God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change what I can (Me) and the wisdom to know the difference. I AM getting better everyday. Truly....... God's dream is our Destiny...Light and Life. We can do it. Spirituality + Technology= Balance into Light and Life. A personal decree " That I will be harmless to myself and others" |
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| Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States12/02/2012 02:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I see myself evolve I see myself humbled living simple not a care in the world other than helping my brother. How many people learn to really love someone they hate? ever try that? Yeshua/Christ Jesus/Esu Sananda/Christ Michael Aton/CM/ATON was Jesus Christ oversoul as he walked the earth,set up the Kingdom of Heaven within. To get to Father/Mother God is through your own Heart Portal, we have been gifted the HOly Spirit/HigherSelf as our guide. [link to www.machiventamelchizedek.org] [link to www.abundanthope.net] Thread: Starships above my home Love yourself, and your world will heal around you like the waves in the ocean. When ONe unites with the Holy Spirit/HigherSelf, it becomes your mate, you are inlove with the Divine within, then comes the relationship for he is the direct line to Father Source so you experience that connection, so then it becomes your rule of measure as to who knows the FAther, The kingdom is within... The Path to the New World is guilt, shame, and regret free. Dear Father Mother God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change what I can (Me) and the wisdom to know the difference. I AM getting better everyday. Truly....... God's dream is our Destiny...Light and Life. We can do it. Spirituality + Technology= Balance into Light and Life. A personal decree " That I will be harmless to myself and others" |
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| my2centsworth User ID: 5382682 Canada12/02/2012 02:10 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | With rejection, I'm assuming you've given it your all, and then the rejection...hurts like hell, but in the end, you can still say, I did my best, and if my best isn't good enough.. at least I tried, "I gave it my best", it wasn't meant to be. You can then move on. With regret... that is something that will haunt you till the day you die... all the "what if" scenarios your mind can find, you will think of and then some... In my opinion,regret is far worse. |
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| Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States12/02/2012 02:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why are you not doing what our eldest brother Jesus Christ/Christ Micahel Aton/God advised us to do? does he want you to judge me? Your does he want you to use your mind and do the best you can and go within and use what you got? But I forgive you, for you do not know blasphemy, careful who you regard as blaspheming... For I am my Fathers Daughter. Yeshua/Christ Jesus/Esu Sananda/Christ Michael Aton/CM/ATON was Jesus Christ oversoul as he walked the earth,set up the Kingdom of Heaven within. To get to Father/Mother God is through your own Heart Portal, we have been gifted the HOly Spirit/HigherSelf as our guide. [link to www.machiventamelchizedek.org] [link to www.abundanthope.net] Thread: Starships above my home Love yourself, and your world will heal around you like the waves in the ocean. When ONe unites with the Holy Spirit/HigherSelf, it becomes your mate, you are inlove with the Divine within, then comes the relationship for he is the direct line to Father Source so you experience that connection, so then it becomes your rule of measure as to who knows the FAther, The kingdom is within... The Path to the New World is guilt, shame, and regret free. Dear Father Mother God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change what I can (Me) and the wisdom to know the difference. I AM getting better everyday. Truly....... God's dream is our Destiny...Light and Life. We can do it. Spirituality + Technology= Balance into Light and Life. A personal decree " That I will be harmless to myself and others" |
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| Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States12/02/2012 02:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | With rejection, I'm assuming you've given it your all, and then the rejection...hurts like hell, but in the end, you can still say, I did my best, and if my best isn't good enough.. at least I tried, "I gave it my best", it wasn't meant to be. You can then move on. Quoting: my2centsworth With regret... that is something that will haunt you till the day you die... all the "what if" scenarios your mind can find, you will think of and then some... In my opinion,regret is far worse. thankyou,,, rejection also helped me to realize just how I am and stand on what I know to be true not by what someone else thinks what is best for me. Yeshua/Christ Jesus/Esu Sananda/Christ Michael Aton/CM/ATON was Jesus Christ oversoul as he walked the earth,set up the Kingdom of Heaven within. To get to Father/Mother God is through your own Heart Portal, we have been gifted the HOly Spirit/HigherSelf as our guide. [link to www.machiventamelchizedek.org] [link to www.abundanthope.net] Thread: Starships above my home Love yourself, and your world will heal around you like the waves in the ocean. When ONe unites with the Holy Spirit/HigherSelf, it becomes your mate, you are inlove with the Divine within, then comes the relationship for he is the direct line to Father Source so you experience that connection, so then it becomes your rule of measure as to who knows the FAther, The kingdom is within... The Path to the New World is guilt, shame, and regret free. Dear Father Mother God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change what I can (Me) and the wisdom to know the difference. I AM getting better everyday. Truly....... God's dream is our Destiny...Light and Life. We can do it. Spirituality + Technology= Balance into Light and Life. A personal decree " That I will be harmless to myself and others" |
| Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States12/02/2012 02:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No I don't think so, like I have regret because instead of growing, I drowned myself in addiction to cover my pain, but now I am glad that I have overcome everything, and finally giving up the last demon (cigerettes), yeah its regret, but God forgives, and I have forgiven myself, To move on to the new world is regret, remorse and guilt free. Yeshua/Christ Jesus/Esu Sananda/Christ Michael Aton/CM/ATON was Jesus Christ oversoul as he walked the earth,set up the Kingdom of Heaven within. To get to Father/Mother God is through your own Heart Portal, we have been gifted the HOly Spirit/HigherSelf as our guide. [link to www.machiventamelchizedek.org] [link to www.abundanthope.net] Thread: Starships above my home Love yourself, and your world will heal around you like the waves in the ocean. When ONe unites with the Holy Spirit/HigherSelf, it becomes your mate, you are inlove with the Divine within, then comes the relationship for he is the direct line to Father Source so you experience that connection, so then it becomes your rule of measure as to who knows the FAther, The kingdom is within... The Path to the New World is guilt, shame, and regret free. Dear Father Mother God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change what I can (Me) and the wisdom to know the difference. I AM getting better everyday. Truly....... God's dream is our Destiny...Light and Life. We can do it. Spirituality + Technology= Balance into Light and Life. A personal decree " That I will be harmless to myself and others" |
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