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Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States 12/02/2012 02:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But regret to me is not what I have grown as a human being to be ONE with my FAther Mother God, but regret is did I do my best to show light to another? If for only reason I am here, it is to do the Will of my Father, no one really knows what we all have done for our Father but him, But the biggest regret is not doing or making someone feel good about themsleves when they are down. Take away someone's faith in God. Now that would be regret, have I done or did anything to keep someone from realizing there potential? That is regret. All of you need to realize that I think God as in Christ Michael Aton has many names as in El Shaddai, Eyeh Asher Eyeh many more that I can't think of right now, but its all there. I hope you realize that we all need to hug our brother... He is under every religion. Man is the one who messed up and decided to defy God. For God has been here all along within us. We just can't look past to eachothers counntires dogma, we are all brothers and sisters. GOD IS ALL AND ONE IN THE SAME>>>>>and GOD LOVES ALL www.heavenletters.org |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 28903211 Germany 12/02/2012 02:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why are you not doing what our eldest brother Jesus Christ/Christ Micahel Aton/God advised us to do? does he want you to judge me? Your does he want you to use your mind and do the best you can and go within and use what you got? But I forgive you, for you do not know blasphemy, careful who you regard as blaspheming... For I am my Fathers Daughter. You are spreading stans doctrine who told eva in the garden of eden: You can become like gods. Man is not god. Man is a servant of god. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1505901 United States 12/02/2012 02:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Trust me. Regret is far, far worse. It eats at your soul. Years later, you wonder "What if?" I'm assuming this is about a girl. Alot of guys who have found the woman of their dreams often got rejected the first few times they asked her out. We girls like the chase, and want to see if you really want it. So, don't give up. I was impressed by my husband's confidence to approach me, and his presistence to keep trying even when I held back a little. Just be yourself, and try to be relaxed. Don't come across desperate, but don't be a jerk either. You've got to have the attitude that says "I'd like to go out with you...but it's not the end of the world if you say no". That will drive her CRAZY. Women like to have all of your attention. Before you know it, the tables will turn, and SHE'LL be pursuing YOU. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 28930149 United Kingdom 12/02/2012 02:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Regret is worse. You can't go back to that moment in time and so if you regret something which you did or did not do it will stick with you forever and you will forever be thinking "what if?". Rejection is not as bad as regret. At least you know the outcome which allows you to learn and develop further as well as grow from that particular moment or point in time. |
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Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States 12/02/2012 02:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why are you not doing what our eldest brother Jesus Christ/Christ Micahel Aton/God advised us to do? does he want you to judge me? Your does he want you to use your mind and do the best you can and go within and use what you got? But I forgive you, for you do not know blasphemy, careful who you regard as blaspheming... For I am my Fathers Daughter. You are spreading stans doctrine who told eva in the garden of eden: You can become like gods. Man is not god. Man is a servant of god. Just what in the world do you call a HOly Spirit? It is God in dwelt, It is of the God head, See this is what I am talking about see we miss it. Your telling me I am wrong, lol Isn't that being a god in training to co-create? www.heavenletters.org |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 28604448 United States 12/02/2012 03:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just wondering for those who have lived and learned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322 What is worst to live with in the long run? It depends on each person, thge better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all story. Pro: the person is so enriched in his/her life by love that whatever comes after is more than worth it. Con: Love is a drug. It's high is better than coke/smoke/herion and all the rest combined. When it is over, the loss is like coming down off all the drugs combined. Looking at it that way, was the high worth the detox??? Personally: if you are lonly, it sucks, but if you never really know what your missing, it is much less of a loss. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 19436166 New Zealand 12/02/2012 03:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just what in the world do you call a HOly Spirit? It is God in dwelt, It is of the God head, See this is what I am talking about see we miss it. Your telling me I am wrong, lol Isn't that being a god in training to co-create? A? holy spirit,The holy spirit there is only 1, and it is gods spirit, its not co-creating is trying to pull you back in line to gods word, as best we are able as man, you spread the worst of lies and are very experienced in it |
Math is Squared User ID: 5927304 United States 12/02/2012 03:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Rejection involves the interpretation of an outside event. Regret is the rumination of perceived failed handling of an event or choice that is is now history. Both are common distress reactions. Neither is mandatory. That said, I've seen rejection kill, and I've seen regret ruin quality of life. Rejection reactions are more common and intense in relationships in the young. Regret seems to be more common in the daydreams of later years. When rejection is simply the 'spin' one puts on failing to obtain a desired acceptance, or when regret fails to note that all events - within ones scope of power and outside it - are what makes one who one is, they are mistakes. Mistakes because no one knows the future, and in order to be feeling one or the other, one is usually assuming a finality, and ignoring the possibility of an unexpected, or yet conceived, positive outcome. Not to say that rejection by ones entire tribe, or regret at egregious harm done to others are trivial or not valid. But I can think of few sadder things the mind can do than to trap one in these things, wasting precious time. (yes, I've dabbled in both) |
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milehighmike User ID: 339344 United States 12/02/2012 03:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Rejection may be painful for an instant, or for a lifetime...Regret is usually painful for a lifetime... As Jim Rohn once said: “We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.” Last Edited by milehighmike on 12/02/2012 03:49 PM "Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, 'What's in it for me?'" — Brian Tracy: Personal and business training author, speaker, and consultant "We are all, right now, living the life we choose." -- Peter McWilliams, Author "The bad news is time flies. The good news is you're the pilot." -- Michael Altshuler |
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