Got called out by my attractive coworker

1 year? You're no bro, bro.

GLP, I have a pretty cute coworker. She's in a committed relationship, and I don't even really believe in workplace dating, so it's safe to say nothing would ever happen between us.

The problem is, I do catch myself glancing at her from time to time when I'm bored cause she's easy on the eyes. Anyways, today, when we found ourselves working in close proximity at one point, she leaned over and said quietly to me, "Why do you keep staring at me?"

I kinda freaked out, froze up and just muttered, "Huh?"

To which she just said, "Nothing." And kept going about her work. What's weird is that she had treated me totally normally up until that point, and acted like nothing had happened afterwards. We talked on a couple other occasions before we left for the day, even though I was so weirded out I tried to avoid her for as long as I could.

I caught her glancing at ME a couple of times, as well. Obviously she's on to me. I guess I fucked up by not being more discreet. Anyways, what was the point of it all? Was her question a warning shot telling me to stay away and she didn't feel the need to really confront me afterwards? Like I said, I never planned to try and make anything happen between us.

Alright, you sick bastards, what's your take on the situation? What should I do? Quit and get a different job? Ignore her? Act normal? Am I in too deep to save myself further embarrassment?





Tl;dr: Hot coworker notices I keep stealing glances at her. Calls me out, kind of, and then acts totally normal. What do?

Stick it in.

I think the answer is obvious. Take her into the broom closet and

If you don't, then you should confront her and say "I would really like to take you into the broom closet and but I am a spineless limp wristed coward who has no balls and therefore could never allow this to happen without shitting in my fruit o the looms at the thought of talking to you. When I look at you I am overcome with a ravening lust, but at the same time a deep burning in my bowels forces me to admit to myself that I will never be more than a fantasizing perverted wuss and then I am forced to lock myself in the bathroom stall and wank my willy, then slink back to my cubicle to soak in my feelings of guilt and inadequacy for the remainder of the day.

GLP, I have a pretty cute coworker. She's in a committed relationship, and I don't even really believe in workplace dating, so it's safe to say nothing would ever happen between us.

The problem is, I do catch myself glancing at her from time to time when I'm bored cause she's easy on the eyes. Anyways, today, when we found ourselves working in close proximity at one point, she leaned over and said quietly to me, "Why do you keep staring at me?"

I kinda freaked out, froze up and just muttered, "Huh?"

To which she just said, "Nothing." And kept going about her work. What's weird is that she had treated me totally normally up until that point, and acted like nothing had happened afterwards. We talked on a couple other occasions before we left for the day, even though I was so weirded out I tried to avoid her for as long as I could.

I caught her glancing at ME a couple of times, as well. Obviously she's on to me. I guess I fucked up by not being more discreet. Anyways, what was the point of it all? Was her question a warning shot telling me to stay away and she didn't feel the need to really confront me afterwards? Like I said, I never planned to try and make anything happen between us.

Alright, you sick bastards, what's your take on the situation? What should I do? Quit and get a different job? Ignore her? Act normal? Am I in too deep to save myself further embarrassment?





Tl;dr: Hot coworker notices I keep stealing glances at her. Calls me out, kind of, and then acts totally normal. What do?

Do you want to be a homewrecker?

Then you have a choice, right? Remember, everything that comes about because of that choice is your fault, and yours alone.

Op, it's exactly as you pointed out. She noticed you staring, and she called you out on it. Now, she's acting normal.

You - should act normal too! No big deal.

Just tone down the staring a bit.

The 'purpose' of her calling you out may have been because 1. It was getting a tad uncomfortable for her, and a bit too obvious 2. She thought something may have been out of place or weird with her, that needed explanation

"You shall not covet your neighbor's wife. You shall not set your desire on your neighbor's house or land, his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor." - Deuteronomy 5:21


Evil cunt.

Don't get your honey where you make your money.

if she's willing, then you're not ruining anything that she's not already in the process of ruining herself.

1. STOP looking at her
2. STOP obsessing over her
3. Try dating OUTSIDE of your place of employment

You're on a dangerous path, OP. This is your workplace; just stop your obsession.

Pull it out and say 'what are going to do about this then?'

Do you want to be a homewrecker?

But only the tip for 30sec

Free samples don't count!

Of course not!

Though I get the feeling this is still gonna end badly.

A2m gape

OP, you could have responded with something like "Oh, I'm sorry! I didn't mean to make you uncomfortable. I just find you very attractive to look at."

Then she can either flirt or tell you to stop it.

Missed opportunity but the way you can bring it back up is to say something like "I caught myself staring at you again! I'm sorry but you are right. I do like to look at you. I'll try to stop that."

Then she can either say it's OK or not. And you won't have done anything offensive.


But before you go any farther with this office romance, you might want to check the company's policies on dating or whatever within employee ranks.

Don't be "that guy" OP. What if that was your wife or girlfriend, cheating on YOU?!

OP, you've come to the right place to ask for information on what to do with your life choices. Listen and do everything said in this thread and I am sure your life will turn out fine.