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Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?

 
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Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Can someone help me out? I'm trying to understand if cheating on your partner is normal or not. I don't find it to be normal since I'm loyal and give my all, but why are others so concerned with sex and having relations with someone else? Is sex really that important?

What are your opinions on cheating, having sex countless of times, and staying with one person till death? Would you do it and do you think long term relationships are normal?

One thing I dislike is that people who cheat show that they must live a lie and disguise the truth to their loved ones....why would you give it all up to sleep around only to come home to an empty home....

Sex lasts for a few minutes or hours and then it's back to the same cave...
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12/03/2012 08:56 AM
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Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1508876


This isn't true.

People use to be decent husbands/wifes to one another.

Even in the media.

...Then it all changed - and now you cannot find a loyal person at all!

All selfish.
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


what do you mean by that?
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


what do you mean by that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383


How often do you see a man not give a shit about his gf/wife in order to get laid in the media (TV shows, movies), and how the wife always takes them back, usually.

And vice-versa.

It's conditioning OP.
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The presence of modern media has to factor in since TV, movies, books, magazines, music, etc. are helping to keep people in a hyper-sexed state of mind.
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
People are not naturally monogamous. This is why most 'less-developed' groups practice having multiple partners and historically it was the standard.
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1508876


This isn't true.

People use to be decent husbands/wifes to one another.

Even in the media.

...Then it all changed - and now you cannot find a loyal person at all!

All selfish.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


hf
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People are not naturally monogamous. This is why most 'less-developed' groups practice having multiple partners and historically it was the standard.
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This doesn't mean people have to be hateful, lying, cheaters.
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1508876


This isn't true.

People use to be decent husbands/wifes to one another.

Even in the media.

...Then it all changed - and now you cannot find a loyal person at all!

All selfish.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


Women basically got a license to do what they want and thus generate one train wreck after the other.

Men, admittedly always used to have mistresses, but they never threatened the fabric of an intact family. With women being allowed to have affairs, they continuously feel the need to 'follow their true feelings', leave husband and family behind for a fling on the side, get bored and move on to the next one.

Women are stupid. While it is true that men do not understand women, they still understand them better than women understand themselves. Nobody will ever be able to understand women, they act on a whim with no logical, recurring pattern in their behavior.
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
People use to be decent husbands/wifes to one another.

Even in the media.

...Then it all changed - and now you cannot find a loyal person at all!

All selfish.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


I believe that's all going to change once the power grid goes down for good. After the initial chaos and millions of deaths, the survivors will settle into a pre-industrial way of life in which a woman's very survival will be determined by her subservience to a man and willingness to be protected by a man. No more of this feminist "I am woman, hear me roar" bullshit.
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Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1508876


Even though as ludicrous as this statement is, I still find it hilarious!!!

:0003:
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Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1508876


This isn't true.

People use to be decent husbands/wifes to one another.

Even in the media.

...Then it all changed - and now you cannot find a loyal person at all!

All selfish.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


Women basically got a license to do what they want and thus generate one train wreck after the other.

Men, admittedly always used to have mistresses, but they never threatened the fabric of an intact family. With women being allowed to have affairs, they continuously feel the need to 'follow their true feelings', leave husband and family behind for a fling on the side, get bored and move on to the next one.

Women are stupid. While it is true that men do not understand women, they still understand them better than women understand themselves. Nobody will ever be able to understand women, they act on a whim with no logical, recurring pattern in their behavior.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24394728


Currently a mans world.
No balance.

Hard for women to be real in a fucked up system.
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


what do you mean by that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383


How often do you see a man not give a shit about his gf/wife in order to get laid in the media (TV shows, movies), and how the wife always takes them back, usually.

And vice-versa.

It's conditioning OP.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


I see, thanks for trying to make me understand. I'm still confused though. What is the goal in making people have countless of sex over and over again? Isn't there some other reason in life...? I see that the main reason for cheating is mainly sex and attraction to others..but I'm not sexual or care much for the beauty of others..why am I loyal and most of everyone not? Where did I go wrong?
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1508876


This isn't true.

People use to be decent husbands/wifes to one another.

Even in the media.

...Then it all changed - and now you cannot find a loyal person at all!

All selfish.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


Women basically got a license to do what they want and thus generate one train wreck after the other.

Men, admittedly always used to have mistresses, but they never threatened the fabric of an intact family. With women being allowed to have affairs, they continuously feel the need to 'follow their true feelings', leave husband and family behind for a fling on the side, get bored and move on to the next one.

Women are stupid. While it is true that men do not understand women, they still understand them better than women understand themselves. Nobody will ever be able to understand women, they act on a whim with no logical, recurring pattern in their behavior.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24394728


Currently a mans world.
No balance.

Hard for women to be real in a fucked up system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


For cock's sake, are you serious?

Women already influence the current system more than they should. We are heading straight for the iceberg with a menstruating idiot at the helm.
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
It is the search for something bigger, same as materialism - we go through life without finding our path and learning why we are here - we feel empty and fill this void with the things that make us feel alive. The problem is it is temporary, we get that quick thrill and then associate that to feleling alive, but it did not completely satisfy so the those who do not look into the deeper aspects of life just go back to the mall and Try to shag something new.

The media is a great excuse, the only problem is that people are completely responsible for their own actions, you always have choice and should exercise free will and do what is right for you not what media, church, state or anything tell you.

That is my take anyways....
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It's fun to jizz in/on different people grinning
With freedom comes responsibility.

Heterosexual pride!

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Because the reality we live in is one of duality. Dual morals, dual sets of values - we desire to be with many people, and yet are shocked and deeply hurt when the one(s) we love want someone else too.

It's a paradigm that needs to change...but will be most difficult to, unfortunately.
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It's fun to jizz in/on different people grinning
 Quoting: BRIEF


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It's fun to jizz in/on different people grinning
 Quoting: BRIEF


Always short and too the point... sort of like his sex life!

Just kidding!
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It's fun to jizz in/on different people grinning
 Quoting: BRIEF


I don't find it fun. I think it shows weakness and shows lack of meaning and true purpose. I think sex is overrated and people who think it's very important should go hire a permanent hooker and dig themselves in a ditch somewhere with them.
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


what do you mean by that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383


I think he means we're intentionally manipulated by the media.
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12/03/2012 09:27 AM
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


what do you mean by that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383


I think he means we're intentionally manipulated by the media.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28989498


It seems like it. It's all about pleasure, having countless sex partners, cock size, blah dee blah. It's so tiring.
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12/03/2012 09:30 AM
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
nobody has mentioned the most important things: birth control and legal abortion.

up until the 1960's women did not have sex until they were married (mostly). Why? not because the did not want to but because there was no birth contrla and if they became pregnant they were in serious trouble. it was illegal to have an abortion.

women are not stupid. they were not going to put themselves in that position, have a man knock them up, ruin their lives and social reputation etc.

the pill and legal abortion allowed men and women to have sex without consequences. the media has little to do with it, it only reflects the change.
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
nobody has mentioned the most important things: birth control and legal abortion.

up until the 1960's women did not have sex until they were married (mostly). Why? not because the did not want to but because there was no birth contrla and if they became pregnant they were in serious trouble. it was illegal to have an abortion.

women are not stupid. they were not going to put themselves in that position, have a man knock them up, ruin their lives and social reputation etc.

the pill and legal abortion allowed men and women to have sex without consequences. the media has little to do with it, it only reflects the change.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27143111


I see what you mean and I agree that women and men now have the opportunity to have sex with countless of partners without having to worry. The thing I'm trying to figure out is why do people cheat on their partners and is it normal? Why is sex such an annoyance and why is it always the deal breaker of a relationship?
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The presence of modern media has to factor in since TV, movies, books, magazines, music, etc. are helping to keep people in a hyper-sexed state of mind.
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I agree. People are bombarded with sexual imagery almost 24/7. A hundred years ago people probably didn't think of sex as much as they do now when faced with internet, TV, movies, magazines, billboards, people in skimpy clothing etc.. filled with sexual images.
"Arrows of hate have been shot at me too, but they never hit me, because somehow they belonged to another world, with which I have no connection whatsoever." - Albert Einstein
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Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
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Even though as ludicrous as this statement is, I still find it hilarious!!!

:0003:
 Quoting: J-Honey


THat was my whole intention. Glad someone understands my sense of humor.

5a
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It's fun to jizz in/on different people grinning
 Quoting: BRIEF


Quagmire is that you? Giggity
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12/03/2012 09:42 AM
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Lol all the females in my family say

"if you really want it and she has a boyfriend you can still get it, women are easy"
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
People that cheat are the scum of the earth.

op.

Do not cheat, ever.

People are easily "sold", on issues. They are the same people that trade their 2011 bmw for the new 2012 bmw.

Its really just an issue of being small minded. Usually when a person cheats they are being led on a ruse; Mainly by a third party, in which they tend to trust. The person has only one goal, which is to get in their pants; Even if there is a small fraction of actual "feelings for the partner"; In the end: It will only play out to that person sooner than later, getting bored, and finding another women / man to "sell" too.

An honest man or women would wait, They wouldn't attempt to gain any progress into a relationship with a significant other that was spoken for. This includes lunches, dinners, gifts, ect...

Any person that seeks to reward a Taken person is Trying to sell an idea, and buy "sex".

I wouldn't ask anyone that was "taken" out for any occasion... Its not right to me, or them, or their current lover.

I feel in an honest relationship: If the partner is no longer satisfied that they can "move on" with their partners blessing. Anything else, is obviously abusing them and is Not Normal behavior...

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